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If you work hard, it's good to have a clear conscience!!
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There are a lot of young men in this situation like you.,There's a thirty-four-year-old male compatriot around me or a person.,Look at people living very well.,Don't be in a hurry or be impatient.,Someone introduced to meet and meet.,No suitable person doesn't force himself.,In fact, it's only to blame the current people for taking material desires too seriously.,That's why you have today's situation.,No matter when you have to live well.,This is the embodiment of ability and wisdom.。。
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Don't worry, brother, it's nothing if you don't marry at thirty, there is time and opportunity, don't rush to the doctor, you still have to find the right one. Don't think about the family's expectations of you, or relax, first of all, do a good job, and then usually pay attention to some club activities and know more contacts, you will naturally find good women, and finally I hope you want to be confident, confident people are the most handsome! I wish you success!
The five poisons are all done by villains, and they may not be able to start and finish well! You're still not confident and enduring!
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You didn't steal or rob anything, and you said that you went back to the right path!? Other people are outgoing and enthusiastic, and you are already enthusiastic and flamboyant!? Not confident, compared with others, this is your problem!!
Can you smile confidently at everyone? Can you praise others for their merits? When someone criticizes you, can you ask them what you have lacking?
Let's change, the hardest thing for a man in his thirties to do is change.
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Maybe you won't be able to tell which path is the right one until the next fork in your life journey appears!
A friend asked you if you regret the path you have taken. If only two or three years ago I would have regretted it. As for the present or the future, I don't think I can talk about regrets, but I feel more or less sorry.
Because it took too long to walk on this winding fork in the road, but it was more or less rewarding.
My first fork in life was when I was 14 years old, and if I had chosen to stay with my grandparents, maybe my grandparents would have been fine. I won't have my grades plummeting and I will make the wrong choice for the second fork in the road.
The second fork in the road in life was in high school, if I chose to continue my studies instead of choosing to drop out of school and go out to work, then I would not have met the person who was entangled with me for the next ten years, and at the same time the person who guided me on the right path before the third fork in the road. Unfortunately, I still chose the wrong fork in the road.
After going around in circles, I still returned to my own path, and I thought that it was my own right path.
There will be many forks in the road of life, and what kind of road you choose will see what kind of scenery. To the east - you can see the Pearl of the Orient Shanghai, to the south you can go to Sanya, Hainan to feel the tropical seaside style surrounded by the sea, to the west - you can reach Hoh Xili, which is known as a paradise on earth, and to the north - you can go to the Inner Mongolia prairie to feel the wild and uninhibited vastness.
However, no matter which path you take, you will eventually return to the path that is your own way home. It's just that the amount of time each person spends is different, but the scenery they see will also be very different.
Everyone's life is irreproducible, the wrong path you have taken cannot be changed, and there is no need to change, and every road you have walked will become a guidepost to guide you to the right path in the future.
How you go on the road of life is entirely up to you, and it doesn't matter if you regret it or not. Even if you go back to the previous intersection and choose anew, you may feel that every road you have ruined will be wrong when you go to the next fork. You can only make what is right for you when the next fork in the road comes along.
Because you can't tell if you're choosing the right one until the next fork in the road comes along.
Cherish every moment you've been through, and the people you've met along the way, especially the people you've walked with you all the way to where you are now. end
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Life will go through many forks in the road, once you make a mistake, you must turn back in time.
Changshu, who likes to navigate, said: "You have deviated from the course, please make a U-turn at the right place ahead".
Life is like an unfamiliar road, how to go ahead, we are at a loss.
There are many forks in the road of life, and everyone will feel lost when they pass through the forks.
Lu Xun once said: "There is no road in the world, and when there are more people, there is a road."
Life is like finding the way, sometimes we find the right way, sometimes we find the wrong way. There are some roads that you have to turn back in time once you make a mistake.
When I dropped out of school, I thought I was on the right path. It wasn't until I came out to work that I realized that I had embarked on a road of no return.
