What should I do when I am heartbroken when I graduate from college in four years? Can you help me b

Don't get your life wrong.

What do you go to school for??? Emotional heartache on the occasion of graduating from four years of college???

Give your dad a slap in the face. In four years, how much support your family has given you, you will hand in such homework to your father and mother???

When someone else graduates, they first look for a job, and only with the economy can you be qualified to say love. At all times, love is built on the economy.

Could it be that a college student has a job, and when he falls in love, he still has to take money from his family? Your parents can't hold their heads up at home, and you will be looked down upon by others. Maybe in the future, your lover will also look down on you now. This is a matter for the future, far away, let's not talk about it for now.

It's just around the corner to get a job, get married, buy a house.

The first two years of work are not enough to save money. And you'll be married at the most at the age of thirty. How much can you make in five or six years? How much does it cost to buy a house for marriage? Take a step back and at least make a down payment. Don't tell me you're getting married and don't have the money for a down payment.

There is nothing more tragic in life than this.

A man's burden is heavy ...

And to tell you ... I am under the age of 23

There is something wrong with the way you treat women.

Specifically, you don't know how to get along with women.

Your ideas are very naïve and fantastical.

Learn how to be a realistic person.

The woman is going to have her own fantasies and her man's reality.

It's not for you to fantasize with her.

Wait for when you are realistic.

Objective. It's a little apathetic.

There will be the woman you want by your side.

Forget it!

If it's a gentleman, be ruthless.

After graduating and getting busy, I can't think about it so much. I hid it in my heart for a long, long time.

When there is time to take a look at it!

Men prioritize their careers.

Mother-in-law has been in love, what are you doing?

A man with a career is afraid that he will not find a wife.

Now you are faced with a work problem. And not a matter of feelings.

Obviously, you were tricked, aren't you handsome and have no character? The point is, don't you even have self-esteem?

Then give up.

Friends are the best outcome for you.

Sometimes it's better to be friends than lovers.

Yes, give up, it's no way.

Give up, your career is the most important thing.

All I can say is that the impact is enormous.

At that time, there were a lot of twins in our college, but very few actually ended up together.

Both parties listened to their parents and were uncompromising, and among the people I knew, the final outcome was separation.

There are only two kinds of my classmates who can still be together after graduating from college for 8 years:

The first type: both parties do not listen to their parents, they love each other very deeply, they go out to work together, and those who can still be together are more capable of living happily, and those who have almost had a hard time are separated.

The second type: there is a compromise of one party and the other listens to the parents, the compromise and sacrifice of one party will be exchanged for the moving persistence of the other party, and then live together hard, and finally the parents of both parties reluctantly agree, and then there is a plain life, there are rich and difficult points, but they are not extreme, they are all ordinary lives. This is the majority.

To be honest, my husband and I are like that too. Back then, if he didn't stay in my city for me, I would break up with him even if I was sad, although it didn't sound good, but my parents were the only ones, and men could be found no matter what. But it was precisely because of his sacrifice that I was very moved, so no matter how dissatisfied my parents were (my family's conditions are much better than his's. I still insisted on being with him, and then, now very bland happiness.

And our best friend is the opposite of us, it is the woman who runs to the man's side alone, the man's family is relatively wealthy, and finally the woman's family also accepts it and lives together in a plain way.

In the end, how to do and how to choose is really just your own business.

It is impossible for people to really influence other people's thoughts, even if they are parents and lovers, at most it is only the size of the influence.

Think about what you care about most, what you want to get the most, or what you don't want to lose, and finally don't regret any decisions and practices you make.

Love without the blessing of her family is not called happiness, especially since she also tends to listen to her family!

Yes, no matter how far away the geographical distance is, as long as the two hearts are together, you must often go home from work, respect each other's choices, and believe that you will be together, bless you!

At this time, break up decisively, maybe she just wants you to be a spare tire.

You're her substitute I advise you to break up Maybe you're sad now You'll understand after a while.

Spare tire!The word is good!

This woman is really cheap, and what I don't like the most is this, personal opinion.

Those who can't do it all turn to themselves, and their bodies are upright and the world returns to them. When you encounter setbacks, don't blame others, but first find out the root of the problem from yourself and try to correct it.