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There will always be all kinds of slang or proverbs in our lives, some are philosophical words spoken by celebrities, and some may be the experience of the older generation passed down by word of mouth, and in this oral statement, maybe some are really vulgar, but some you can't deny its meaning, elegant language, rough expression, and finally the experience left to us by the older generation.
Living in the countryside, there are really a lot of old sayings in the countryside, and there are a lot of them that are still applicable now, rural people are more realistic, there are no things that are vain, and they will not say anything good, but every sentence is true, and no one deliberately writes it down, and no one deliberately learns it, but after so much time, it has been passed down to this day, because it has a certain truth.
Like what "the family has three treasures, the ugly wife thinly ripped the cotton jacket", "a mother can raise seven children, seven children are difficult to support a mother", "often walk by the river, how can there be no wet shoes", "only a thousand miles of names, no thousands of miles of wind" and other classic old sayings, of course, there are many more, now explain the meaning of "rather plant against the wilderness, than to avoid the desert wife".
First of all, this sentence is not disgusted with the people who fled the famine, the living standards of the vast number of farmers at that time were about the same, and no one could avoid natural and man-made disasters, coupled with such a situation at that time, people's living standards were very low, everyone's only requirement was to eat and drink enough, farming is the hope of the peasants to survive, but if they really encountered a famine, the peasants wanted to survive and could only leave their hometowns to start fleeing the famine, and the reason why such words came out is because of the woman who fled the famine, you don't know anything about her details, At that time, the means of communication were not developed, no one knew what she was doing before, and no one knew whether this woman really escaped from the famine, and there was no guarantee of marrying such a wife without knowing anything.
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The meaning of this sentence is that it is better to cultivate barren land than to marry a woman who has fled from the wilderness, because such a woman does not know her identity and may have unnecessary trouble later.
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The meaning of this sentence is that it is better to cultivate barren land than to marry women who have fled the famine, because generally these women are of unknown origin and cannot marry indiscriminately.
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It is better to plant against the wilderness than to avoid the desert wife. What this means is that it is better to plant fertile land than to marry a woman who has fled the famine.
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For the ancient people, in that era of hunger and poverty, even the barren land had to be planted, but the woman who fled the famine did not want to marry, first, because she came from a foreign country, and the background situation was not known, and the ancient times paid attention to "innocence", so it was very taboo.
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The approximate meaning of this sentence is that it is better to plant a lot of land than to marry a woman who fled the famine, after all, it is an era of poverty.
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Don't look at this sentence from today's perspective, then you may not be able to understand it at all, this proverb actually shows the current situation of peasant life in the past, and it is very life-like.
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It is a metaphor for a husband and wife composed of interests, it is difficult to last for a long time, it is better to be honest and find someone who really likes each other.
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The reason why there is such a saying is because the ancients attached great importance to the background identity of women, and for women who fled the famine, their identity background is unknown, and they cannot marry indiscriminately.
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It means that it is better to cultivate barren land than to marry women who have fled the famine, because these women are generally of unknown origin.
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It is better to plant against the wilderness than to avoid the desert wife. The meaning of this phrase is that it is better to cultivate less fertile land than to marry a woman who has fled the famine.
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It is better to plant poor land resources than to marry a woman who fled the famine, in ancient times, this proverb is indeed special and has some truth, but now this proverb is no longer applicable, because the society is now a very stable social development, food crops have long been not, everyone is worried about the problem, but the blind date is difficult These problems do appear, in the past, everyone was worried about food crops, and now everyone is worried about daughter-in-law, which has to be admitted to be very interesting.
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It is better to have the land that no one wants, and who depends on the sky for food, than to have the wives of those who come to take refuge in the wilderness, because women are always prone to nostalgia for their former families and children.
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This refers to the choice of some people in some natural and man-made disasters, and some old people think that this choice is more beneficial to them, so there are such words.
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is willing to plant land with a poor harvest than to ask for a daughter-in-law who has fled. Because, no matter how bad the land is, there will always be a harvest, and the daughter-in-law who has fled the famine, if the marriage foundation is not strong, will run away.
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It is better to leave the country after the famine, and never marry a daughter-in-law who fled from other places, these people came here to beg for food, and they don't know the details.
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It means that I would rather farm when the sky is in a famine, than marry the kind of wife who escapes the famine, so that I can be a little luckier.
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In the countryside, the older generation always has a lot of old sayings, some life sayings, which have been passed down to this day. For example, there is a sentence: It is better to plant against the wilderness than to avoid the wilderness.
The literal meaning of this sentence is easy to understand:is willing to plant those unnutritious saline-alkali land and wasteland that no one wants, rather than marry a woman who fled because of the famine.
