As a man, what if you find out that the child is not your own?

If the child has not yet been born, it is recommended that you divorce the woman, both before and after marriage. If the child has lived with you for many years, I think you will still be wrong, after all, after so many years, even if you are not biological, you are very emotional.

Hello, neither men nor women should do such a thing, this kind of thing is unacceptable to anyone, you can go to the hospital to check it out and see what the problem is.

Sorry to hear that you have such experiences and feelings. Everyone's family situation and parent-child relationship are unique, so it is not possible to give a specific answer as to why some fathers have negative and demeaning attitudes.

However, there are several possible reasons that can lead fathers to have a negative and demeaning view of their children:

1.Parenting style: Some fathers may use a harsh approach to parenting in an attempt to motivate their children with negativity and belittlement, but this approach can have a negative impact on the child's self-esteem and self-confidence.

2.Own problems: The father may have his own emotional problems or low self-esteem, which leads him to have a negative and demeaning attitude towards the child's stupidity. This could be related to his past experiences, personal stress, or mental health issues.

3.Expectations and pressures: Some fathers may have excessively high expectations and pressures, they may want their children to meet certain standards in certain areas, and fathers may show negative and demeaning attitudes when their children are unable to meet these expectations.

Whatever the reason for this behavior, being denied and belittled is unhealthy for the child. If you are experiencing this, I encourage you to seek support and help by sharing your feelings with someone you trust, such as other loved ones, friends, or mental health professionals. They can provide support, understanding and guidance to help you cope and deal with situations like this and find ways to build a positive and healthy relationship.

Under normal circumstances, marriage and childbirth are the highest protection for women and men, and this kind of person sometimes has, but the biggest difference between Chinese men and foreign men is that Chinese men lack a certain sense of responsibility.

1. Children will destroy the relationship between husband and wife.

In the eyes of many people, after giving birth to a child, two people will be child-centered, and when raising children, they will unconsciously ignore each other's feelings, "the child is his father", "the child is his mother", and it seems that the life of two people will always be a child.

The self in the eyes of the other party is gradually replaced by the child, and you will find that after having a child, it belongs to the romance of two people, and the dating time of two people is getting less and less.

2. Too much pressure.

Men who feel the pressure to have children are very strict with themselves and the next generation, they always want to give their children the best educational environment and living environment, and they will be willing to have children as long as they have the ability to provide them.

Men can see this as an important reason, but it can also be seen as an excuse. In fact, children are more suitable to grow up in a simple living environment, which is also the best educational environment.

3. I don't want to lose my personal freedom.

Many of those who are single, unmarried, and dink couples feel that they will lose their personal freedom after giving birth to children. Because in their view, childbearing means entering a "child-centered" lifestyle.

For example, they may need to change some hobbies and habits (such as smoking, drinking), as well as changing their choices of TV programs and online environments to create a child-friendly environment.

When a boy doesn't like children, he hates to hear them, doesn't like to play with them, talk to them, and don't discuss some issues related to children. At the same time, men who don't like children generally have little patience, no love and no compassion.

When a man doesn't want children, he says to women, "Why don't you think you can put a birth control ring?" Just in case I'm not pregnant. It is very troublesome to have children, so these manifestations are selfish manifestations of this man not wanting children.

A man who doesn't want children, he uses contraception, and then he doesn't often have an affair with a woman.

He doesn't like children, or he feels like he's stressed out and always running away from some practical problem.

What happens when a man doesn't want children? I hate to be angry when I see a child.

When a man doesn't want children, it means that he is not mature, he has not played enough, and his childlike innocence is not lost.

You are a scumbag, he is irresponsible to society, irresponsible to the country, and even more irresponsible to individuals.

I think a man, if he doesn't want children, should tell you clearly, right?

Yes, but rarely acceptable.

At least I've seen it. Love someone, love the house and love the woman's children. That's it, most of the others don't want to raise children for others, and they don't want to get involved in the affairs of their wives and ex-husbands. It's good not to embarrass the child.