Why is it that the more you redeem, the farther away your boyfriend is from you?

Because I think you're annoying, obviously you don't have you in your heart, and you've been pestering, of course, I'm getting farther and farther away from you.

Redemption means that you are no longer boyfriend and girlfriend, otherwise how can you talk about redemption? In other words, he doesn't belong to you now, and he doesn't need you now.

Men, who never know how to cherish what they hold in their hands, always feel that they are all their own anyway, and it is better to look at other people's things than their own.

When I was in school, I felt that other people's pens were better than my own, so I always borrowed them, and then I always felt that other people's women were more beautiful and virtuous than my own, so I couldn't borrow it, for it!

You have wronged yourself for him, but he cannot understand your suffering.

He said that if he doesn't love it, he won't love it, and if he doesn't want you, it's a matter of time or time, as long as one day he doesn't want you, just kick it away.

When he doesn't want you, you dress yourself up and look better than when you were with him, and he will always envy and regret it.

But if you are still the same, crying and chasing after him and wanting him to come back to you, it is probably impossible, because he is tired of the way you are now.

It's better to turn around and leave if you try to make it back, so maybe he will regret it a little.

The more you win back your boyfriend, the more he will feel that you can't live without him.

If you redeem it inappropriately, your boyfriend will not only not be moved, but will think that you are a cheeky, shameless, and dead face relying on him, so that he has no good feelings.

Men need freshness, and when you keep pestering him, his freshness will be worn out and tossed away. Therefore, it also takes skill to redeem, you can't blindly redeem, you can't just know how to cry, you only know how to mess around, you only know how to redeem him through bitter tricks. <>

Try to understand his mind, he chose to leave you for no reason. Maybe it's because it's been a long time, and you don't have the enthusiasm and freshness you had when you first got together, but if so, you can choose to travel to an unfamiliar environment and explore new things together.

If it's because he has a dog outside, you can give up. Such a scumbag, is it possible to redeem him? If you don't break up at this time, do you want to wait for the grave on your head to grow grass before breaking up? Still have a New Year's red envelope?

So let's solve this matter according to your own situation

People will have a feeling that they think that other people's things are good, and some people or things are lost before they know how to cherish them. These are all changes in people's thoughts and emotions. For example, if a couple of lovers quarrel, the more one of them offers courtesy to the other party, or says some words of retention, the more the other party feels his importance, and the more he will show a disdainful attitude, that is, he will be angry with the other party and punish the other party's behavior.

If you really like your person, he will tolerate your little temper and let you be coquettish. <>

Or he will be jealous because you talk to other members of the opposite sex, and he will often say some warm words to you, such as often advising you to go to bed early and not stay up late, let alone walking outside at night, because it is not safe. Boys sometimes think about a lot of things, and they will also get angry because girls make too many mistakes, but generally speaking, boys are more difficult to coax, because he tolerates you too much, and he may also have some resentment in his heart, which requires you to do some necessary measures to keep him.

Sometimes the more you hold on, your boyfriend will say that he is reluctant to accept it, because then she can also feel how deep your love for him is.

In fact, I think this is where love is more subtle. The more you try to hold on, the more you will lose. She will only belong to you when you truly let go. So sometimes love doesn't have to be forced, you must remember that I am fortunate to be gained, and my life is lost.

From a personal point of view, sometimes boys don't know how to cherish it, you cherish the relationship between you very much, you want to redeem him again and again, he will habitually think that next time you will try to redeem him.

Mainly because the more you try to get your boyfriend back, the more likely you will be self-defeating, so it will not be easy to get your boyfriend back.

Because your boyfriend understands your thoughts and thinks that you can't do without him, the more entangled the situation, the more you keep your boyfriend away.

Because your redemption method is wrong, your redemption method will only make your boyfriend hate you more and more, so he will be very far away from you.

It is because your attitude will become very obvious, and the other party will feel that she is very important, so the other party will not agree to your request.

The other party may feel that they care about the other party very much, and the other party will feel that they can't do without the other party at all, so even if they want to keep it back, it is a special loss, and it is difficult to return to the other party.

In fact, this is not your own problem, if you say that you have done your best to get your boyfriend back, but the other party can't get it back, just don't look back, that's because your boyfriend is actually completely dead to you, he doesn't love you anymore, a man who doesn't love you, of course you can't get it back.

Because Yan Hong doesn't like you in his heart, he will definitely not stay for you, and he will not spend all his time on you. So he won't be willing to resurrect the Rough Celery Book with you again.

The boy must have thought about it and doesn't want to be with you anymore, even if you redeem it, it's useless, and it's very cheap to redeem it like this.

After leaving our boyfriend, we often wonder if he will save our relationship. This kind of thinking is very popular, after all, we really give a lot in our relationship. However, to look at this sensibly, not all boyfriends will save our feelings, and not all feelings are worth saving.

First of all, no matter what your reason for leaving your boyfriend, his thoughts and actions are not entirely under your control. You can't force him to come back, and you can't pretend to still like him to get him interested. If he doesn't want to salvage his feelings, then any attempt to get him to change his mind is futile.

Of course, if he really loves you, he will consider saving the relationship.

Second, even if your boyfriend wants to save the relationship, you need to carefully consider whether it is worth it. If your relationship is unhealthy or you've been hurt too much, it may not be a good idea to salvage the relationship. On the contrary, it may only prolong the pain and harm.

In this case, you need to think hard about whether you want to continue to have the relationship or whether it would be better to make a decision to let go.

Finally, if you want to salvage your feelings, you need to take positive action. This means doing honest soul-searching about the problems that exist in your relationship and trying to fix them. You need to show your true feelings and let your boyfriend know that you are willing to give everything for the relationship.

Of course, this also requires the boyfriend to have the same motivation and confidence.

In general, whether or not you will regain your relationship after leaving your boyfriend depends on a lot of factors. The best way to do this is to stay calm and sensible, and think about what you really want, and whether it's worth getting back. Whatever you choose, remember to protect your mind from being hurt again.