Is nostalgia a mental illness I take it step by step and look back.

Any change should be gradual, you can be a passive recipient first, that is, don't take the initiative to seek anything new, just when your classmates, friends or family tell you something new or new, you listen and understand. It doesn't matter if you don't think it's appropriate, don't accept it reluctantly. Because you will be very awkward to accept it.

Now you just have to listen and understand. The advantage of this is that you have already taken the first step, and the first step to any change or interest in something is to "understand". When you understand more, sometimes, subtly, you yourself are unconsciously and quietly changed.

When you take the first step of change, you combine your personality to see if you want to be more open, if you don't need it or feel awkward, then don't. Because, the greatest thing in life is happiness! To be unhappy for the sake of change, that is to pick up sesame seeds and throw watermelon.

It's not, it's a thought, in fact, everyone has it

Maybe it's just the years you have lost, so what can bring collective memories is easy to resonate, and sometimes you might as well look back after going forward, which is understandable.

I don't think so, but depending on what you want to do, in fact, as you said, it's not necessarily a good thing to take a step back again, so that you can self-check, and your daily progress and results are not very clear? But only if you don't indulge in it!

There's nothing wrong with nostalgia, if you don't miss those memories, then what can you leave in your past time?

However, it is no longer enough to spend every day in memories, memories are precious, but they are not the point of life. To live, we have to face the future positively and enjoy it, don't we?

Friends, we can't always look back at our own shadow.

And wasting the good times of the day.

It's good to reminisce about the past and miss the past.

But don't overdo it.

Raise your head and look at the sun today.

What should you do to make the future countless tomorrows.

Miss today?

Take care of your life.

Don't waste your time.

This is the most important thing.

It seems that you are the same as me.

It's all a nostalgic person.

As for whether it is a disease or not.

All I can say is. The benevolent see the benevolent.

The wise see the wise.

It's not good to be too closed. You can try to change it. Play more with friends.

Cherish the gift that time has given you.

I hope you see a psychiatrist.

When you get old and think about this problem, it's a disease.

I'm in the same situation now, and I've seriously thought about what kind of psychology I have, and a lot of this kind of liking turns into disliking, but I don't think it's all due to lithromantic sexual orientation.

First, lithromantic refers to a person with low psychological self-esteem, who likes an excellent person, but does not dare to develop with him closely, because he is afraid that he will find his shortcomings after contacting himself (in fact, he is not very bad but his inferiority makes him timid). The second is because he feels that he likes the way he looks and becomes less likable to himself. When he likes you, how can you think he likes such a bad self?

So I don't like him anymore or I run away from him, I stay away from him.

Two, this psychology of yours may be a more common one. When you like someone, you don't know him very well, but some of his advantages are infinitely magnified by you, making him the ideal carrier in your mind, but he himself may not be so good. So when you get closer to each other and get to know each other, he doesn't seem to be as good as you think, and some parts are even hated by you.

So the previous liking came from the distance, but this liking also disappeared after the distance disappeared. This annoyance is perfectly normal.

I like you, but you don't like me. Likes will disappear with the other person's emotional response, and even dislike the other person. Anyway, I'm like this, if you're too, it means that you have an inferiority complex in your heart, and you like all kinds of advantages when you like him, but such an excellent person likes himself who has no merits in your own opinion, and his image changes all of a sudden, why is he so tasteless?

This kind of person is due to the lack of personality caused by problems in childhood. Actually, it's not bad, but it's inferiority. What is reflected in love is only the appearance.

I'm the same way, when I like him, I think he's very good, he can do anything, I buy him a birthday present, he also buys me a gift on my birthday, and then I don't know how my good opinion of him gradually decreases, and finally he laughs at me and I feel disgusted. I think people like me are destined to die old.

That's how I liked it before the relationship was confirmed, I felt very uncomfortable on the first day of my relationship, I broke up in three days, and then I didn't have any intersection even if I lived next door, and all my previous likes disappeared overnight, and I was like this in both relationships, and I was starting to doubt my sexuality.

The person I like, if he likes me at the same time, I immediately dislike him and even dislike him, because I suddenly think of his various shortcomings, such as his appearance, I had feelings for a chubby boy before, he has a lot of pimples on his face, I don't know why, I like him very much, I like him very much, but then he suddenly confesses to me, I immediately refuse to go back, and I don't pay attention to him. Because the moment he confessed to me, my feelings for him disappeared in an instant, and then turned into disgust. Well.

I also had this feeling for another boy after that, and I happened to be more nostalgic, and I liked him for a while, and he suddenly said that he liked him, and I immediately didn't feel for him, and then I told him, and for a few months, I went to him, because I missed the time when we used to play together, and I went to him, and he didn't like me anymore, and I begged for a long time, and finally he didn't agree, and deleted his friend, and after a long time, I gradually forgot about him, and I can only say that this orientation is really annoying, and I hate it Because of this orientation, I miss out on a lot of people who really like me, and I like to regret it.

I have a friend too, she likes a person honestly will like him very much, every day at noon to see him, because a school sometimes encounters also shy, always ask people to inquire about him, but after being with the person she likes, she doesn't like it, she says that she likes someone will be crazy, but once that person likes herself, she feels very disgusting and can't stand it.

In high school, I fell in love with a boy, I liked it very much, the kind of love at first sight, every time I saw him, I would blush, I didn't dare to look at him, I would be very happy when I heard the news about him, he was very familiar with the boys in our class, one day I heard them say that he had someone he liked, and I was very excited oh I always thought that he liked me, and after a few months of vacation, I sat on the bus and he sat in front, maybe he didn't see me, and then the person next to him kept asking him who he liked, When I hear my name, my brain goes blank, and the next day I don't like him, and when I see him, I hide, and I get annoyed when he looks at me, and in the end, I don't know why I think he's disgusting, disgusting, and when he doesn't like me, this feeling is gone, but I think he's pretty good, and then a few people are like this, and I'm going crazy.

It turns out that this is the reason why I've always been single.,I'm the kind of person I like you but you don't like me.,Once the other party likes me, I'll really dislike that person.,And don't talk to him.,And then when someone says they like themselves.,I'll be very serious and persuade him not to like me.,If you don't listen, you'll tell him I'm going to delete him.