Is there always a price to be paid behind growth?

Generally, people have to grow up through constant setbacks and trials. The road of life depends on us, and it is also up to us to walk the good or bad. What does a successful path look like?

In addition to being brave enough to go in and working hard, it also has good habits. However, the habit is that we have to be self-reliant. Self-reliance is not only in life, but also in all aspects of career and so on.

When we were young, our parents let us dress ourselves and let us eat with chopsticks. At that time, how did I know the intentions of my parents, and when I grew up, I understood the good intentions of my parents, and only then did I understand that my parents let me develop good habits and walk out of a successful life path, a perfect life. However, the road of self-reliance is uneven, and it is not easy to walk out of a perfect life, but as long as we have faith, any difficulties will not stop me from moving forward, so the requirements for us will be higher.

Speaking of this, I should also talk about how to be self-reliant, a good habit of self-reliance, you need to have a healthy physique, health is the foundation of spiritual freedom and creation, the foundation of career, the foundation of happiness. If you have a weak physique, you will eventually achieve nothing, be ashamed for life, and regret for life; You need to have a strong personality, it is inconvenient to lower your dignity, not to be timid in the face of wind and rain, not to give up the pursuit and faith, and always strive to open up the vast life.

Of course, there will be a lot of ups and downs in growing up, and you can only see the rainbow after going through wind and rain.

Yes, growth comes at a price.

The price of growth is to lose the original appearance, that is, people are constantly changing in the process of growing up, being polished by the real society, losing the courage and capital to rampage, when you are no longer alone, every step forward does not only represent you alone.

That is to say, in the process of growing up, people basically have to adapt to the code of conduct of society and the needs of society to adjust themselves. It is impossible to do everything according to one's own wishes, and when you leave society, you have to suppress your own individuality and conform to the environment. Reality abuses you thousands of times, you treat reality as your first love, the process of growing up will be very painful and bitter, if you pass, it will be a sunny day, if you can't step, you will only fall into the abyss.

Growth is like a choice, there is a give-and-take, I think I can be very manly, but in the end, I found that the reality is so cruel and I am so small, and the life I fantasize and desire is very beautiful, but it takes both hands to create, but I lost and lost to growth.

People sometimes have to admit that their power is very small, and sometimes they have to lower their noble heads to accept the reality in front of them. People always have to swallow their grievances, and then move forward without saying a word, wipe away their tears, everyone has an unspeakable story, and the price of growth is to lose the original appearance.

The cost of growth: It is the value of the effort, energy and wealth investment that people (or animals and plants) expend in the process of growth. Abbreviated as the price of growth.

The price of growth: It is the setback or blow generated in the collision and running-in, which can make us more aware of the incompatibility between what we think and do and reality, and then choose to persist or compromise. Those who still adhere to their ideals and principles after paying the price are burdened with more and more responsibilities.

The main thing is that we become strong enough to take control of life, to have the ability and experience to face the difficulties and obstacles that life encounters.

There are many costs to growth, the first is to lose your innocence and become dull and boring.

Growth comes at the cost of setbacks. Grow through adversity and constant setbacks (falling on your heels).

The price of people's growth is to exchange their lives for money when they are young, and it is not easy to exchange money for their lives when they are old!

What is the price of growth? Maybe it's just that there is less and less happiness, and then there are more and more things to understand, and even the pressure will get more and more.

It's about losing, remembering, looking forward to it, running forward all the time, and suddenly discovering that what was once at your fingertips is now precious.

There are only constant failures. will continue to grow. Gain experience. Be tested. Not afraid of difficulties? You have to learn to endure hardships to succeed.

Growth comes at a price, not everyone can grow, growth means that you have to continue to live while constantly letting go of the past.

Many people, why are they still the same for one year, two years, three years, and five years, and they have not grown at all, because they have been holding on to the past, unwilling to let go, and not to embrace the new life.

I have to admit that growing up is really a very painful thing, you have to give up ruthlessly, those past that make you stagnant, you have to move forward bravely for those unknowns.

Why, we always make mistakes when we are young, why we always rebel when we are young, why we are always young and disobedient. Many times, it's because I was ignorant at that time and hadn't grown up yet.

Time flies, we have faded away from immaturity and youth, and we have no chance to choose again. At that time, if you don't listen well, some of the pain caused will become eternal pain.

We can never go back to the past, leaving only regret for the present, perhaps, this is the so-called growth, we are finally no longer young. And we are finally sensible, and we are no longer rebellious, but we have all missed our youth.

Growth is a personal choice, this is your own life, you yourself are the only person responsible for your own life, you can choose to grow, you can also choose to be content with the status quo.

The same 996, the same working time, after work, you can choose to brush Tik Tok and play games after work, of course, you can also choose to read books, or go to sports, it is just your own choice, there is no right or wrong.

Growing up is painful, when everyone is swiping their mobile phones, you go to read books, go to research, and improve your ability, which is really a very painful choice, but you also know that different choices will make you have a different life.

Any skill can be learned, maybe you are just a small clerk in the company now, if you don't learn, don't grow, don't improve yourself, the company will always recruit younger, more beautiful people, to replace you.

