What problems do you think you only learned about after you had a baby?

Introduction: Many people say that after you get pregnant, you know who is really good to you. And you can learn a lot of things after pregnancy, let me take it today, everyone knows those things after giving birth. Look at the same as you know.

I didn't think it was a big deal to have a child before, but as more and more cases appear, it will be found that he is a matter of two families, and in the whole process of childbirth, including confinement and pregnancy, you can observe whether this person is really good to you or hypocritical. Many people will find that their parents-in-law treat them very well before they get pregnant, but after giving birth, they will disappear, and they care very much about the sex of the child. The mother who treats the child has never been very respectful, and feels like they have cut off the incense in their house, etc.

This leads to many people being depressed after giving birth or even during confinement, but as their husbands, they never pay attention to one of their situations, but feel that they are making trouble. It's really hard to encounter such a situation.

I used to feel more tired to have a child, but after giving birth, I will find that I am more tired with a child, which are two completely different states. I would rather think about the child staying in the belly for a longer period of time, so that I can save a lot of worry, after the child is born, I have to take care of the child's eating, drinking, and Lazar, and also educate the child, the slightest carelessness will lead the child astray. And in the first few months of the child's birth, he basically didn't sleep well, constantly coaxed to sleep and breastfeed, cried and cheered, etc., all of which needed the mother's participation.

Sometimes my father slept directly next to him and snored non-stop, and as a mother, I really felt very uncomfortable when I saw such a situation. In addition, even after the birth, it is still very painful, not only miserable but also bloating and pressure, and stomach pain is unavoidable.

I can understand the hearts of my parents, my cognitive ability is stronger, my body can't go back to the past, my heart is full of children, giving birth to a child is particularly painful, breastfeeding is more painful, these problems are only understood after giving birth to a child.

During confinement, you can know who is really good to you, sometimes the child is very cute, but sometimes the child is particularly noisy, after giving birth, our stomach will also hurt, and we basically can't sleep every night.

After I gave birth, I realized that it is very difficult to educate this child, he not only needs a lot of money, but also has to put in effort and time, and also change some of his behavior.

The appearance of my child is only known after the birth of the child, and of course, there are many aspects. This could be written as a book.

I don't know until I have a baby.

On the importance of mother-in-law, having a mother-in-law who can help is simply a gift from God is not easy for parents, only parents are the people who love themselves the most in the world, babbling babbling, a smiling face of the baby can ** all your unhappiness.

After giving birth to a child, I know what pressure is and what is the weight of a father.

The hardships of raising and educating you from your parents.

Living expenses (unless you live with your in-laws and have their expenses).

Baobao) brings you a sense of family happiness.

I don't know, I can't have children, I'm a man.

Before becoming parents, many children did not understand their parents and thought that they were very old-fashioned. But after giving birth, you will be able to understand the feelings of your parents and realize the mistakes you have made in the past. So if you don't understand what your parents are doing right now, then don't worry, you will understand what they are doing when you become a parent yourself.

So what are some of the problems that you only discovered after you had a baby?

We all know that children will have a rebellious period, but in the rebellious period, children are particularly irritable and irritable, they may get angry because of some trivial things, at this time parents must talk to their children, understand their children's inner thoughts, and can not let it go. Because children are also very fond of their parents during the rebellious period, they may want to get their parents' attention through this behavior. Therefore, parents must pay more attention to their children, pay attention to their children's physical and mental development, and cannot ignore their children.

After giving birth, I found that every woman is very brave and responsible. Although I am very tired after giving birth, I will still learn something without hesitation for the sake of the child, no matter how strong a woman is very gentle in front of the child, she can give everything for the child, and her personality has changed a lot after giving birth, and she is more inclusive.

I found that I was able to understand what my parents did, that newborn babies are really small, that giving birth hurts very much, that breastfeeding is more painful than giving birth, and that knowing what great maternal love is, these problems are only discovered after giving birth.

After giving birth, I found that the child was really very fragile, and I also found that although the child was not good-looking when he was born, the more he raised it, the more beautiful he became.

Not every child is particularly obedient, not every child is particularly beautiful, not every child is physically very good, not every child has a very good personality, not every child has a great academic performance.

It turns out that postpartum depression is really not hypocritical. After giving birth to a baby, you know that person is really good to you, the baby is older, so you don't have to worry so much, in fact, the child's growth period has a process of worrying, not that you don't have to worry about it when you grow up. There are also all kinds of problems, super lots of little things.

There are many problems that I found out after giving birth, such as back pain, urine leakage, poor memory, and hair loss, I hope it can help you.

After having milk, there will be physiological swelling of the milk and hardness, but after the baby has sucked, the situation is still not relieved, and he is afraid that he will block the milk.

After giving birth, I learned that I had to endure both psychological and physical torture after giving birth. Sometimes, the child is not the glue of feelings, but the destroyer. Sleeping became a luxury.

Both the baby and the mother need to be taken care of, and professionals are really important. The quality of confinement directly affects the mother's body mass. Compared with the baby, the mother needs more care, whether it is psychological or physiological, during the confinement period, the most likely to cause conflicts is the disagreement of family members and the division of labor for the baby's care.