This road is very difficult, but Xun Tong has already gone wrong, and there is a way to turn around, what should I do?
There is no way, this road is chosen by yourself, and you have to finish it even if you kneel.
At the fork in the road between dropping out of school and working part-time, I have already taken a wrong step, and there is no way back. All I can do is accept the reality, struggle with it, and try to carve out the right path.
If you love the wrong person, you have to let go in time, and if you go the wrong way, you have to turn back in time. No matter how far you go, don't forget what you're set out for.
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To tell you a cruel reality, civil servant, it's not something you can do with a high score. You should know that you have been in society for so long.
Relationships matter. Can your family members give you the connections to join the civil service?
Many people with high test scores have not been able to enter the civil service for 8 years. The reason is that the interview is not passed.
You have a good income now, and you still have so many ideas. Feeling, not steady.
Advice: Go ahead and develop in the field you are familiar with.
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Shinong Industry and Commerce? That was said a long time ago, and for people nowadays, only profit is the most important. Do you feel like you can fit in with life in the system?
How far can you go if you can't get used to it? Can you compare yourself, what is more enjoyable? Can you support your wife and children, a car and a house?
No one can say for sure what will happen in a few years, so look to the future and follow your heart's choice.
It's more vain, because it's related to your future, so don't dare to say anything.
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Fate is in your own hands, blank articles, waiting for you to add color.
Standing on the crossroads of life, where to go, follow your own feelings.
There is a give-and-take].
Good luck, friend.
Effort is important, choice is more important than effort, choice is more important than choice.
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Your question is indeed complex and a headache. I'm an undergraduate student about to graduate, but I'm actually already working, and to be honest, the pay is really not high now, but I can learn a lot. My suggestion to you is not to look at the current interests, but to focus on the future development, more development space may wish to try, grasp the present, we are qualified to talk about the future.
Personal opinion, make a friend. Huh
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I was in a similar situation to you, and in the end I chose to develop my current career.
Like you, I dare to ask, what is the relationship in your family, and if you have a better relationship, you have a chance to be promoted as a civil servant, and the future is limitless. If the relationship is average, then if you go to be a civil servant for a few years or an ordinary civil servant, you can't get along, and there will be three mountains pressing you in the future, so it is better to stick to your current position, and the money is bright, because it is now an economic society.
The road is still up to you, think twice.
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In the world, each has its own position, each has its own value, each has its own world view, each has its own outlook on life, and each has its own values. It is necessary to fully respect the independence of each person, respect the personality and privacy of others, and under no circumstances should we infringe on the legitimate behavior and thinking space of others, nor can we impose our own ideas on others.
You are a smart person and I am sure you will make the right choice!
I hope you can be happy and happy.
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This is really a life choice, you should think in the long-term interests, and you should not look at things from the perspective of your family, because you live for yourself and live a wonderful life for yourself; Although family is important, it is you who will accompany you through the rest of your life. I hope you don't let yourself live a miserable life because of some hesitation, and you should make a decisive decision.
Because civil service is not your own will, even if you go down this path, you will not be happy, your life will not be better from now on, on the contrary, it may become bad, so you should understand what you need? Smart people should understand it themselves, I won't say much here, I wish you a happy and happy life in the future!
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Do you want to start a family or start a business? Think it out for yourself.
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There is nothing wrong with the path you choose, it depends on how you walk your path.
This is my life motto, I hope it can help you.
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Choose according to your own actual situation, once you have made a choice, you must move towards the goal, no matter what difficulties, you must believe that you can get through! Don't put too much pressure on yourself either!
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A situation like this will happen to many people!!
Most people listen to their families, because they believe that their families will not harm them, even if it is difficult, they also want to have the help of their families, and they can also take the road they give.
But I don't want to be like that, life is my own, what I want to live is. I can't live in other people's physiognomy, I can't live in the life that others give, I have to choose my own life, even if it's difficult, I don't regret it when I look back on it later.
