Did I offend him, what should I do if you offend me?

Updated on workplace 2024-04-04
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't speculate in the minds of leaders.

    Since you want to come back, go and ask for it, it's your business whether you go or not, and it's his problem whether he gives it or not. Is that right?

    But if you don't go, just here is useless to guess what he means, do you want him to send you back?

    So, don't think too much about things, try it yourself; If you don't come back, that's another story, right?

    However, it is important to pay attention; When you go to ask for a book, you are begging someone, no matter how you usually joke and so on, you must admit your mistake first, and then say that the book belongs to someone else. Finally, I hope that the leader can return it to you and politely express your gratitude.

    Remember to speak tactfully, but briefly.

    Well, the rest depends on you...

    Go ahead... Finally, if you are a lesbian and your leader is a gay man, you must remember that he is only your leader in any public place, so some jokes seem to be acceptable to him, and you can be casual; But others will have an opinion.

    Are you right?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you really can't find out** offended him, why don't you go to the leader to talk, saying that you are not in a good mood these days, is there anything I can help you? Although he may not say it, but when your heart arrives, he will pay attention to it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Maybe he's not in a good mood.

    You ask someone if he's doing the same to them.

    If not, then he's not you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Find a colleague first to find out if he has any troubles. Or find another leader who is familiar with the leader to explain the situation, as long as the attitude is good, I think he should give you some information.

    It's not easy to be a subordinate these days, and it's not good if you don't figure out the leader.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let's talk a lot, and it will be clear after the exchange.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Ha ha. Your leader should have nothing to do with the draw.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Or you just bring a little bit of a sentence at dinner: What has the leader been worried about lately?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Most likely, it is better to report to the leader and find out what he really thinks.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1.Make a pure apology to me;

    2.Try to make up for your mistakes;

    3.Do your best not to make the same implicit mistakes again;

    4.Try to maintain good communication with me and respect each other;

    5.Try to understand my thoughts and respect my opinions;

    6.Try to be friends with me, communicate more, communicate more.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Cautious silence is shrewd evasion.

    2. Know yourself: Promote your most outstanding talents and cultivate other aspects. As long as you know your strengths and grasp them, all people will be prominent in something.

    3. Never exaggerate: Exaggeration is detrimental to the truth and can easily make people doubt your opinion. The shrewd person restrains himself, shows caution, speaks concisely and to the point, and never exaggerates himself.

    Overvaluing oneself is a form of lying. It can damage your reputation and have a very negative impact on your relationships. It is detrimental to your grace and intellect.

    4. Adapt to the environment: survive the fittest, don't spend too much energy on chores, and maintain a good relationship between colleagues. Don't show off yourself every day, or others will get bored with you.

    There must always be something new to the people. People who show a little bit every day will keep expectations alive and won't bury your talents.

    5. Learn from each other's strengths: learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings. When communicating with friends, treat everyone with a humble and friendly attitude.

    Treat your friends as teachers, blend useful knowledge with humorous words, and what you say will be praised, and what you hear will be learned.

    6. Be concise and concise: conciseness can make people happy, make people like, and make people easy to accept. Verbosity and cumbersomeness will confuse and annoy you, and you will miss your goal. A concise and clear tone will definitely make you do more with less.

    7. Never be arrogant: often talk about your strengths and show off your advantages in front of others. This invisibly devalues others and exalts yourself, and the result is that others look down on you more.

    8. Never complain: Complaining will make you lose credibility. When you don't succeed in what you do, you have the courage to admit your shortcomings and try to make things work out.

    Moderate self-examination will not make people look down on you, on the contrary, always emphasize objective reasons, complaining about this, complaining about that, will only make others despise you.

    9. Don't lie and lose trust: Lying to friends and colleagues will lose the trust of friends and colleagues, so that friends and colleagues will never believe in you again, which is your biggest loss. We must avoid big words, we must do what we say, and we would rather not say what we can't do.

    10. Be far-sighted: When wealth is prosperous, you should think of poverty, which is easy to do. Smart people prepare for winter. Be sure to make more friends. Maintain good relationships with friends and colleagues, and one day you will value people or things that don't seem important right now.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Think before you speak. Think about whether you should say it or not, and who you will hurt by saying it. Just grasp the measure.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Love to talk and laugh, easy to hurt people and don't know.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Me too, maybe you said something they didn't like to hear.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Your character is straightforward and honest! I like honest people, but that's often the easiest way to offend people! If you meet someone in the future, you will say something.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Low-key person, before you speak, you have a brain!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Either be cautious in your words and deeds, or be yourself, and if you offend, you will be offended, so what can you do.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You should change your personality.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you and give you the following answer: Who do you offend? It depends on your situation.

    First, you need to admit your mistake and apologize. 2.Then, you need to try to make amends, for example, you can give the other person a gift or help them solve some problems.

    3.Finally, you need to be open and honest with the other party to let them know that you are sincere. Personal Tips:

    1.Respect others and don't offend them easily. 2.

    If you accidentally offend someone, admit your mistake and try to make amends. 3.Communicate openly and honestly and let the other person know that you are genuine.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Summary. Hello dear, offending others, not offending yourself means that we should avoid offending others, but at the same time, we must also protect our own rights and interests. It emphasizes balance and respect in relationships.

