Boyfriend s request for someone who understands comes in

I'm a girl.,I gave my first time to my first love.,How much you have that kind of thought.,Isn't it too early.,But the mind is hot.,Lost.。。。 He said that he would love me and take care of me, but a year later, we have been separated for more than a month, and he was so ruthless when he left.

But I don't regret giving it to him for the first time, after all, we loved each other deeply when we fused together.

In fact, the current society is still very feudal, it is recommended that you have sex after marriage, can you guarantee that there will be no changes between you in the future?

Believe me, if a man really loves you, he will respect you, he will be responsible for you, and the man who is really responsible will give you a family before he takes possession of you, not now, he says he can't stand it or something. You tell him that if you love me, respect me and make me feel safe, so that kind of thing is the most beautiful and memorable thing to do on the wedding night. Wait a minute.

If he truly loves you, he won't make any more demands to embarrass you.

I've said so much, I just hope you think about it, after all, the future can't be **, I'm an example.

But if you want to give yourself to him, then think about whether you love him to that extent.

Also, don't think you gave it to him; It will catch his heart or something, I don't know if you have heard a word, the more you can't get something, the more precious it is, but once you get it, you will gradually lose interest, especially men!

Remember: people who truly love you will respect everything you do!!

Don't listen to him, you have to have your own opinions. If he breaks up with you because of this, then you break up with him, you figure it out for yourself.

Since you believe in him now, you are not afraid of regret, are you sure that is the case?

It is likely that you feel that morality restricts these behaviors, and you think that it is morally forbidden and despised. I recommend you read a book, The Awakening of Love, written by an Indian philosopher and translated by Hu Yinmeng, which explains sexuality very well.

Personally, I don't recommend you to promise him.

There's a bottom line ... Because you're a girl ...

It's not that you doubt your relationship, but the success rate of campus romance is really low, and the main reason is that after entering society, the two of you will each have a very big psychological change. When the time comes, it's better to let it be.

You have to have your own opinions, and people nowadays won't cherish them when they get them, at least most of them.

Everyone has their own ideas, maybe there is no right or wrong, everything goes with the flow, don't think too much!

Before getting married, it's best not to give, this kind of thing hurts girls very much, why not leave it on the wedding night, hehe, my point of view may be more conservative, but I still want to really advise you!

Don't do that, you'll regret it.

I already regret it. Or stay until you get married.

If he loves you, he will definitely respect your decision.!!

Or don't.

You also say pull. It's still early.

Let's talk about it together when you're settled.

If you think he's someone you can rely on for life, go for it. But only if you think you can.

It's best to stick to your own ideas.

Agree with the statement of the second floor

No one knows what the future holds

It's better to stick to your own ideas

It's also difficult for a man Do you think he will marry you If he will, you will give it to her Don't see her go to Miss You are more troublesome.

Girls should be self-protective!

A woman is most perfect when she leaves the first time for marriage.

A good man should first be honest, and honesty is the foundation of people. An honest man should have a clear distinction between likes and dislikes: where I love it, where I hate it, what it is that I don't hide my flaws, and what is the fly in the ointment.

A man who is happy and angular will soon win the trust of a woman, and a man who is vague and muddy makes women upset, and hides his head and tail, so he is the most uneasy for women to play a deep man, and gradually loses his patience. ꪣ

If I cry, whether it is related to you or not, you will coax me;

If you have anything to do, you have to call or send me a message, because I'll be curious to know what you're doing;

I hope that I will know all your good friends, and I have no objection to you having better female friends, but I must know who they are;

If I decide to do something, you have to support me, don't always hit me, I don't like you to hit me, everyone else can do it, except you, because I care about you;

If you have been together for a long time, you have to know that I am sometimes more childish, and I will show a childish side, and you have to be able to accept it;

It's okay not to be angry with me, or else... Cry to you;

I will harass you often, and you are not allowed to have an opinion, because I am nervous about you and concerned about you;

I can't forget my birthday, I want you to surprise me, hehe.

You don't have to be handsome, but you have to look clean and fresh, and I don't like guys being too sloppy;

You don't have to be rich, but if you have a big goal or ideal, you must love me.