In a word, brother follows his heart, only he knows what he wants most, don't do things that you regret.
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You are an adult and can no longer live under the "guardianship" of your family; Live your own wonderful, and other people's opinions can only be referenced; You can't compare yourself to others. Analyze your abilities and situation and choose the most suitable path. I forgot which old commander said to his offspring "The principle that determines anything:
Needed and possible. The same applies to you and me. If you think clearly about your needs and possibilities, you will naturally see your own broad road.
I wish you a happy journey to happiness.
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=。=Let's start a business first, you must have strength to gain a firm foothold in society
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Life is up to you! If you go against your original intention, what's the point of doing it well?
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Look at the forks in life with a rational eye Any decision will make you gain and lose Don't let your emotions influence your judgment.
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In fact, as long as there is a goal to go on, if you still want to work now, you can use your spare time to review the content of the civil service exam, and go back to the exam when you take the exam, whether the exam or not, your current job can still be done, and the family can be regarded as having an explanation, and then decide to go or not to go after the exam, and how can a good position in the civil service be so easy to get into our hands, is there no civil servant leader of the seven aunts and eight aunts or something, and there is money to go through the back door. Since the family's economic conditions are not very good, I personally think it is better for you to maintain the status quo.
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You can't have it both ways, now that you have the answer in your heart, take that step bravely.
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I've just graduated for over a year. I've been thinking about these questions, it's not a big deal compared to a few decades in life, you have to know what you want your life to look like. One thing that is certain is that when we are 40 or 50 years old, life will be fine, there will not be too many financial problems, the heart needs to be appeased, we must always say all is well to our heart, and do not let unnecessary worries interfere with our choices.
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Don't think too much about it. Ask yourself first.
What are your goals? Why live. In fact, why do people live?
Ideals, beliefs, affection, friendship, wealth. Power, power, etc., what is the ultimate purpose of getting this? Isn't it all spiritual satisfaction?
Isn't it all happiness? Aren't all these two words the ultimate pursuit of people? Huh
As long as you're happy, why worry too much. Happiness is also rare, easy to obtain, contentment, and long-lasting happiness. Happy every day to my friends!
There are a lot of things that don't go well in life. There are so many things that we can't choose where things start.
The end of the matter, but the only thing we can choose is how to face him. Think about it, isn't it? Start by asking yourself what you are interested in, and then ask yourself what you can do?
It is best to combine it with the development needs of the market. Of course, interest is the best teacher, or it is recommended that you learn a skill, and failing in the college entrance examination does not mean that you will fail in life. Aren't a lot of wealthy people all local cultures?
Hehe, why? In fact, it's not because of your own pursuit, your own heart, I don't know if you have found it, there are many well-known universities, such as Tsinghua University, Peking University, and other well-known universities at home and abroad, and tens of thousands of students graduate every year, but how many of them have really reached the peak of their lives? Very rare, very few.
Why? Aren't they knowledgeable enough? Don't they know enough?
Obviously, this is not the case, because of their self-motivation, try to ask a job that can earn 3,000 yuan a month without taking risks, and a business that needs to take risks but earn 5,000 yuan, I think most people will choose the former. Hehe, this is human nature, people are inert. This can be explained.
Like Huang Guangyu, Liu Yanlin, Li Ka-shing, and many other people have succeeded in their methods. They have nothing to worry about, some of them are enthusiastic, unlike those with high academic qualifications, who have to take care of losing their excellent jobs. As a result, the great opportunity was lost in hesitation.
HuhThe education level is not high. Knowledge is not abundant.
Unafraid. In fact, what you learn in college is basically not used in society. In the same way, we also have an advantage over them, that is, self-motivated, we have no choice, we have no way out, everything has to move forward.
There is a gain and a loss. That's it. Hehe, I wish my friends a happy day.
Life is not all smooth sailing!
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