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Anonymous users2024-02-08The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy. Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!
Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted. Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable.
Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable. When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.
When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Was the love affair he had experienced before really that serious? In fact, as long as he is wholeheartedly devoted to you now, it's fine! People make mistakes all the time, and it's the same when it comes to love!
No one is born an expert in relationships! The experience of love also needs to be accumulated! Just like life experience, so is work experience!
Let the past pass! Why should the unhappiness of the past affect the present life? In that case, it's not worth it!
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Anonymous users2024-02-06The wind comes to sparse the bamboo, the wind passes and the bamboo does not leave a sound, the geese pass the cold pool, and the geese go to the pool without taking a photo.
Therefore, the gentleman comes, and the heart is present, and the heart is empty.
Interpretation: When the wind comes, the bamboo in the bamboo forest shakes with the wind, making a rustling sound, and after the wind passes, the bamboo forest returns to silence.
The geese flew quickly over the cold water surface of the pool, and the figure of the goose could be seen from the surface of the pool, and the geese flew away, and the shadow of the geese in the pool was gone.
Therefore, a gentleman must learn to analyze something in his heart, and ponder how to deal with it.
Once the matter is dealt with, don't worry about it in your heart.
This sentence corresponds to the situation that many of us have a bad mentality.
When it's time to eat, sleep, or do other things, he is still thinking about all kinds of things, so that he can't eat well, can't sleep, his health is getting worse and worse, and he can't do things well.
Some things are irretrievable, or have passed, so let him pass.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05It's not that you're mentally wrong, it's that you're a little too stingy. The past is in the past after all, and no matter how much you care, you can't get it back. Look ahead and think more about what the future holds. I don't care about the past.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04If you always care about the gains and losses of the past, you are looking for trouble for yourself, and the pressure is all given by yourself. You have to understand that there are things that can be changed, so it is necessary to fight for them. If what happened is irreversible, then you must also know how to be relieved, so that you can also make yourself happy, and you will not be entangled in this point.
2020 is coming to an end, everyone should systematically summarize the past year, see what they have achieved, and what is still not in place, only the gains and losses are truly regulated, in order to see many problems from past experience, better look forward to the next year, and carry out the plan for the next year. So, how do you systematically summarize 2020? The following aspects can be considered: >>>More
Friends, don't be too depressed, a relationship doesn't mean that it ends because the two are separated, you are still in college, and you are still young. You should concentrate on reading, you can fall in love, it's just separate, and everyone can still meet online. Maybe you are in love now, you will be reluctant, you try to divert your attention, enrich yourself more, don't think cranky. >>>More
Well, I probably understand the meaning, because you want to catch someone too much, and when she has a particularly good relationship with others, if she doesn't bring you with her, you will feel lonely. Don't grieve yourself, believe that true friends can stand the test of time, Xiao C wants to reconcile with you now, because she feels that people don't have you to make friends with, so if she speaks, accept it with a normal heart, don't have too many emotional fluctuations, because such a person may leave you again, and then return to your side... In short, just look at it with a normal heart!
No, it shouldn't! But people just have a little curiosity, they will want to know about his past, and if you know, you have to accept it, and you shouldn't care about anything! You just have to do what you are doing now! Because he's with you now!
I'm the same as you I used to be like this, I was unhappy with people, this person fought with people, I was very good, I used to punch 3 holes in someone's head, and I lost money and apologized. Later, I found out that this is harmful to others and not good for myself, teach you a method, see that this person is unhappy, you will treat him as air, let yourself concentrate on doing other things, when you see this person, you should not see it, as long as you don't remember him in your heart, you will not want to hit him anymore. But when you grow up, you will slowly learn to tolerate others, this is your growth process!