What kind of attitude should I have towards my parents and my sister in conflict?

It is necessary to learn to understand the elders, respect their thoughts, know how to think from their point of view, and discuss what they say, what makes sense and what is inappropriate. The second is to be yourself. Parents care about themselves, the starting point is for their own good, if you do well, excellent in all aspects, even if you do something different from them, they will still understand you.

I remember that there is a saying: "Communication can turn decay into magic, and change the moat into a smooth road." This also shows that communication is an indispensable part of our work, study and life, and it is also one of the effective ways to solve the generation gap.

Communication can dissolve the barriers between us and our parents, eliminate misunderstandings between us and our parents, and at the same time, it can also enhance the relationship and affection between us and our parents, so that we can better understand each other's ideas. Sometimes we often complain that our parents don't understand us, or we feel that they always impose some of our own ideas on us, but in fact, we don't communicate effectively with our parents, and we don't communicate our ideas with our parents. So we have some conflicts with our parents.

Of course, communication also needs to be based on understanding. Because understanding also belongs to a kind of communication, which is equivalent to emotional and psychological communication.

Although I am over 70 years old, I have also had the experience of communicating with my parents before. Put yourself in their shoes, this is primary. Listen more, talk less.

Agree more, support more, don't oppose, even if you think it's wrong, it's not a matter of principle, you can not support it, don't agree with it, don't oppose it. I talk to my parents a lot, talk to them, listen to their nagging, even if there are some things, how many times they say it, you have to pretend to be very interested. In this matter, you can't walk away, you can't play with your phone.

Understand. To put it another more technical term, it is to "empathize". Understanding requires us to be able to put ourselves in the other person's shoes and be able to empathize with each other.

Therefore, both parents and we should listen to each other, confide in each other, share the joys and sorrows of life, look for similarities and differences in thought, and consider the problem from the other person's point of view. Therefore, "empathy" is also an important method in solving the generation gap.

Regardless of the reason for the difficulty in communication between parents and children, it is a problem in the parent-child relationship. At this time, as a parent, you should try to lower your profile, accept more fashion information, and keep pace with the times in your thinking. As children, we must believe that parents will never harm their children, and parents' choices and decisions are the precipitation of decades of social experience.

But parents should not interfere too much in the lives of their adult children. As a young person, it is necessary to listen to the opinions of the elders, but the decision is in your own hands, and sometimes failure is wealth.

If you want to communicate well with your parents, you have to chat frequently, so that they know what you think and do, and how much they know the environment in which you live. And you have to understand your parents, they have been through you like you, but you can't have a similar experience to them. Communication is a kind of ability, if you can't communicate with your parents, how can you communicate with people from all walks of life and all ages, in society, you need to communicate with everyone, so you can't feel that your parents are too lazy to communicate, and you are willing to communicate with them from the heart, so as to find a way to communicate.

When encountering things, you can't avoid it, you have to face it after all, talk to your parents, if your parents are insistent, you can't be extreme, as long as the direction is healthy and upward, it's no problem. Tell your parents that you want to do this when you grow up, and what are the benefits of doing this, and let them think about it from a different perspective for you.

Introverts don't like to express their emotions very much, and they don't share their inner thoughts with others, that is, they are a little lacking in communicating with others. There's a good saying: how do I know if you don't say it?

I'm not a roundworm in your belly. If you can't communicate well with people, it is easy to misunderstand, and if you have misunderstandings, it is easy to hurt feelings. However, this kind of personality has a genetic tendency, and most introverted parents will not have a cheerful personality for their children.

The family is like this, there is something stuffy in the stomach, and you can't open your heart to communicate, and the misunderstanding will get deeper and deeper. Children blame their parents for not caring about themselves, and parents blame their children for not being sensible.

If you're not married, you may feel that your parents don't consider your feelings and find it difficult to communicate. When you get married and have your own children, you suddenly find that your parents are thinking about you all the time, so that you can take fewer detours and encounter fewer setbacks on the road of life, and what is full of love is love. When Mom and Dad are older and in their 70s, they are like children, and you have to coax them and don't be foolish.

As long as it does not hurt the body, they toss and turn. Send them away, we're old.

Parents are the people who love their children the most in the world, and they are the most important people in their children's lives, and communicating with their parents is the best way to deal with things! Parents do not owe their children anything, but children sometimes unconsciously hurt their parents' hearts, really shouldn't, don't wait until the day you lose to regret it, leave regrets for yourself, this is the saddest thing in life.

It is not difficult to communicate with parents. Both parents have read books, both grew up in hardship, and are very reasonable. They all passed away after 90 years of life.

We can communicate well with our children, but we can't communicate with our grandchildren. Play with your mobile phone at night, play games online, skip breakfast and sleep well. Shout to get up and mess around.

I can't bear it.

As for my parents, they did not have any education since they were young and were farming families for generations. It also formed the concept that only diligent labor and dedication can be exchanged for remuneration. Sometimes I want to fight and need their understanding and support.

But in their view, people should be faithful to God's arrangement and should not take any risky path.

My parents are both authentic farmers, in their sixties, and they don't know how to use smartphones, send WeChat, and don't know what Douyin is. Every time I go back during the summer vacation, I put my mobile phone and tablet in the room to sleep, and I accompany my parents to chat in the shade of the tree in front of the door. Talk about the changes in your hometown, some topics about the construction of the new countryside, try to talk about things they are familiar with, and there will be more topics.

Hello, about your question, what to do when your mother quarrels with her sister? First: When my mother and sister quarrel, either I will dissuade them, but if I can't dissuade them, I will wait for them to be angry, and then I will divide them into two sides to persuade the second:

Wait for them to be angry and then go and analyze the analysis problem, who is right and who is wrong? Then reconciliation is on the line, it is normal for relatives to quarrel with each other, when this kind of problem arises, you must communicate in time and hope that mine can help you and wish you a happy life.