Some people may not understand why a piece of wasteland is more important than people. Would you rather have land than people? This logic might be hard to accept now, right?
In the past, the general environment was not good, and the natural environment was also very bad, and there was always a great famine from time to time. So those who wanted to eat a bite to eat and survived moved their families to places where food was abundant.
However, at that time, everyone was not rich, and it was good to have something to eat, so for their own livelihood, those saline-alkali land and dry land without water that no one wanted and no one cared for, let alone developed, could grow any kind of food as they wanted. Let's not talk about a good harvest, but it's always possible to fill your stomach. So people at that time would think that I had worked hard to clear a wasteland, and finally I could still get some food to feed myself.
But those women who fled the famine originally had a family, and only came here because they were poor because they couldn't afford to eat, if they waited until their lives were rich, would they still run back to find their original families? In this way, it is inevitable that your bamboo basket will be empty, and after weighing the pros and cons, you always feel that this will be more disadvantageous.
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Because the wives who avoid the famine have a plan, and sometimes they marry you just to fill their stomachs.
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"I'd rather go against the wilderness than please the wife who avoids the wilderness, is it so unpleasant to avoid the waste"? Why? People don't care about anything when they want to live, and when they have food and clothing, they will be exposed in their original form.
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The wife is just greedy for your money, sometimes just to fill your stomach.
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After food and clothing, the original form will be revealed, and the wives who avoid the famine have a plan.
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The old saying in the countryside "I'd rather plant against the wilderness than please the wife who avoids the famine", and "the wife who avoids the famine" is so unpleasant because the old people in the family don't like it.
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I think it's scary, just for the sake of immediate interests.
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It's scary, they sometimes marry you just to fill their stomachs.
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Rural elders often say'I'd rather go against the wilderness, but avoid my wife', which means that although the land is very barren, as long as you cultivate it carefully, there will always be a harvest. And the wife who seeks to avoid the famine is different, it is called unreliable, why?
'Rather than a desolate seed'What is the meaning?
In the old society, land was generally concentrated in the hands of the landlords and capitalists, and the rural peasants generally lived by renting their landThey believe that although the land is barren, as long as you reclaim it and fertilize it every year, maybe it will become fertile land and a high-yield harvest land in a few years, then we poor people will not have to rent grain to cultivate the landlords' land in the future, then our life will be settled from now on, and we will have to rely on it!
The so-called'and to avoid the desolate wife'
In the old society, the so-called wife who avoided the famine generally refers to a married woman, because the family encountered a famine, the war was outcast, and the husband and wife and children were unfortunately separated on the way to escape the famineIn fact, women like this kind of desert, they'In Cao Ying, his heart is in Han', is still deeply concerned about her husband and her children who are dependent on each other and fleeing the famine to beg together, and her heart is like a knife, and she secretly burst into tears.
Therefore, the wives who fled the famine generally inquire about their husbands, children, and hometown every day, and once the situation improves, their feelings of returning to their hometown are very urgentTherefore, if the wife of the desert still has a grateful heart, she may say goodbye to you, and if she meets an ungrateful person, she packs up her clothes and leaves overnight, this means that the wife of the fugitive is unreliable.
Rural sayings'I'd rather go back to the world, but run away from my wife', more shows that you don't take advantage of the danger of being a man, you must know the root of the wife to ask for a wife, you can't blindly pursue your own love, or work down-to-earth to make money, and find your true love to be reliable.
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When choosing a mate, don't look for these daughters-in-law who come from outside to avoid the famine, because the wives who have avoided the famine have a plan, and sometimes they marry you just to fill their stomachs.
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In ancient times, there was often a famine, and many people left their hometowns because of this, when choosing a mate, don't look for these daughters-in-law who came from outside to avoid the famine, because the wives who avoided the famine have a plan, and sometimes they marry you just to fill their stomachs, and secondly, you don't know about her situation.
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In ancient times, there was often a famine, and many people left their hometowns because of this, so at that time, people said that if you marry a daughter-in-law, you must not marry someone who fled from other places, because these people are just to beg for food, and you don't know anything else, and there is no guarantee for marrying such a daughter-in-law.
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No one can say exactly how many old sayings there are in the countryside, but each sentence is summarized by the old peasants based on their own life experience.
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Because as long as you work hard, even if it's a wasteland, you can grow things, but a desert wife is unreliable.
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Because for the woman who fled to the house, everyone doesn't know what happened to her before, and if she marries home rashly, she may cause trouble.
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In the old society, land was generally concentrated in the hands of landlords and capitalists, and rural peasants generally lived by renting their land.
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Because if she marries a wife who has taken refuge, she may still run away when she is in trouble.
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, marry a daughter-in-law, don't marry someone who fled from other places, because these people are just to beg for food, and you don't know anything else.