Do I have to wait for such a relationship? Or am I overthinking?

Updated on society 2024-04-12
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's the first time I've seen such childish feelings, but fortunately, I've been through a lot, so I've learned a lot. In my college life, I loved!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's clear he likes that girl! He hasn't paid much attention to you yet!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    That man definitely likes people. You'd better get out early.

    A man cares so much about a woman, and he definitely doesn't treat her as an ordinary friend. Just imagine, would you care so much about every ordinary friend around you? No way.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Women's wishful thinking is the stupidest! Don't cry for a tree, it's not worth it! Unless the woman rejects the man, you will have a chance to be noticed.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He was really good to that girl.

    You can increase your contact, and there's another problem you have to consider, if your boyfriend cares so much about other girls, you'll be jealous!

    At that time, it will be easy to escalate even if there is a small problem, and the pure friendship between men and women is difficult to find, and it is difficult to achieve, so the relationship still has to be restrained.

    Once an ordinary boyfriend and girlfriend have a partner in a relationship, the relationship between good friends should also be stopped in moderation, because others have the care of love, and if they are not careful, they may not even be friends, after all, the relationship between lovers is closer!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Oh, I love you, but it has nothing to do with you, you can love, but whether he loves you or not is another matter, if it's just pure love, then you can love it, even if you can only love it in your heart, even if he doesn't know, but if you think about holding hands with him, then it depends on how you develop, if he already likes that girl, I think you should also weigh it well, and understand that what doesn't belong to you is not yours after all.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    He fell in love with that woman, as for whether you want to continue to have a crush on him, it's up to you, that man just has a few sides with you and can't talk about love, it's better to break off that kind of affection as soon as possible, or it will be very bitter in the future. Think twice, think again.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If they're the best friends you care about the most, then you'll have to change it Let's talk about it first, the main and secondary are clear, whether they come first or others are the first (just friends) You have a lot of outgoing friends, the problem is that they can't fit in, and they will also feel embarrassed, and they will feel that you are still different (for a long time, feelings are easy to appear...).You have more friends, and you have fewer of them, and you have a sense of presence, and your feelings about each other are complicated (at least a lot of the time, it's a delicate feeling).

    Like your last sentence, even though you have other friends, there are only a few of them...So quit or not depends on their position in your heart, whether it is important or not, whether you need to change it"Stammering"It's up to you to get them back in.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's good to maintain a general relationship, they can only isolate themselves from everyone's periphery, you don't have to be envious, just be a slightly better friend of ordinary friends.

    To put it simply, you can't give up an entire forest for one or two trees.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think it's important to stay in the relationship, but stay away.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1. From what you reflected, it seems that this man likes your friend, and he likes it deeply.

    2. You have euphemistically expressed your crush, but he is indifferent and does not show any better or worse attitude towards you, which means that she does not like you.

    3. A man already has a woman he loves, and this woman has accepted his love, this is a happy couple. That's when you fall in love with him, irrepressible love, and you find yourself sinking deeper and deeper, and I'm going to tell you, it's a bottomless pit, don't sink any further. Even if you have one in 10,000 hopes, success is a failure, because your success can only be based on his betrayal.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's pretty obvious, that guy likes your friend very much! They just don't want to say it, they all know it!

    Just give up, don't kid yourself!

    If you confess, under normal circumstances, the man won't accept it at all, because he has someone he likes!

    Even if the man accepts you, you have an extra boyfriend, and you won't have a good friend less, and it will be awkward for the two of you to meet.

    Look at the point, there are many good men in the world.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's like lovers.

    But he said unsure that I wouldn't give up.

    Since it's so hard, let's explain it to him.

    Why bother yourself with it.

    Even if the answer is painful, it's better than being in a daze.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You've asked this question a few times, and almost all of them have told them that the two are a couple, but you still want someone to stand up and tell you that you think too much, in fact, he is chasing her to get close to you! To be direct, do you dare to confess, if you have the courage to confess once in front of the two of them, you will know the result immediately! Why torture like this!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Do you mean to know him in a relationship? Or did you just meet through your girlfriend?

    If you and he just know each other and are not yet in love, then the relationship between him and your friend believes that you also have a feeling in your heart, and the sixth sense of girls is very strong, although this statement is unscientific but it is also true.

    I've had the same problem as you, and the result is that I'm making a fool of myself, so it's better to have a choice than a short pain.

    2. Force yourself not to think about him anymore, not to see him, not to ask him anything from your friends, not to reply to his **text messages, and it is best not to even leave **, so as not to send him a text message or call ** when you can't help it.

    I think these two methods are the best, if you don't want to, you can only be in a dilemma like now, maybe in the end because he made you and your friends not have a good relationship, because we can't control our emotions in these things.

    Be strong! No big deal! There are many men in the world, and there are countless waiting for you to choose! You just tell yourself that it's good to forget about it after a while.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's better to be friends than lovers. A friend can unleash everything, while a lover hides everything, afraid that you will see his displeasure.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    They love each other, but the way of love is different, you let it go, why bother to sink yourself deeper and deeper. He doesn't love you, and you're going to be more miserable if you go on like this.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    --I don't know who is dead in the deer, if you like him very much, he will chase him, but you and your good friends are not friends...

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you leave them and keep doing this, you'll get hurt, and there's only one thing that gives you hope: that he's denying that he likes her. But why does he deny that you thought about it?

    It's possible that he feels that the time is not ripe to say it and he will lose her, or it is possible that she won't let him say ......But you must know that his denial is definitely not really disliking her, nor is it interesting to you, on the contrary, it has nothing to do with you. Take a step back and open the sky! Learn to let go, or empathize.

