If modern law allowed three wives and four concubines, would the boys be willing?

<> "I think everyone thinks differently about this issue, even if the law allows, I don't think I can accept too much, or even accept it, because, monogamy in society is very good now, and the relationship between two people is stronger."

Let's take an ancient case first, it is very normal for a man to have three wives and four concubines, although they can't all be treated the same, but it is also a good reputation, which is a custom in ancient times, coupled with the ancient custom of preference for sons, if a woman can't give birth to a boy for the family, she will also be looking for someone else to give birth, in fact, it is also one thing. No matter how good or bad things are, they will do it this way, and I think the ancient patriarchy also had an impact on this aspect, more or less.

However, in modern times, this will not work, even if the law allows, we will not get used to it, after all, the times have changed, although there is still a patriarchal phenomenon in some rural areas, but if three wives and four concubines are allowed, it will not be too good, from which aspect, three wives and four concubines are not conducive to economic development, if so, women are at home, just rely on men to work, I estimate that the society will stagnate, it will definitely cause losses to the society, from the perspective of personal development, it is also unfavorable, according to the current trend of men and women, If a man has three wives and four concubines, then many men will die alone, so for the sake of social conditions, no one may accept three wives and four concubines. In fact, I think that having three wives and four concubines will have a great impact on the country's economic income, and it will definitely bring the economy to a standstill, and that's what I think.

The above is just my opinion, and does not represent the opinion of others, so I don't think I would be willing to have three wives and four concubines if the law allows!!

If they had heard that it was now possible to have three wives and four concubines, I think they would have been so excited that they couldn't sleep for days. This is better for them than any law, but if three wives and four concubines are really allowed, will they be truly happy?

First of all, let's talk about an ordinary family now, monogamy, if both parties go to work to earn money, then after giving birth to a child, the child will be brought to the parents, if there are three wives and four concubines, everyone has a child, then who should take the child, if you want to take the child, whether a man can afford to raise it, if you don't want to take the child, can the parents still bring you so much? Nowadays, if the children of ordinary families go to kindergarten from the age of one, then they earn nothing but to send their children to kindergarten.

Let's talk about the relationship between husband and wife, girls are delicate and love to think more, sometimes boys feel that they don't understand girls, they don't understand what we are thinking, women have needles in their hearts, then if it is a few, I think he will die. How to go to sleep every day, how to communicate with them every day, and how to satisfy everyone's hearts and emotions.

In addition, what we talk about in Chinese medicine is to cherish the body and cherish the essence, that is, to be temperate and not overworked.

Besides, even if the law allows, we girls will not tolerate it, if it is really possible, we would rather not marry, than share a man with others, then there will be more singles, not to mention the good wishes of three wives and four concubines.

There is also the most difficult family relationship in China is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so many daughters-in-law, even if one person speaks up, he must not make the boy's mother angry to death.

I think we have now entered a civilized society, it is no longer a feudal society with a thousand years of money, men are superior to women, now we are talking about equality between men and women, if the law allows, Chinese women will stand up, although usually weak and weak, but it is still not easy to provoke the prestige.

So to sum up, no matter from which point of view, men will eventually not be able to accept three wives and four concubines, and they can only think about it.

If modern law allows three wives and four concubines, of course girls will not want to. With the continuous development of the times, a lot of historical dross has been swept into the garbage heap, people's minds have become more and more open, and the society has become more and more accepting of all kinds of ideas. This is the inevitability of the development of the times, and everything that goes against the development of the times may be crushed by the times.

Three wives and four concubines are products of a special era, and the historical background of the past no longer exists. In ancient societies, men were absolutely dominant, and women were merely appendages. This is caused not only by the low productivity of society, but also by the overall social background environment.

However, with the continuous development of the times and the continuous improvement of productivity, that special background of the times no longer exists, and women have long made their own voices heard in life and have their own status.

In today's life, the idea of equality between men and women has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and the overall social background has become completely different from what it used to be. For men and women in real life, perhaps few people think about this aspect of the problem anymore.

Of course, girls will not be willing, this kind of behavior is a reversal of the times. Although in real life, there are not a few people who maintain relationships with multiple members of the opposite sex, but in the law, monogamy is the most basic legal requirement. If, all of a sudden, modern laws began to allow three wives and four concubines, it would undoubtedly cause huge repercussions throughout society.

Of course, girls will not want to implement this kind of policy, because it means that women will return to their subordinate position, and their status and voice in society will change dramatically, which is definitely not what they want to see, and this kind of policy will not only affect one generation, but may affect future generations.

Under the condition that the social productive forces have reached the current state, women do not need to be attached to anyone, and can still live a better life, who would want to be one of the three wives and four concubines of others?

The development of the times will always bring many changes, whether you want to or not, the times will not stop moving forward because of someone's ideas. Don't think about what you have and don't have, and live your life in a down-to-earth way, that's the most important thing.

Of course they don't want to, because girls are very selfish, and in the relationship they just want to enjoy love, and it is impossible to share it with others.

Girls will definitely not want to do it, because it is very unfair and it is also a form of discrimination against women.

It is definitely unwilling, the status of women is already a very serious issue now, and it is impossible to repeat the situation before.

