What is it like to be a college roommate who doesn t pay attention to hygiene?

Of course I'm not happy.,My college roommate is such a person.,I think my whole person is broken.,Most of the people who don't pay attention to hygiene are lazy.,Lazy will not clean the dormitory.,(Personal hygiene has problems, not to mention the dormitory problem)That is, the so-called selfishness! I'm annoyed anyway.

There used to be a girl in our class who liked to brush her shoes every time she came back from playing, but her feet were too smelly, and she was not put on the balcony to dry in the sun, and a gust of wind came over, and the whole bedroom was full of the smell of her feet. That sourness, I will remember it for a lifetime! So I really don't want to experience this experience anymore.

Not in college, but I once had a colleague who was a sloppy mess, with a messy desk and stacks of papers piled up as high as a hill, and I was in danger of being hit at any moment. The most difficult thing to accept is that he has rhinitis, and the table is full of tissues that he has wiped his nose with, and he does not throw them in the trash for several days, and he is simply the best standard-bearer for spreading the virus.

When we go to college, we will face a situation, as if the so-called hygiene problem in the dormitory has never been solved, and it is no longer like high school where there is a duty schedule, who sweeps the floor every week, etc., anyway, college roommates never clean up. My college roommates are all this kind of people, maybe everyone who has just become roommates is more respectful, take care of their own place or someone else's place, and then as they get along for a long time, they won't care about other people's feelings, at this time, every time my roommate comes back from the cafeteria or orders takeout, they are not still in the trash can after eating, they are directly placed on the table in the dormitory, sometimes the instant noodles that have been eaten have been put for more than a week, and they are really drunk.

In a dormitory, we will inevitably meet people we hate and like, in the face of the person we like, we should not completely dig out our hearts and lungs to her, and do not only get along with her alone (this is very important), which is not conducive to our interpersonal communication (if you have a rift, then your situation in the dormitory is very embarrassing), no matter how good your current relationship is, do not talk bad about others with her, or you inadvertently complain, it may become a handle for her to attack you in the future.

Although Qiaoshou is a little pessimistic, it is true! Of course, you may really make a good friend, but the heart of defense is indispensable, in the face of annoying people, we should not show it, after all, this is not good for us, don't find stumbling blocks for yourself because of your characteristics, don't miss a certain person when dividing things in a dormitory, there is a saying "rather fall into a group, not leave one behind", if you really miss a certain one, the other party may hold a grudge! We don't need to make trouble for ourselves.

If you really want to give it to her, you can choose to give it to her when you two are alone! Learn to express your opinion When faced with the problem of choosing in the dormitory, try to choose an option (if you really don't know what to choose, it's okay to hesitate occasionally) Don't keep your eyes dodging and keep saying, "Oh, I don't know the way, whatever, I choose what you choose, how can I choose?" And so on some vague options.

In the long run, people will have the impression that you are an unassertive person, and they will gradually ignore your feelings.

We can be generous about the options we want (even if it's really hard to choose), so that when we are really faced with an important choice, it will also increase our decisiveness. Previous articleA sister commented that her roommate was too loud at night, she was embarrassed to say, I think I can gently remind her, it is possible that she did not realize that she was too loud to make noise to the other party, and she was distressed here, it is better to express her thoughts directly!

When we go to college, we will experience the life of accommodation, and most of the roommates who live with you are from all over the world, and everyone's habits are different, of course, the quality is also high. There are many people who have gone to college and hate the life of the dormitory, because some people love to play games and are noisy, or some people do not pay attention to hygiene, etc., so how do we get along with our roommates when we encounter hygiene problems?

1. Communication. First of all, you should find a suitable time to meet your roommate in a quiet place, whether it is a playground or a path in the schoolyard, and talk to your roommate about her hygiene. Of course, you can't blame others as soon as you open your mouth, it will make your roommate feel very embarrassed, you should talk for a while before throwing out this question, and communicate with your roommate patiently, I believe that she will also realize her mistakes and pay attention to her hygiene in the rest of her life.

2. Take care of yourself.

Of course, we don't rule out stubborn roommates, even if we talk to her a lot of big truths, she can't listen to them, and she still has a self-doing attitude. At this time, we must not have a conflict with her, after all, we will still live in the same bedroom in the future, we should pay attention to the hygiene of Zheng Ji, as for the hygiene around her space, you don't have to worry about it, and you can clean the toilet yourself, don't complain too much, it is actually a blessing to suffer.

