Should the breakup be said directly or coldly?

Breaking up should be said directly, what's the matter with cold treatment!

It doesn't matter if you're a boy or a girl, no matter what your reason is, you should say it to your face if you want to break up, and even if you're embarrassed to say it to your face, you should tell each other through the Internet, instead of not talking and just separating naturally.

If it's really the relationship that comes to an end, and you feel that you don't love each other anymore, then you make it clear to the other person and tell the other person that you think your relationship should end here.

Don't live your own little life, neither explain to the other party, nor separate, don't care about the other party, just be indifferent. When the other party asked you, you didn't mention it, but you didn't talk about it.

What's even more hateful is that the other party still thinks you are with him, but you have already started to look for your next home, and you have been delaying the other party like this, and you are still living your own nourishing little life leisurely.

If you choose to treat it coldly, you will consume the other person like this, but the other person thinks that you still have feelings for him, and you are just arguing.

The other party will come to you every day to apologize to you and say that he was wrong, and hope that you can reconcile. But you didn't say you forgive, you didn't say you were going to separate, you just spent it like this, do you think you did the right thing?

This practice is extremely irresponsible, since you don't love it, then you should be decisive, even if you hurt the other party, don't consume the other party like this.

He is sad now, and he can come out after a while, but you have delayed his good youth, what do you use to make up for it?

If you think of breaking up just because of a quarrel, I think it's better for you to say it directly, because you may still have room to return it if you say it directly, and if you deal with it coldly, the relationship between the two people will be consumed to a certain point, and there will be no room for recovery.

If you can deal with this matter, he may think that you are just angry and not really break up with him, which will cause him to have a certain illusion, thinking that he may still have a chance to catch up with you and apologize to you. And in order to avoid this kind of damage, you must break up with him completely. Instead of cold treatment.

When you love a boy, you have to love well, because love is the best time for a person, and it is also the best time for a girl's mental outlook, there is a girl in our dormitory, she gets up in the morning is simply to pat some water and milk on her face, and then paint her eyebrows and apply lipstick, just like a very ordinary light makeup, but she will go to self-study with her boyfriend every night, and before each self-study, she will paint her face very white and white, showing his best face to his boyfriend. Just for two hours of self-study.

But after the breakup, you must divide it thoroughly, make the boy feel hopeless, and ask him not to pester you again, because if you continue to entangle, this kind of fruitless thing will only affect and hurt each other. Entangled and meditating on this kind of thing every day, it is very affecting your study and work, sometimes you are in a good mood for the day but you will be very angry and angry when you see that boy, so it is better to be straightforward. And for the breakup, cold treatment is the most irrational thing, cold treatment means that you still have hope for him, but if you have hope for him, don't break up with him, this will make him very annoying and annoying for a long time, thus delaying the relationship between the two of you.

Therefore, if you want to break up, you should be completely separated, and you should not hesitate to be direct.

I think the breakup should be said directly, not coldly, because cold-treated is equivalent to a kind of cold violence and cold violence, which is really hurtful and the most sad!

So I think if there is no affection between two people, it is better to make an appointment to meet each other, and both parties will make each other clear, and then be a familiar stranger from now on, which is the best way.

Sometimes I really don't understand why once there is a conflict between the two parties or there is no emotion, they will choose to deal with this relationship coldly and violently, maybe they think that as long as I ignore you so gradually, you know that I want to break up with you, and this may be good for you.

In fact, they don't know that cold violence is really too uncomfortable and painful. What kind of existence is cold violence? Maybe sometimes the two of us are chatting on the phone, sometimes I will reply to him ten sentences, and then I send him a WeChat message in the morning and he will not reply to me until the evening.

Sometimes we only talk once in two or three days.

Do you think this kind of relationship is like a couple's relationship? In fact, in love, once a woman falls in love with a man, it is easy to lose her mind. If a woman frequently asks her boyfriend all sorts of things, and her boyfriend only replies to me every time, or what kind of time is it a sign that there is something wrong in the relationship between two people.

Or sometimes girls say all kinds of things on WeChat, but the man always blames the girl for being ignorant, or for not thinking about the man or something, then the girl will be very disappointed. Because cold violence is really uncomfortable, at this time, every girl will think that if I ignore him, I am afraid that he will think I am annoying, if I ignore him, I will miss him very much.

So when there is a problem, I think it is better for both parties to make it clear and break up directly.

The breakup should be said directly, I hate that other people's way of dealing with problems is the Cold War, I think hurting others hurts myself, everyone is not a child of two or three years old, they are all mature people, why engage in those childish Cold Wars.

In my opinion, as mature people, love is love, not love is not love, everything is good to get together and disperse, at the beginning we felt that we liked each other with each other, we confessed, we were together, and now we feel that the other party is not suitable, then tell each other, and then break up, looking for a more suitable one.

Personally, I especially hate the cold war, especially for boys, if you break up with your girlfriend, your girlfriend ignores you, what should you do at this time, ignore your girlfriend, then what kind of man are you, boy, the heart should be bigger, take the initiative to coax your girlfriend, if you think two people are really impossible, also tell your girlfriend to break up directly, don't cold war, both people are painful in the process of cold war, long pain is not as good as short pain, it is better to tell each other the result, Cry, tomorrow will be a sunny day again, if two people have been so cold, what together, I don't know what the other party is thinking, I will be cranky by myself, and I will be immersed in pain.

