When a boy she has a crush on, should a girl take the initiative to pursue him?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-21
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    <>I think that to deal with this problem, girls should be able to take the initiative, why can't they take the initiative to pursue it, and I think it's really not easy for girls to meet a boy who has a good feeling, and the current girls are quite demanding, so I think we should pursue it, after all, we should not give up this opportunity.

    And isn't there a saying that if she confesses, you can only be friends, and if you don't confess, you can still be friends, but you don't lack friends, you lack boyfriends! Right, I think it's better to confess, after all, if you don't make an effort, you never know what the result will be, in case she is the one in your life, if you don't work hard, he may not know that you like him, and maybe if you confess, you may also have an unexpected gain, she may also like you, right, I think it is not a particularly shameful thing for girls to confess now, I think this is a thing worth advocating, I think it is more courageous on behalf of girls, Why do you have to ask a boy to pursue a girl?,I think it's handsome for a girl to pursue a boy.,You can try it.,What's the big deal.,You can't be friends after it's a big deal.,So what's the result?,And I think if you like it.,I think you'll be friends with him.,I think you'll feel uncomfortable.。

    So girl, if you have a good feeling and a good feeling, go after it, I think it's not easy to meet someone you like, what can you do if you confess, right, so you still have the courage to confess, you should take the initiative to pursue your own happiness, now girls have the right to take the initiative to pursue happiness, I think you can take the initiative to pursue him, and finally I want to bless you with success. I hope you can succeed in taking her down, and then I hope that he is the right person in your life, and I hope that the two of you can live happily together.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When a girl meets a boy she likes, be brave enough to chase it! Why not? If you meet a boy who has a good feeling, hesitate and don't chase him, and find out that he was chased away by others after a few days, wouldn't it be a pity and regret!

    When you have a crush on this guy, be brave enough to communicate with him. Maybe you'll find out that he's probably secretly watching to see if you like him too. It's also possible that he didn't like you at first, but in the process of getting in touch with you, he liked you.

    Like someone, whether a guy likes a girl, or a girl likes a boy, I think you can be brave enough to express it and let the other person know. If you like someone and don't let him know, then it is very likely to become a crush, and there is no development, which is actually a pity.

    In fact, girls don't have to say "I like you" or anything every day if they want to pursue a boy. Ask him out more, find more things for him to help, and chat with him more, and the other party will generally understand. Some feelings, in fact, are developed naturally in daily contact.

    That's how I am. And in the process of dating, what was originally not a good feeling can become a good feeling. Maybe he finds out that he likes you and will confess to you.

    Although there is a saying that girls should be reserved, if they are too reserved, it is easy to miss the opportunity. Feelings are sometimes just moments, or short periods of time, and if you consume them, the feelings may disappear. Moreover, liking someone is actually a very happy thing.

    The process of pursuing a person, whether it is successful or not, will become a good memory, so if you have a good impression of a boy, be brave enough to pursue it. Like Qu Xiaoxuan in Ode to Joy, she is an example.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When you meet a boy who has a good feeling, of course, you have to take the initiative to chase it, otherwise keep it for others to chase? And then unrequited love on your own? There is a good saying, men chase women in the compartment mountain, and women chase men in the compartment.

    However, girls can chase boys, you can take the initiative, but remember, don't take too much initiative, pay attention to tactics, to understand, if girls take the initiative, if you don't catch up, don't discuss, if you catch up, you must not be too active later, uneasy The balance of love between you will be tilted, you will only continue to lose your balance in love, keep paying, and finally, your boyfriend will get used to your kindness to him, and take it all for granted, slowly, you will only gradually lose your balance in love, And you will always be the one who will be the most hurt in love.

    But if you choose not to chase, then you may never have a chance, maybe two days later your male god will be chased away by other girls, I believe, so you will regret it, only blame yourself for not being able to make up your mind to take action at that time. So if you meet a boy you have a good impression of, you must show favor to him, you can chase it not so obviously, but you must find a way to let him know that you are interesting to him, if he is also interested in you, naturally you don't need to chase hard, as long as you send a signal, the boy who likes you will move around and send it to the door, so girls also have certain skills in chasing boys, don't blindly pursue boldly, otherwise you will only ** road, or be rejected fiercely, silly girl! Sometimes you have to be like boys, learn how to flirt with boys, love each other, and trample the best existence of evenly matched love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Generally, I won't accept it, it's a burden to fall in love without feelings, and the more I talk about it, the more I don't like it, and the boy will be more embarrassed.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Probably, they will think in their hearts that I don't like to play around with this person anyway. There are not many people who fall in love first and then like it, and this answer does not discriminate between men and women.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If it's a very routine chase, it will. Female chasing male compartment yarn.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This depends on itself, if some of the girl's behaviors are uncomfortable, it is normal to be rejected. But if that girl is the type that the guy likes, I think it's still easy to accept.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello! Girls take the initiative to pursue boys, and boys may accept it on the spur of the moment. However, twisted melons are not sweet, you know?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    For a boy with a calm personality, it is not easy to express it immediately if he has a good impression of you, because you are still in its "inspection period". It will evaluate your values, temperament, lifestyle, and other aspects to see if you are compatible with him. Interesting souls are the same, people with stories are one in a thousand, they don't want to confess to you on the spur of the moment, only to find out that they are contrary to each other, wasting emotions, time and money in vain.

    Carefully choosing your goals is a commitment to yourself and others. Some people may argue: "When you are young, you should play hard, falling in love is not the same as being together for a lifetime."