It is recommended that novice parents consider a professional confinement center, for mothers who have just given birth, what they need most is an environment where they can recuperate with peace of mind.

After giving birth, my physique became very weak, my resistance was not the same as before, and I was often sick, and I had to take supplements to solve this problem.

For example, after giving birth, a woman's aging rate is relatively fast, and after giving birth, you can know whether the person you marry is good or not, and this is the best time to test your marriage, first of all, you must communicate frequently, and you can also seek help from your family.

After giving birth, I found out that the child's sleep time is very unfixed, sometimes I don't sleep in the middle of the night, I can only keep watching him, it is really very devastating, I can only take turns with the child's father to take care of him.

A new mother, still in confinement, is a little depressed! I used to tease other people's children, and I was so happy, and I always fantasized about how happy I would be to have my own children! But when I became a mother, I realized how laborious it is to raise a baby, feeding and burping in the middle of the night is not a thing, and the baby is heartache and helpless when it is uncomfortable and crying!

Raising a child is 100 years old, and he is often worried about 99. Thinking that the days have just begun, I am hesitant and melancholy in my heart.

Smooth delivery hurt for a day and a night Second-degree tear Blocking milk once a month on average Tenosynovitis Urticaria Mixed hemorrhoids Now I have a herniated lumbar disc Raising a baby requires half a life The hard work of taking care of the baby by myself is too much It is too old to ignore the collapse of the body The baby is only 28 months old I have a lumbar protrusion I have been lying for more than a month I don't know how to take care of the baby by myself in the future So sisters must take care of their bodies when they are young They must take care of their bodies during pregnancy and confinement Health is gone, there is nothing.

If you are pregnant, the pregnancy period will be the happiest time for you in the next year or two, even if you have a strong pregnancy reaction, because the days after giving birth to a baby are more painful, you will face various postpartum physical discomfort, pain caused by breastfeeding, various doubts about taking care of the baby, long-term lack of sleep, etc. If it is not handled well, it is easy to get postpartum depression.

If you are originally allergic, some allergic reactions may easily appear during pregnancy, and those friends around you who say that you are hypocritical or think that there is something in this, please block it directly. Don't eat too much, don't deliberately eat too well, remember to control the diet, now is not the age of our parents to have babies, there is no need to make all kinds of big supplements at a moment's notice.

Whether it's pregnancy or postpartum, being in a good mood is the most important thing, and it doesn't matter what other people say or do, except for what you can gain by adding blockage, so go in the left ear and out the right ear. Finally, many times it is really useful to spend a little more money, such as booking a single ward in advance, such as inviting a confinement wife, such as going to a confinement center, which will save you a lot of worry.

Raising a child may be very good, or it may be sad, depending on luck, if you meet a high-demand baby, see if you adapt first, or your child has become an angel. No matter how good the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is, it can't stand the noise after having children, and people are protecting their own people at critical moments, not to say absolutely, but I think eighty percent of mothers-in-law will not really treat their daughter-in-law as a daughter.

If you are born, you can only rely on yourself, no matter how good your mother-in-law says, you are still tired of yourself! My mother-in-law said to help watch, but now that the child was born for a week, only my mother came to serve me, and my mother-in-law didn't hug it, saying that the child was too young for her to hug it, and I could only hehe! Still want me.

If you want a second child, the door is gone.

Although there are taboos, but everything has a quantity of premise, there is nothing to do if you want to eat once in a while, and a good mood is the most important. From pregnancy to childbirth, you will truly realize what your family is like. It's still useful when you give birth to a baby.

Don't just listen to the old sayings of the elders in confinement, some of them are really unreliable.

One is that it is not easy to understand my mother, and it is better for my own mother; The second is that the mother-in-law is not the mother, even if you treat her well at the beginning, it will be in vain. The third is that the husband is partial to his mother, you have to let him see clearly that it is not easy for you, and don't compromise on everything.

Many people are unreliable, and the most reliable is only themselves. Those physical and psychological journeys can only be walked out step by step. When you come out, you will understand that in this life, you should love yourself the most.

It hurts to give birth to a child, it is hard to take care of a child, the whole process is alone with the child, there is no one to help, family conflicts, the husband's incomprehension, and a woman only knows what the person next to her pillow is like when she gives birth to a child once.

It's not easy to be a mother......So when outsiders give birth, you have to be clear about your choice, it's really not a matter of who you can count on when you are born....

What makes women old is not to give birth to children, but to stay up late every day to take care of children after giving birth, all kinds of worries, anxiety, and lack of sleep.

It is said that pregnancy is the queen of ten months, which is not false at all, because after giving birth to a baby, you will find that pregnancy is definitely the most relaxed and happy time.

When the mother-in-law gave birth, she said, "I gave birth to show you the child, and after giving birth, the mother-in-law couldn't show you the child anyway for various reasons."

There was no milk at the beginning of the caesarean section, and then there was milk and thought everything was fine, but suddenly there was no milk, and the baby was not full and smiled at me, feeling so sad and sorry for the baby.

The flat chest is a quilt, and it doesn't grow when I'm pregnant, I don't grow when I open milk, and I don't grow when I eat forty pounds