Normally, I don't lose my temper and ignore you suddenly, there must be something that happened that I am not happy about, you have to review it yourself;

If we quarrel, don't give me time to calm down, I don't need it at all, if you're wrong, don't go too far, I'll forgive you;

You have to be honest, I'd rather you say you don't love me than you lie to me;

There are many things I don't know how to do, but I just don't want to do them and pretend I can't.

1. Be sure to hold your hand or hold your hand when you sleep.

2. Wash your feet and rub them, and do a foot massage.

3. I smile when I see you, I am always happy with you, and I never get angry at you.

4. In order to be with you, I would rather give up going abroad and other cities.

Good job in the city.

5. I'd rather save your own food and money, and invite you to go to a restaurant to eat and watch.

movies, buy you clothes and cosmetics. (within reasonable limits) 6. Find a job that doesn't require frequent travel and accompany you every day.

Take you to a friend's party and introduce good friends to you.

8. When eating together, leave the delicious dishes for you to eat.

9. Wash your clothes, including underwear, and dry them.

Many men will think, how can they be considered a good boyfriend in their girlfriend's heart, and what criteria can be used to measure it? Let's take a look at the standards summarized by some netizens to see how much they can do and whether they meet the public standards.

1. Respect your girlfriend's habits, hobbies, and other friends, and don't try to change your girlfriend.

2. Machismo.

Not too strong, preferably none. Don't let your girlfriend wear a short skirt, you can't have the opposite sex at the party, you can't return late, etc., which will only make your girlfriend disgusted, and your girlfriend is not a child, she has her own measure, and she must learn to be relaxed.

3. A sense of security.

Accompany when you are sick, comfort you when you are in a bad mood, appear by your girlfriend's side in time when you need it, and don't be suspicious.

4. When you are angry, most of the words you say are auspicious and counter-words, such as telling you to get out, break up or something, at this time, you just need to hug your girlfriend, don't talk back, this will only make the situation worse and worse.

5. Don't make promises easily, no matter how small they are, in the eyes of your girlfriend, this is the standard for judging whether a person can continue to date.

6. When you have dinner with your girlfriend, don't be a topic buster.

Especially when you go out to play together, you should think more about the topic of chatting. At the same time, don't put down the chopsticks first, so that your girlfriend will be embarrassed to eat them, so putting them later than her is also a silent consideration.

7. Many women will care about whether a man loves his girlfriend or not, just to see if he will be willing to spend money on his girlfriend, so try to be generous in this regard.

Boyfriends are a very important presence in many women's lives because they can provide women with support, security, and many happy times. Therefore, many women will have certain requirements for their boyfriends, including personality, quality, hobbies, etc. In my observation, women value boyfriends who can bring them happiness and comfort the most.

A good boyfriend should be someone who is loving. Women tend to prefer boyfriends who are simple, passionate, patient, understanding and tolerant. In addition to this, they also expect their boyfriend to be considerate, care about their emotional ups and downs and feelings, and actively work hard to meet their needs.

In addition, the boyfriend should have a certain amount of thinking ability and Zhixiang Duan Lingzhi, and be able to stand in his girlfriend's perspective when he is in trouble.

By extension, a good boyfriend should also have an independent personality and personality. Women tend to like boyfriends who can work with them and can help and support them in life. At the same time, boyfriends should also have their own goals and ideals and maintain a positive attitude towards life.

Part-time jobs, work, and studies should have certain plans and plans so that they can provide a better life and security for their girlfriends.

Also, a good boyfriend should also be a trustworthy person. Girlfriends often expect their boyfriends to be the ones who can take responsibility and keep their promises. If a boyfriend tells his girlfriend something, then he should make sure that he can continue to follow through and keep his promises so that his girlfriend feels that his trust is worth it.

At the same time, your boyfriend should be open and honest, and if you encounter problems, you should communicate and communicate with your girlfriend in a timely manner to solve these problems together.

In short, a good boyfriend should be someone who is willing to listen, knows how to communicate, and has a sense of responsibility and independence. They should have a mindful of their goals and life plans, and know how to care about their girlfriend's feelings and emotions. Only then will women experience a happy and joyful time.