3. Counselors.

If she is particularly unhygienic and has ruined your hygiene, we need to find a counselor to solve the problem and have the counselor come forward to solve the problem. The worst thing is to ask the counselor to change the dormitory for you, so that you don't have to live with unhygienic roommates, which solves a big annoyance.

There is a problem of sedan burning in many dormitories, so I will briefly talk about the solution I have solved. First of all, I don't get angry, I take the initiative to clean the dormitory every day, and share some hidden dangers to physical health because of lack of hygiene, as well as the views of the opposite sex on these behaviors, etc., in short, take words and deeds, use the initiative to infect the passive, and slowly he himself will be embarrassed, more or less do some work to change himself. In short, don't make a conflict with this issue and affect the relationship between roommates.

Everyone should help each other and change each other when they go out.

7:08 College roommate is always very unspeakable Wei Zhao is a student, what should Xiang guess what to do with this can slowly induce the guide of the doctor author to buy a healthy student to live in the store, he will attract you You will also attract him, so that he will gradually follow you to learn well.

Reason with him, after all, it's a dormitory and not his home.

The first point is that there are two ways to solve the problem of people who do not agree with you and you do not want to get along with them for a long time.

The first option is that you stay away from these people, which is the easiest, but it is a bit difficult for the roommates who live in a dormitory!

Method 2, try to pay more attention to the advantages of your roommates, don't worry too much about their shortcomings, of course, this is difficult, but if you want to get along with your roommates and have a good dormitory relationship, on the one hand, look at the strengths of a person, on the other hand, you can communicate with them more, you can tell your roommates that you are okay to discuss anything, but please be quiet, this is the way to remind. There are many other ways of communication that you have to figure out for yourself.

The second point is not to listen to the so-called truth of too many people, the so-called "I think this is right" and similar remarks, you must have your own unique thinking, just like I told you at the beginning, you are an adult, even if you are not an adult, you are about to become an adult. You should have your own independent thinking, and you will not be guided by your roommates or others to think and discuss a thing that does not conform to your three views, etc.

Since he is a person of this age, he will do everything by himself, and the consequences will be borne by himself. As the saying goes, "the bell must be tied to the bell", and the problem caused by who has to be solved by that person in the end.

Third, if you feel that your thinking skills are not good enough to solve problems, read more books and go to the library more often, so that you don't hear the comments of your annoying roommates, and second, improve your reading and other skills.

Fourth, when you go to Soxun University, you should go outside more to improve your communication skills and knowledge. If you have time and opportunity, you can make friends in the community, travel to see the scenery, go to the places you like, meet the people you like, make friends with the people you like, and talk to people who have the same three views. It's best to stay in the dormitory less, as the strengths and weaknesses of your roommates will not affect you.

This is a must, when someone is resting, others should be quiet, this is our recognition, in the university dormitory relationship, we pay attention to hygiene, because this is not personal, so roommates should take care of each other, tolerate each other, have problems to control their emotions, and speak calmly.

First, pay attention to hygiene.

Hygiene includes personal hygiene and dormitory hygiene, the dormitory is small, usually a dormitory has at least four people, if you change the dirty clothes, dirty socks are not cleaned in time, eat and snack garbage is not thrown away in time, it is easy to smell, a long time may affect everyone's health, but also leave a very sloppy impression on roommates, not Song Xun socks are conducive to everyone's future interactions. Therefore, it is necessary to pay attention to personal hygiene at all times, and dormitory hygiene should also be done by everyone in turn.

Second, don't touch other people's things at will.

The dormitory is a small collective, although everyone lives together, but everyone is still an independent individual, so don't touch other people's things at will, even if you have a good relationship, you must inform in advance when you use other people's things, otherwise it will appear that you are very disrespectful of other people's privacy, and it is easy to cause disgust among roommates.

Third, control your emotions and don't engage in isolation.

Everyone comes from all over the world, and it is a great fate to live in the same dormitory, but everyone's living habits and personalities are different, in the daily process of getting along, you must control your emotions, don't lose your temper, and be more understanding and tolerant of your roommates' unsatisfactory places, don't isolate and exclude any roommate, and treat everyone equally to make the dormitory relationship more harmonious.