    Offense is an act that usually refers to being disrespectful, offensive, or hurtful to another person. It can be intentional or unintentional. But whatever the reason, offense can be painful and unpleasant.

    Offense can be interpreted as unintentionally or intentionally causing harm, offense, or disrespect to others. I hope the above answers can help you, and if there are other questions, you can continue to ask questions, and I wish you a happy life <>

    What does it mean to offend others and not to offend yourself?

    Hello dear, Shen Yuan I am Teacher Allen, good at marriage and family, love, psychology, recovery, interpersonal communication and other aspects of problem analysis, can feel that you are very confused now, I am as wide as a collapse to solve the problem together, don't be in a hurry to <>

    Hello dear, don't offend your brother, don't offend yourself, meaning that we should avoid offending others, but at the same time, we must also protect our own rights and interests. It emphasizes balance and respect in relationships. Offense is an act that usually refers to being disrespectful, offensive, or hurtful to another person.

    It can be intentional or unintentional. But whatever the reason, offense can be painful and unpleasant. Offense can be interpreted as unintentionally or intentionally causing harm, offense, or disrespect to others.

    I hope the above answers can help you, and if there are other questions, you can continue to ask questions, and I wish you a happy life <>

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  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If I offend someone, will I be killed by the offended person?

    Hello. No, it won't. It is normal to offend people in society, and no one can guarantee that they will not offend people, and if there is such a situation, it is enough to find a way to figure it out, and no one will put the other party to death because of such a situation.

    In accordance with the law, the person who killed the person shall be investigated for criminal responsibility in accordance with the law, so that the person who offended will not be killed. So don't worry, that won't happen.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Summary. People say that there is no regret medicine in the world, and regret is useless. The thing has been done, and since there is no room for recovery, there is no need to regret and dwell on this matter.

    In fact, how can people not offend people in the rivers and lakes? Everyone has a time when they are not careful, saying the wrong word or doing the wrong thing, even a look may offend people. If you offend someone, you have to find a way to slowly redeem it, and if you have the opportunity, you have to explain it slowly.

    People often say that if you don't fight, you don't know each other, if you meet someone who sympathizes with Dali, they will give you a smile, a smile and a grudge, so that all the grievances between you will be resolved, and finally the two of you will become good friends, and sometimes it is really a bad thing that becomes a good thing.

    Find yourself offending someone.

    People say that there is no regret medicine in the world, and regret is useless. The thing has been done, and since there is no room for recovery, there is no need to regret and dwell on this matter. In fact, how can people not offend people in the rivers and lakes?

    Everyone has a time when they are not careful, saying the wrong word or doing the wrong thing, even a look may offend people. If you offend someone, you have to find a way to slowly redeem it, and if you have the opportunity, you have to explain it slowly. People often say that if you don't fight, you don't know each other, if you meet someone who sympathizes with Dali, they will give you a smile, a smile and a grudge, so that all the grievances between you will be resolved, and finally the two of you will become good friends, and sometimes it is really a bad thing that becomes a good thing.

    But I want to remind you that in this world, it is better to offend a gentleman than a villain, and if you offend a villain, your life will not be easy. Therefore, in the future, you must pay more attention to what you do and speak in front of some people to avoid causing unnecessary trouble.

    Then I feel like I can't do anything right, and I feel like my life is so messy.

    A month after giving birth.

    That's not adapting to the environment, dear, after giving birth, the mood has changed, so I feel that everything is unfamiliar, and it takes a while to get used to this. Nothing.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Yesterday I said something very dashing.

    Someone said that I have always been more rigorous in my speech, so as not to offend people. I subconsciously replied that if you offend, you will be offended, so what? After saying that, in that dialogue scene, I was very chic.

    It's not that deliberately taking the initiative to attack and offend others, that kind of thing is called provocation. I really feel that there is no need to be so tired in the workplace and life, because the one who is offended is not necessarily a "good person", and if you offend, you will be offended, and you also need to have the confidence to face bad things.

    Some people speak too rigorously, which does not rule out that they have "calculations" in their hearts, or they live too pragmatically. Sometimes I don't dare to say it, it may be that the other party has what you want, it may be that you have concerns, in short, there must be a reason to be cautious, so it is not frank.

    When we are doing things, what we say is something that others have an idea after hearing it, and the fault may not be all on ourselves. No matter how careful a person is, there will definitely be a listener who has a heart. Of course, if it really brings a bad mood to the other party, you can apologize if you feel inappropriate, and pay attention next time.

    With a clear conscience, neither cowering.

    We don't take the initiative to offend people, that is, we don't cause trouble. If you have no intention of offending people, you must have the courage to take responsibility for problems, that is, you are not afraid of things.

    The only thing we have to do is not to care too much about what other people think, being able to speak is a kind of ability, and what you say is a kind of ability to make others like to listen to it. With the ability and mindfulness, everything comes naturally, and everything else is just an external illusion.

    Sometimes we are really tired, which is why we have so many yearning for poetry and distance.

    The best appearance of the world is in my heart.

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