My boyfriend doesn t care about me as much as he used to, how can I get his heart back?

I've had problems like you, but I'm a man, you have to find out where your problem is, for example, because of you, you try to find a way to solve it, show up when he needs it, help him, but be measured, don't be high.

Don't beg him for anything.

The more you beg him, the more he will look down on him. This will make you worse and worse;

If his reason.

You have to understand, but don't explain it directly, otherwise it will be difficult to deal with him in the future, and he will keep you pressing.

Thinking that you can't do without him will make him more and more presumptuous.

In the new year you.

I wish you both a speedy reconciliation.

There is a kind of love called giving up.

There is a kind of love that waits.

There are dozens of more, so I won't talk about it.

After a long time, you will be a little tired, but after this period of time, it will be fine! Sometimes you need to give both sides a little room to breathe!

There is a kind of love called letting go.

Do you know very well on the 6th floor, you know very well, just help the floor pig pay attention.

What is it to scold me, it only means that you are the kind of person that no one wants.

Leave for a while

Let him know how important you are.

It is recommended that you go out and travel for a few days, disappear in his world for a few days, let yourself think about it, and give him a space to think! +

Put your hand on the first floor.。。 Look at so many questions, you have a hard "There is a love called letting go" I bah I bah

It depends on what the situation is.

1. He really doesn't care about you anymore, is it because he's bored? New love and so on. If this is the case, then you should communicate with him well, if the communication is still ineffective then you should leave him, the long pain is better than the short pain, after all, the more unsuitable people are together, the longer the time will be uncomfortable.

2, is it because he has been busy lately and struggles for his career, in this case, it is a better situation, at least a man works hard than around his girlfriend all day long, and if the relationship is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight!

3. The relationship encounters a bottleneck, and the conversation is too long to enter a calm stage. This stage requires two people to work together to overcome, many couples are unable to break through the calm period and separate, since they choose to be together, they must cherish it.

Two people still need to communicate and understand more when they are together.

Finally, I wish you a long and happy relationship!

Baby, don't be sad, for men, we don't let go too much, because that will only hurt ourselves, when he loves you, he loves you, but when he doesn't love you, he really doesn't love you, if you don't love, why bother to let him torture you, he doesn't love, then let other men have the opportunity to love you, no one lives, for love, in my opinion, it's always women who are hurt, so we have to care more about ourselves, protect ourselves, baby, good, let him leave if he doesn't love, there's no need to love so humble, Believe that you will be happy! Why don't you give up, I don't know what you're thinking every day.

Then try to snub him and see how he reacts, and if you don't love him, don't keep it, after all, he's already thinking about leaving.

Don't bother with him, don't care about him, don't get used to him.

Maybe it's been a long time, and the relationship has become dull.

After a long time, there will always be some problems.

Everyone's expression of love and concern is different, especially when it comes to boys and girls.

Generally speaking, boys tend to think rationally and are more inclined to solve problems, while girls are more emotional and more inclined to express feelings.

Girls are often half angry when they hear this answer, feeling that the other party doesn't care about them. But in fact, as a former senior straight man, I can say very responsibly that the reason why a guy says this is not that he doesn't care about girls, on the contrary, he may care about girls very much, and hopes to help girls really solve her problem of colds, and at this time he thinks the best thing to do is to rest more and drink more hot water.

As for saying, "Baby, you're suffering, hug" and the like, some of the comforting words that some girls want to hear will be useless.

He may care about you, just because he doesn't express his concern in the same way as you, so often you won't be able to feel his care. At this time, the easiest way is to see if he is from your point of view, whether it is from your point of view to take care of your emotions or help you solve problems.

Of course, it is also possible that he may have lived in a centered environment since he was a child, whether it is his parents, relatives and friends, etc., they all spoil him.

This makes it easy for him to develop a character that only knows how to take, not how to give. He thinks that the whole world should serve him.

So your concern is what he deserves, not what he particularly needs to cherish.

This is generally seen in some boys who have good living conditions or are particularly outstanding in appearance. The good conditions allow him to be loved by everyone. Like the rich and handsome Oba in Korean dramas, he still takes care of girls in every way, but there are really not many in reality.

Try to care for him. You pay too much attention to your own feelings, in the same way, your boyfriend is also a human being and also needs to pay attention to his inner feelings, you only feel that you get less care, have you ever thought that in fact, he also needs to care, love is mutual, care about others.

You can communicate more with him. Ask him why, if it's because he's too tired from work and doesn't have time or thoughts, don't mind too much.

Find out why he doesn't care about you so much anymore, if it's because he's busy with work or because he has lost his feelings for you. If it's the former, be more considerate of him, and if it's the latter, break up with him.

If your boyfriend doesn't care about you as much as he used to, you have to reflect on whether it's your own fault and correct it if so.

Your boyfriend doesn't care about you as much as he used to, you can just ask your boyfriend what's going on and ask him to explain to you why he's indifferent to you.

I suggest you do something new together. Your relationship may be in a quiet period, and you can do something new to find the initial feeling.

Talk to him. If you have something, you should say it, otherwise the two of you will just go further and further, and your boyfriend may just be too busy lately, so you can talk to him and let him care more about you.

I think you can talk to him directly about this and what is causing this. If it's your fault, you make corrections; If it's his reason, you show him that you need his care.

You can talk to him to see if there is a problem with the relationship between you, or if he is busy with work during this time and really can't take care of your feelings.

Think about why he became like this, whether it is because of your feelings for you or because you usually ignore him, and communicate well with him.