What do you think are some of the difficulties of children?

My daughter is in the fourth grade, and she has to run around in the four cram schools of "Olympiad, Composition, Calligraphy, and Painting" for two days on the weekend, not that parents have to throw their children into the sea of tutoring, but that you don't learn that others are learning, and it is the Olympiad and composition tutoring required by your own teacher. I think every parent does not want their children to be worse than other people's children, and they all hope that their children know more than other people's children, and it is best to be an excellent child who is versatile and has all-round development of morality, intelligence, physical fitness, art and labor, which has led to today's children being shrouded in various illusory halos and infinite pressure.

Recently, I often lament such things. Isn't this about the New Year? Recalling our childhood, despite material scarcity, we were really happy.

Today's children are surrounded by all kinds of learning tasks at a young age, and they have to attend various classes during the holidays. Take a closer look at the children, and there are fewer smart eyes. I really feel that children are tired now, kindergartens are starting to be tired, not to mention elementary school, middle school and university, and work is more stressful.

What to reminisce about when you grow up!

I have a few friends around me, the child is five or six years old, there is no child to move the childhood, every day is to go to school, in the afternoon to learn dance, some to learn taekwondo, etc., finally wait until Saturday and Sunday, but also to learn this and that, some older children, but also to go to cram school, no child's childhood, I think a child is a child, if he really loves to learn such a specialty, you can learn, but there must also be room for rest, or it will be tired of the child.

Must be tired, now the children in primary school on a variety of cram schools, and now primary school has to learn language, mathematics and English, personal feeling is a bit much, after all, childhood still needs to play when the child, my neighbor's children have to write homework every day for 2-3 hours, this amount of homework has no time at all, I think children are still playing when they are young, if they are so tired when they are young, there will be no time to play in the future. Nowadays, teachers are also very harsh, and children are afraid of teachers. Facing the teacher's homework every day, I am also very worried, and I am afraid of the thought of children committing suicide on the Internet.

In the general environment, the competition is becoming more and more fierce, and students who graduate from good universities and ordinary universities are looking for the same jobs, and good college graduates have a great advantage. Now there are many more subjects to learn than before, involving all aspects, and now it is necessary to include the beauty of sound and body in the high school entrance examination, and the pressure on children is increasing.

I often hear parents say that their children are not serious when they study, refuse to learn or are absent-minded at the desk, usually in this case parents have a headache, just blindly through discipline and scolding, reprimand means to treat children, they think it is for the good of their children but never think about whether this kind of discipline is really effective, children are very tired of learning, not to mention getting fun from learning.

Now children are not generally tired from learning. In addition to the main homework, there are also extracurricular assignments, calligraphy, drawing, and the like! In the past, when we went to school, homework was dispensable, and we occasionally memorized ancient poems!

Now the child takes the first grade student as an example, math and Chinese various test questions. Mathematics is slightly better, Chinese needs to be learned, and you need to be able to write! If you look at the diagram in mathematics, you can calculate it, but the problem can only be understood by Chinese literacy!

So much so that parents are now crazy about buying Chinese extracurricular reading materials to recognize words! Every day is to read, write, and memorize! There's really very little time to play!

Not tired is fake!

Every child will face the pressure of going to school, from kindergarten to elementary school, from elementary school to junior high school, to high school entrance examination, college entrance examination, which is fierce competition. In addition, some parents hope that their sons will become Chan and their daughters will become phoenixes, kidnapping their children's dreams, forcing their children to learn a lot of "interest classes" that they don't like, various competitions and exams, making their children physically and mentally exhausted. I once interviewed the young contestants in the backstage of a children's piano competition, and most of the children studied because their parents liked the piano or could add points for further education; And the children who really like the piano only occupy a small part.

The causes of learning difficulties in children are as follows:

1. Low achievement and lack of interest in learning, these children are often prone to frustration and will lose interest in learning;

2. Low level of intelligence and inability to understand what is being learned;

3. Non-intellectual psychological factors, such as depression, anxiety, distraction, ADHD and other states, such non-intellectual mental illness.

It will also affect children's interest in learning and motivation to learn.

4. Other diseases, such as malnutrition.

Children will not have the energy and energy to learn, and various infectious diseases that are long-term and repeatedly infiltrated will also make children study very hard. The biggest difficulty is communication. The generation gap of age.

Make your child's perception of the problem different from that of adults. If you want to communicate with your child, you need to understand your child's personality characteristics and act as a friend. From the perspective of children's problems, they should understand and be reasonable, and they should be moved by emotion.

When there is a communication barrier, you must not be in a hurry, let alone scolding, otherwise it will be counterproductive. In addition, you must be patient enough, after all, children experience less things. The perception and cognition of society are weak, and it is normal for disagreements to arise when changing the voice, and only patient communication can reach a consensus.

Difficult children: The central word is children, emphasizing that there are some difficulties in the child's life, and life or actions are more difficult and difficult.

Children's difficulty: The central word is difficult, emphasizing that the child's perseverance in life is very tenacious.

Looking at the present day, life is happy, and the child's whispering is still bitter.