Hello, of course not, but men should hope that because some of China's values are changing towards feudal thinking, resulting in many women having a strong psychology, and a large part of the strength of modern society is reflected in assets, and some women pay attention to assets and ignore feelings, which leads to this phenomenon, the popular point is that it is the woman herself who objectifies women, so it has led to some women willing to accept men's three wives and four concubines, in order to prevent bar essence, here is a detailed explanation, the provincial instructions indicate that men want three wives and four concubines, How to blame women, first of all, three wives and four concubines are not in line with the laws of our country, almost every man has fantasized about three wives and four concubines, this is due to physiological reasons, do not elaborate, but why only men with strong assets can do three wives and four concubines, and the poor do not even have the qualifications for one wife, what do you say is the reason, I won't talk about it in depth, and the point is over.

That was before, and now there is no man who has long since had three wives and four concubines.

Three wives and four concubines are ancient, and now they are all monogamous, and it is not excluded that those who start and end up abandoning, see one and love one, if you love each other, you just want to be the only one for each other!

That was in ancient times, but now it's different!! Now one is enough.

In ancient times, the three outlines and five constants were pursued, that is, the husband was the wife, and the woman was the private property of the man, so he could naturally have three wives and four concubines.

As for the modern age, it is called the second mother, the third child, which can be regarded as the residual influence of the patriarchal society......

Because since ancient times, emperors have had three wives and four concubines, and this rule has been set.

Both in the present and in ancient times.

A man cannot have three wives and four concubines, only monogamy and polyandry concubinage, and when the wife is unable to have children, he can marry a flat wife.

Spouses may be remarried after the death of the wife.

One servant and two masters. Men are servants and women are masters, and it is obviously unreasonable for a man to have many masters.

It should be because this is a bad habit left over from ancient times.

Your question is the same as the question: why did your parents or grandparents have children in their teens?

Why did husbands and wives have a group of children before?

If you really want to know these questions, go and study history.

If it's something you encounter in reality, then consult an expert.

1. In order to pass on the ancestry

2. In order to satisfy X desire (it is not good to go to the Qinglou often), ,

3. Women themselves are willing to 、、、

Because women don't want to work.。。

Because he is amorous and does not keep his husband's way

Why don't women work?

Are you thinking too much, three wives and four concubines, it's all about those years, don't be cranky, let's live in the moment, even if you are willing, is your wife willing.

The stability of men is strong, and the characterization of a man can overpower three or four women. It is normal for a man to have three wives and four concubines, provided that women do not exclude each other. The biggest difference between an excellent man and an excellent woman is that men have a qualitative nature and women have a floating nature.

A man's three wives and four concubines are too much or not, and this should be divided into what era or country, such as the monogamy system that our country is now promoting, then the man's three wives and four concubines are excessive.

And Western countries are more open, especially the kind of countries that are constantly at war. There are many boys and girls, and some countries do not directly oppose polygamy.

Although European and American countries do not have three wives and four concubines in name, they are very open, and they have a lot of lovers, so it is not surprising.

So, whatever the problem, it depends on the specific environment in which it is placed.

If you say too much, it's too much, and if you say it's not too much, it's not too much.

Dude, you seem to have a misunderstanding of ancient China, in ancient times, there was only one wife, and all the others were concubines, that is to say, after death, only the wife of the right can enter the tomb with the man to set up the archway. None of the other concubines were allowed to enter the grandfather or the ancestral hall. The second is that women in that era practiced binding small feet (extremely inhumane), because women with small feet could not run if they wanted to, which also represented the attitude of men towards women in ancient feudal society, and women were men's accessories at that time.

Secondly, after China came into contact with Western culture, it gradually realized this inhumane problem, and began to learn from Western monogamy, advocating freedom of love, and so on.

Grandpa Mao even proposed [Equality between men and women, women can hold up half the sky] When American statistics were made, Chinese women were the strongest women in the world, and they were busy working during the day to go home and husbands and children to do housework, which was really intolerable, so Chinese women generally liked by the West, because their family concept was stronger than that of Western women. Chinese men are more considerate than Western men, which leads to the West beginning to envy Chinese men and women, and they are surprised to find that China's acceptance of monogamy has been combined with traditional Chinese marriage life to develop a more suitable Chinese family concept. At the same time, the Chinese are a big country of etiquette, for example, we usually respect each other, then husband and wife should also respect each other, this is what you want to know, why not allow the saying of three wives and four concubines, because the first is inhumane, the second is not respectful, and the third is not a composite social form and the identity of a big country ceremonial state.

It is also a development trend of the world's progress towards civilization.

Because the price is too high now, you can't afford to support so many wives, and the wives will quarrel with each other, and then divorce you en masse.

If this is the case, then Wang Jianlin's harem is 3,000, Ma Yun's harem is 3,000, and the rich account for 60% of the women (if they are beautiful), then you don't even have a chance to leave the seeds.

There is an imbalance between men and women, and it will be your turn to have no mother.

You can't afford it. Swap your woman's husband and wife, you agree no.

Then you won't be able to get a wife.

If a girl can be a husband and a rokuro, can you accept it?