    Don't be bitter about yourself, you will fall deeper and deeper!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Let it go, like a kite with a broken string

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You fight to make him feel your presence.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Being in love is just a feeling.

    Understand the distress in your heart.

    But there are a lot of dramas in life, and if you don't pay attention to anything, everything has become a short-term self-confidence in the past year, and you can confess it once.

    Many years later, no matter whether the husband next to you is him or not, you will still curl the corners of your mouth and miss your youth and courage.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    That guy really likes your friend.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Sweat, it's no good to hold on, let it go.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You don't want to lose a friend but you really want to have this man, it's impossible, you can only get one, which one are you more sure of? Think for yourself. If you don't choose well, you will lose everything.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Be decisive, maybe she doesn't belong to you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's better to persuade you to give up, if a woman likes a man, she won't let him wait that long. And now that you're in college, you're already separated, and you're not as close as before, or after a long time, you'll find better, and you'll suddenly feel like you're just liking her, not love.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The man was indecisive. You be careful.!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    ...Speechless to him, his jealousy shows that he likes you very much, what a strange person.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You can try to date other girls more. Take your focus off for a moment. It's yours that can't run away.

    It's not that you can't force it. Let it be.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think it's time to give up and give you my opinion, one of them: you are in the IT industry, she has her own company, then she must have a variety of customers and keep in touch with the company's business, even if there is nothing you must not be used to, you will feel inferior, even if you become a husband and wife in the future, you can't do their own thing, then the body and mind will not be together; Second: If one day her career is bigger than yours, busier than yours in business, and she has more time to contact customers, which customer calls ** to ask her to go to dinner one day, then you are not upset every day, or do your career first.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Just like many men want to have as many women as possible because they have capital (money or looks).

    Women also want to make the most of their unique resources, and it is shameful to waste them! It can be seen that she is the kind of woman that most men would like. And she is also happy to have as many friends of the opposite sex as possible and maintain an ambiguous relationship with them, there will be a sense of superiority, a sense of achievement, satisfaction, happiness, this is nature, nature is difficult to change, if you think you can tolerate it for a lifetime, find a way to marry her, such a woman Many men do not want to ask back to be a wife - trouble.

    Although there are so many men around him, it is rare to be so infatuated with you, and she is likely to agree to you; If you feel that you can't do it, or it will make you miserable, and you are not willing to give up, then have fun with her, rest assured, and it will not hurt her, which is a mutually beneficial thing. When you get tired of it, let it go and find someone who can get married and have children.

    I'm sorry, I'm talking straighter, maybe I'm not quite right, please forgive me.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Talk to her, don't mention the past, don't think about this and that, men are rarely like you, it seems that you love very much, if you can't think about it, it's better to break up, so as not to be tired in the future.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Marriage is actually not just about two people, it is about the marriage of two families, or even two families!

    If your aunt and his uncle have divorced, the two of you should hate each other. A person's life has a very long road to travel, and there are many, many trials to go through. With all due respect, without the blessings of your loved ones, it will be difficult for your relationship to last!

    It's better to break up in time while each other is young, long pain is better than short pain!

    I wish you to find happiness!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's a matter for the two of you to be together, but your parents will have unhappy knots in their hearts, afraid that you will also be abandoned by your boyfriend.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    All I can say is that marriage is the union of two families, the union of his family and yours, and is no longer a matter between the two of you. So be cautious.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Let's disperse, don't embarrass your parents.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You are the same grandson, you should be the closest in your family, cousins!

    But people are not the same, the version is that they first have the right to look down on and do not contact you, so that the family affection is diluted, then, you should not tend to be inflammatory, and borrow the light of a good man. In these years, mules are worth a lot of money, but people are "big" and worthless, stay away from them, fight for their own breath, don't say more than them in the future, but also strive to be on the same side as their shoulders, this is called anger!

    Young people, it's all like this now, my buddies and sisters are not close, but my mother's family, "the relationship is hot" It's nothing, we can't care about it, that's the will of the people, just let him go.

    Young man, your sentence "Although their father is also my uncle, their mother has helped me and my family a lot, but I will do my filial piety in the lifetime of their older generations, as for them, hey, there is no point", the old man appreciates it very much, you are a kind and caring person, I hope you can fulfill these promises!

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    In fact, now there is a social kinship problem, and I think you take it too seriously.

    It has been said that it treats relatives other than their own parents.

    Just like a friend.

    Fake when it's supposed to be fake, true when it's supposed to be true.

    Make them feel that you are good for them and that you can help them one day.

    Try to do something that makes them happy, even if it's not something you want to do.

    That's where it should be.

    Now this society is like this, saying that it is relatives, not interests in front.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Interpersonal relationships are a profound science! Maybe we may not be able to appreciate its fur in our lifetime!

    The world is hot and cold, and the warmth and warmth are not clear and clear that can be said in a few words!

    This is true in society, and it is also true in families! Maybe when you're younger, you think about it or how little you care about the coldness of your relationship with others! But this family affection is forever severed!

    For now, you don't have to think so much and think so much, just live a wonderful life, as for the relationship with your family, you don't have to worry too much, you just have to live in a big way, you don't have to be too stiff, and you don't have to force yourself to win with a smile! If your family is in trouble in the future, when you can help, it's best to reach out and help them, just to have the right conscience!!

    Don't think about anything else, just remember one sentence, justice is in the hearts of the people.

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