As a man, my family is a mess, should I give up my work to make my family a good one?

I don't know if you mean hygiene or family relations when you refer to a mess at home? If you are hygienic and don't want to do it, you can ask an hourly worker to help you clean it. If it is a family conflict, depending on what the main thing is, there is always a solution.

Work is the cost of eating, and I think it is better not to give it up. Because you're a man, don't give yourself reasons and excuses to give up your job.

It is even more difficult to do a good job in family affairs without a job, so it is necessary to arrange time reasonably and handle relationships properly.

You should first understand why this is the case, you are working outside and you can't understand the things at home, which means that you don't care much about your home, if you want to change the situation, you should pay more attention to your home, so it will be better.

Don't give up your work to tidy up your home, just use your free time to clean up at home. How do you live without a job?

Don't give up your job, you have no job, no income, maybe your family will get worse, after all, money can solve a lot of problems, poor couples mourn, no money, no income will only make it worse, of course, if you have money and savings, you can also temporarily resign and solve family problems.

If the economic conditions allow, of course, yes.

Work must not be given up. No money. Work is also unhappy. So.

Does this mean that the wife you married is not good?

If you want to do a good job at home, this is generally a woman's job, and a man's job should be to work hard outside.

There are a lot of families like you who are charging forward in the backyard.

The premise of doing a good job is to communicate well with family members, understand each other, trust each other, and giving up work is the most immature and irresponsible solution.

Find the motivation that you really want in your heart and go in this direction.

Such an idea is correct.

But such psychological troubles are also normal.

After all, as long as you are a person, you will have such an experience, but you still need to adjust your life more, you still need to continue, tidy up your own life, don't worry about adult affairs, you manage yourself well is the greatest support for parents.

If it were me, try to think of a solution to the problem, don't think about it, try to find a job in the local area or a place where you can often go home, and then marry a filial daughter-in-law and work in the local area, and then pay good respect to the elderly. Although a good boy has ambitions in all directions, if he can't even repay his parents' kindness, even if he lets you travel all over the world, what's the point!

Revenge on a fart then ignore him, don't give her another chance, what's the use of your revenge, the best thing is to ignore him.

Give him space, he should also care more about things, be prepared to be scattered, read books every day, study, cultivate a hobby of his own, have his own circle of friends, dress himself well, love is attractable, a beautiful and independent girl is a little dependent, it is very attractive.