And if you continue to improve your business skills and continue to grow yourself, even if you can't get a promotion and a salary increase, you have many other possibilities in life.

Growth is not something you can just think about, growth is an effort to grow. If you want to speak English fluently, you need to start from word by word, memorize words carefully, learn grammar, and practice a lot of oral English, so that you can slowly practice your fluent English communication skills.

The meal should be eaten one bite at a time, and the road should be taken step by step. Growth is like this, you have to keep working hard, you put in the effort, you have the hope of harvesting.

Like, if you want to win the lottery, if you want to win the lottery, you have to at least buy a lottery ticket first. If you want to grow and gain, you have to at least give first. Heaven will never do anything wrong to those who are honest.

I hope that we can all go all the way, to give, to learn, to grow, and slowly meet the self we want, and we will eventually be able to live the life we want.

The world has never been fair, and the so-called growth is to learn to pay the price. We want to learn new skills, we need to pay the desire and time to learn new skills, we want to buy food, we need to pay money to exchange, we want to get money, we need to pay time and skills to exchange, this is the price we need to pay. The fairest thing in the world :

Everybody's day has 24 hours, so some people need to give their time in exchange for pay, some people can use the pay to buy some people's time, this is the world, when you understand, this is growth.

When you know that the world is not self-centered, when you know that you are only a small part of this world, when you know that you must be full of awe of the world, when you know that you must put family, friendship, and love in your heart, when you know that someone is sheltering you from the wind and rain, and you must also shelter others from the wind and rain, when you know that only by giving can you gain something, when you know that responsibility and obligation exist at the same time, when you know, When you need to compromise with the world, that's growth.

This world is fair, you want to get, you have to pay, "willing to give, there is to give", human beings are born selfish, because we always want to put all the good things around us, but we are always unwilling to pay the corresponding price, like: we are fortunate enough to pick up 100 yuan, we just lost 100 yuan, although the total amount remains the same, but the loss of 100 yuan to get frustration is far greater than the happiness when we pick up 100 yuan, It can even make us forget the happiness that comes when we pick up the 100 yuan, which is human nature.

Learning to grow is actually very simple, it may be an epiphany in a moment, or it may be because of the blow of something, but the most important thing is that we know the most basic law of this world: the equal exchange of resources!

We will always complain about how others are doing, but never look for reasons in ourselves, the fault is someone else's, the good is our own, this is the wrong behavior, when you learn to find the answer in your own body, this is also a kind of growth. We are gentle with the world, and although the world does not necessarily treat us with gentleness, because the world is impermanent, we need to learn: always smile!

Always keep your head up!

The years are ruthless and urge people to grow old, and time happens like an arrow.

Once when I returned home, I saw my father and mother happily pulling each other's gray hair with reading glasses, and the impact of that moment swept through my mind like a tsunami, leaving behind a sense of emotion and urgency. At that moment, I realized that I was no longer young, and since then, I have always wanted to work harder, try harder.

A while ago, I had the flu, I turned out the medicine box with a runny nose, and watched the dazzling array of medicines gradually fall silent, treating stomach pain, colds, anti-inflammatory, headaches, rhinitis, everything. At that moment, all of a sudden, I felt old.

I still remember saying goodbye to my friends in a hurry on the day of graduation, packing up my things, and coming to this strange city with huge luggage on my shoulder. It was already evening when the train arrived. I followed ** out of the station, looking at the neon flashes and traffic in the distance, a little confused, a little unfamiliar, a little apprehensive, and a little expectant.

I interviewed four or five companies, and almost all of them were rejected; I wanted to find a house close to the company, but I was deceived by an intermediary; I finally settled down, and my roommate who sang in the next room in the middle of the night broke me down.

Criticism from leaders, malice from strangers, and balancing the trivial things in life after work. One day, I was physically and mentally exhausted from bargaining with my aunt who sold vegetables, and on the way home, I suddenly began to think: time flies so fast, and I am no longer the coquettish teenager.

Now my parents consult with me when making decisions. My mother would ask for my opinion when she was thinking about my sister's studies and when there was something going on at home. I felt as if I was slowly taking over the affairs of the house, and I felt like I had grown up.

A person who goes out to study wants to buy some things he likes, learn some things that he is interested in, but he has no money, but he is reluctant to ask his parents, so he has to work to make money by himself, but he has not much money after a summer vacation, only to find that it is difficult to make money, and it is difficult for his parents.

Growth comes at a price, and knowing that day I realized that our countless regrets are the price of our growth. How I wish there was a regret medicine in the world, let me go back to that time when I was cracked and I would never be willful again!

Yes, there is a price to pay.

As you get older, everyone will slowly change, most of them will change their heads only to become more and more silent, or the five poisons will not invade, for example, in the past, they would lose their temper when they encountered something, or sulk, but slowly they won't, and many times they don't dare to do it.

When people reach middle age, they will face the problem of children getting older and their parents getting older, and they are the pillars of the family. Therefore, in the past, everything was right and wrong, but now I don't fight, I used to fight unevenly, but now I don't do it, I basically don't dare, because my words and deeds no longer represent myself, but the safety of one or two or even three families.

So, many times the cost of growth for many people is very high.