    But there is another sentence that says: "Anyone who is not in love for the purpose of marriage is a hooligan", be serious before getting along, give each other a "period of inspection", you can avoid a lot of trouble, just be careful not to let "her" wait too long!

    When you are in love, it is like two armies facing each other, whoever owes consideration first will lose. Some boys look forward to it, even if they like you in their hearts, they don't leave a trace on the surface, or only sometimes give you some data signals, waiting for you to flirt with him. You take the initiative, it understands the dominance, and after that, the rapid development of this relationship depends on him.

    In addition, boys are self-righteous and enjoy the feeling of being "in the spotlight" and being sought after by a lot of girls. If he takes the initiative to attack her, he shows his unique charm. Therefore, he likes you, but does not take the initiative to pursue it, because he hopes that you can take the initiative a little more to fit in with its "love vanity".

    Some boys uphold the development concept of "starting a business first, then starting a family", and feel that houses, vehicles, and money are necessary conditions for a stable love. Even, it doesn't matter if you're in love, you can only bury that love in your heart, afraid to show it to you, and hope that one day you will be fully perfected and stable enough to pursue you again. The spoken words of this kind of boy are "what will happen when I graduate", "what if I have an easy job", "what if I have a house and a car", ...... what will happenSelf-motivated boys, of course, will be more attractive, but, if there is no response for long-term sex, girls may not be able to wait all the time, and it is very likely that the final outcome is "winning the river and losing him"!

    If you like someone, your first reaction is not self-confidence. Even if this guy is particularly good, he will often feel that he is not worthy of you. I have a thousand words in my heart, but I dare not tell you; Fear that you are not what you like; I'm afraid that after confessing, I won't even be able to make a ...... friendsFor this kind of boy with a little low self-esteem, you might as well take the initiative, or give him some undoubted signals to make him sure of your mind.

    Love does require courage to believe that it will come together. As long as you look at me without doubt, my thoughts will have a practical ......"For him some courage to love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The boy has a good impression of you, but if he doesn't chase you, he may be afraid that he will not be able to take care of you; I don't know what you think, and I don't dare to move forward rashly; I didn't like it much, so I wanted to take a second look. There are never a few people who do not pursue love due to their actual situation, after all, if you like someone, you hope that the other party can be good, even if her good is not given by herself. Although this kind of behavior does seem very unproductive and incomprehensible, it is not a kind of fulfillment.

    For some people who are introverted and always like to think too much before doing things, instead of acting when they like it, he will only observe and look at it first, until he is sure that you also like him, he will not act rashly. If you like him, you should reveal it to him intentionally or unintentionally, so that he doesn't have so many worries to run to you.

    The specific reasons why boys have a good impression of you but don't chase them: 1. You feel that you can't climb high and have low self-esteem. When the woman a man likes is very good, the man may choose to bury this relationship in his heart instead of actively pursuing the woman.

    Someone once said: Men are so ordinary but so confident. In fact, not all men are confident, and many times, men will have low self-esteem in their hearts.

    2. Men don't love you that much at all. When a man doesn't love a woman that much, his liking is probably superficial.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think that's probably the case, chasing you, then the other party can only have one girlfriend, but if you don't chase you, there can be a lot, so it seems that it's more cost-effective not to chase, isn't it? Moreover, if you have a good impression and like to chase you, there is still a distance, we all have to keep our senses, and don't hold some unrealistic fantasies because of this, otherwise you will be hurt.

    When I went to work, I met a girl.,Her opposite sex is really super good.,There's never a shortage of dates.,But every time it's just that.,Basically, there will be no follow-up.。 I asked her before, so many boys revolve around you, haven't you thought about finding a fixed one? She said that I still experienced too few things, she said that everyone is an adult, there is no need to say a lot of words, it is right that people revolve around you, but it is not just around you.

    Besides, if the relationship is really fixed, just with one person, this novelty will soon be gone, and everyone will break up when the time comes, it's not the same to make a big move, it's really not worth it, there is no need for this at all. You are like friends every day, and it is also a good choice to meet occasionally for dinner and chat, and to stay ambiguous, isn't it? Why be so obsessed with results!

    Many boys don't like to deal with this kind of relationship between men and women, if the relationship is confirmed, once the quarrel or breakup is a very toss-up thing, when you are older, you don't like such troublesome things, or just play casually. Why do many people have a good impression of you, but they don't chase you, because many people know that since there is no shortage of people around you, then the vision must be very high, right? If you really want to end your single life, you won't always be in this state.

    Pursuing you rashly may allow you to keep your distance from him, and you don't even have a chance to be ambiguous, isn't it even more of a loss?

    I have a crush on you and don't want to chase you because I don't plan to get distracted, or because I don't have confidence in the relationship.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe he didn't know his heart, maybe he was afraid that he wouldn't be able to achieve the results he wanted, maybe he felt that he didn't deserve you, maybe he just used you as a spare tire, maybe he was afraid that he wouldn't even be able to be a friend in the end.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Men don't love you that much at allWhen a man doesn't love a woman that much, his liking is probably superficial. If a man likes a woman and takes the initiative to pursue this woman, it means that the commitment of the two people is also the responsibility of the man to the woman. I have to admit it in my relationship.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I'm afraid that you will reject yourself, worry that I won't be friends with you in the future, worry that I have a lot of shortcomings, and I will be rejected by you, and then the relationship between each other will become more and more awkward.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Maybe this guy is very introverted, so he doesn't dare to confess.

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