When my boyfriend quarrels with me, he just likes the cold war and doesn't talk, I think I was a little angry, but when I see the climate of my boyfriend's attitude, I will get more and more angry, and finally I quarrel very fiercely, at this time he still remains indifferent, which is the most unacceptable thing for me, so I have told him, what I hate the most is that he doesn't speak, if he is still like this, then we will break up directly.

At the very least, everything should be made clear, right? Otherwise, if you choose cold treatment, what is the matter?

Breaking up is a very heavy topic, there will definitely be one person among two people who can't let go, and there will definitely be one person who is very sad, generally speaking, the person who loves more is often the one who can't let go of the most. But no matter what, I think the breakup should be explained clearly in front of two people, don't beat around the bush, and don't leave room for it, because when you want to let go, please speak clearly, and please speak well, which is good for both people.

If it is cold, I think it is a very undignified behavior. After all, after being together for so long, since you're going to break up, why don't you talk about it? Do you still want to eat back grass in the future?

Anyway, I don't like cold treatment. When you don't like it, just make things clear and concise, tell people the reason, whether you are tired or inappropriate, I want to be broken up, the right to know the news openly and honestly, right?

Everyone has their own thoughts, and I know that, but can you make the breakup a little bit more important? Since there is a very clear beginning between you, it is also a little more responsible, there is a clear end, and the relationship between the two people also needs to be broken up.

Regardless of whether you have experienced something bad between you, causing you to break up or sulking, I think there should be a chance to speak well, you should say it directly, and you should not treat it coldly.

Of course, it is directly said that cold treatment is to give hope to others, which is a unilateral breakup and an irresponsible behavior.

After my divorce, many people have introduced me to people, most of them have never met, and they will chat online first, which means that if the chat is good, they will meet again, of course, because many people are out of town and can't come back to meet.

One of the objects that my aunt introduced to me, I feel very good, and usually chat ** or something, at the beginning, he always took the initiative to chat with me, and after chatting for a while, maybe he felt that we were not suitable, so he no longer took the initiative to contact me.

At this time, my aunt always asked us how we were doing. I told my aunt that I hadn't been in touch for a long time, and I didn't know what he meant, but my aunt was quite concerned about this matter, so I went to ask the introducer, who was actually a relative of his family.

He said that he felt that the two of us couldn't talk, and then he didn't contact him, maybe the introducer asked him, and then he called me again, saying that because I have children, I'm afraid that the burden will be too heavy in the future.

At that time, I also said that I had a child, and now I feel that my child is a burden, and the most important thing is that if you don't agree, tell me, no one will rely on you, and you don't have to.

So I think it's really irresponsible to treat a breakup coldly, I haven't known each other for a long time, like many people who have talked for a long time and have given a lot of feelings to each other, so they shouldn't be treated coldly.

If you want to break up, just say it openly, what is the cold treatment, is it in love or not, you are cold, you feel that you have broken up, but this side is still waiting for you stupidly! Do you treat others as spare tires or fools!

I think it's better to say it directly, because I think it's really hurtful to treat it coldly, and I don't think there's anything that can't be solved by communication, so it's good to get together and disperse? If you can handle it, the relationship between the two people will be stiff in the future, or although you don't plan to be friends in the future, but after all, you have liked the person you once loved, and you should be kind to each other, and if you deal with your IQ, the other party will be hurt a lot. <

The two of you have solved this mystery, if the two of you are really not suitable for being together, the two of you will make it clear, explain clearly the reason why you are not suitable for being together or the two of you are not suitable, why, after making these things clear, the two of you are letting go openly, isn't it better? If you can deal with it, the other party doesn't know why you want to break up with him It's not exactly who is in a forced state, others obviously like you at the beginning, but you directly ignore others, or directly block them, which will leave a shadow in his heart, and it is difficult for him to let go of this matter, because he doesn't know why his boyfriend or girlfriend broke up with him, which is very cruel to him, and he doesn't even know why he was listed by others, and was kicked by others. How cruel that was to him.

I think if you really love him, you can make it clear to him, and when you say it clearly, two people are frankly separated, which is the best state to break up. The first boyfriend was separated from me coldly.,Don't say anything.,Suddenly ignore me.,I hate him very much about this matter.,I think I'm hurt very much in this matter.,Obviously you don't like it.,Just say you don't like it.,Why do you want to separate without saying anything? Cold treatment or cold war is a cruel thing.

If you want to break up, just say it directly, why treat it coldly, if I talk about breaking up, I don't like the other party, just tell the other party directly, we are not suitable or something like that, why do you have to drag it, don't say anything, won't it cause trouble to the other party, how to say what you think in your heart, cold treatment I don't think it's a particularly good way, like is like, don't like is not like, just say it clearly, don't drag it out, otherwise the emotional matter will drag on the mud and water, There will be a lot of unnecessary troubles, for example, you treat the other person coldly, and the other party doesn't understand, thinking that you are just angry, and then you go to find a new boyfriend, and your ex, if he finds out that you are with another boy, and he doesn't know that you actually broke up with him, and sees you hugging and hugging other boys, he will definitely rush up and beat your current one.

So in order not to cause unnecessary trouble, it is better to say it directly, don't use cold treatment to deal with the problem, if you just don't want to break her heart, just use cold treatment, then you can say it euphemistically, or write a letter, or you can send a text message to say, but don't ignore the other party directly, so that the other party never knows what you are doing, and you must make sure that the other party already knows that you are breaking up with him, so that the next thing will not be an accident.

I'm definitely the kind of straightforward way to say that cold treatment is the same ending, and it's the same ending to say it directly, so no matter how you do it, the ending is the same, and it's much easier to say it directly than cold treatment. At least there won't be any procrastination.