How to become a psychologist who helps friends.

Profound knowledge, professional training and learning, calm thinking, and strong perseverance are required. The main thing is to love psychology.

In short, you have to read the psychology of the masses.

Dealing well with others does not require understanding the psychology of others, but requires communication skills.

I studied psychology for four years, and in the end I found that I didn't understand the psychology of others, but I knew myself better.

It's important to know yourself, and then you can use your sincerity to interact with others. Of course, communication skills are also very important, and you can take a look at this.

Someone once said: interest is the best teacher. You must know the truth very well and have experienced it firsthand.

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Don't do your job, hehe.

Psychology can be very boring, or it can be very lively.

Everyone is happy, how to do it, use psychology, those theories, when the formula is used, after a long time, there will be a level.

We don't have the power of mind control, but the power of the mind is almost as good. Yes, if you know what to do, what to look for, you can get what you want from others. Here's my list.

When you need to know something – if you ask someone a question and you feel like they're hiding something or aren't telling it as it is. Make long eye contact with them and be quiet. This long silent gaze will make them uncomfortable, and they will stop at nothing to break this embarrassment.

You'll get the answer shortly.

Stop arguing – Imagine you're throwing a party and a group of friends start arguing and the atmosphere is getting more and more intense, what do you do? Go get them something to eat. Eating has a calming effect, and everyone loves a delicious snack.

They will subconsciously begin to feel happier, and allowing them to eat can break this tension.

Rock, Scissors, Paper wins every time! - Maybe you'll also play this game when deciding who will do the tasks that no one wants to do. Here's a recipe to help you win so you never have to do those things again.

When you're about to start a game, ask your opponent a question. After your question, start rock, paper, scissors chain, and your opponent will most likely choose scissors.

If you need someone to help you with something, you can talk to that person and give something to that person while talking. They won't even notice that you've dealt with them because they're talking.

How to get others to agree with you – Nod your head often when you want others to agree with you. It may not work for everyone, but a nod gives the impression that you know what you're talking about, and you're passionate about it.

They will start to believe that what you say is true!

We've all heard that it's important to maintain eye contact when you're trying to gain trust. Not sure if you'll stay long enough? When you're talking and listening, try to notice the color of the other person's eyes.

And not just because their eyes are blue: is it a blue, or is the color around the pupil lighter? Do their eyes look like they change color?

The time it takes is the time of acceptable eye contact.

Whisper a few words to your friends. Almost certainly, they'll whisper to you too. Sing the chorus part of a song, then immediately stop and say something else to distract your friend.

After a while, the song will linger in their minds. If they hate you for it, let them listen to or finish singing the song. This will solve the problem in no time!

Divert attention. If you don't want to hear what he has to say, get up and grab the cup to catch the water and let him turn his attention to you.

The liar's eyes are erratic, and this trick can be used on friends. Try to see if he's being sincere with you and if he's hiding something from you.

When a friend doesn't know what to do, you can guide the other person to do what you think you can do, and you can guide him to encourage him.

First of all, in the case of making sure that you are in good health.

Then be clear: no one can help you but yourself.

Just imagine: who can be responsible for your life? Your parents?

If it's a pet, it's not responsible. Because I can't help it.

Of course, taking responsibility for oneself and fighting for a free sky requires action.

You have to face them all.

Negative is not a bad thing :

I'm tired from work, so I sleep better at night.

If you do your job wrong, you may be scolded, but it can make you work harder.

Success without failure is not considered success.

If you don't understand your own heartache, you can't understand others in your heart, and you don't know what caring is.

In this way, you can experience the ups and downs of life.

A person's life is made brilliant by this.

Always ask yourself what kind of life you want to live.

You should know what you want.

The difference between the two worlds is just a thin line.

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Hello, like your pregnancy, you need to consult a ** doctor, and about the relationship between you, no one can help you make a choice, because life is your own, but I think you don't have any irreconcilable contradictions now, you can communicate with him more, understand each other's thoughts more, understand each other more, understand each other's thoughts more, understand each other's thoughts more.

First of all, repeated miscarriages really hurt the body, and girls really have to cherish themselves. This boy really doesn't cherish you, if he is not ready to be a father, why do you get pregnant again and again. O parents of the body!

My boyfriend, who is currently a husband and is not a particularly mature boy, has had a very bumpy journey, but he has a principle of protecting my body as well as his own. I was very touched by his principle, so we have a lot of unpleasant things, but we all trust him and tolerate him because of this.

Take care of your body, only health is yours, and you are your steadfast companion from birth to death.

You are very young, it is really inappropriate to marry in this state, and there is no need to be wronged. I think the most basic principle for a girl to choose a spouse is that he should cherish you and be responsible, if he can't cherish you, without responsibility, even if he gets married, he will not be happy, even if he gives birth to a baby, you may not be able to give the baby a very stable living environment.

You still have a lot of time to build up strength to strengthen yourself so that you can protect yourself and your baby.

You can ask the doctor if there is any problem with the child, as for your relationship, it depends on you, you can communicate with your friends, girls often have miscarriages that are not good for their health, boys love you and cherish your body, you can discuss with him.

Asking someone else to help you and give you answers is actually passing the buck.

I listen to you everything, and you want to give me happiness - that's about it.

So no one can help you, it's cruel, but it's the truth.

The only one who can help you is yourself.

To say that is to say nothing at all.

So I continued.

Questioner: You can only get out of the predicament if you help yourself.

Then the questioner will inevitably ask how to help yourself?

Presumably, everyone knows the proverbs such as God helps those who help themselves, and God rewards diligence. But I just don't know how to help myself.

However, he knew that if he wanted to improve, he must first know what he is now, and he must first understand himself and know himself.

Otherwise, how to improve.

Comparing the respondent to a weak cat, one day he saw a mighty and majestic lion, and he wanted to be as powerful as a lion, and he asked, "How can I become a lion?"

So the respondent sees the real self, even if it is only a part, his stupidity, laziness, cowardice, shyness, hypocrisy, etc., the respondent observes himself seriously and honestly, does not evade, does not deny, objectively and without prejudice examines himself, no longer thinks about and controls how he has become, what he has become, but completely accepts his current self.

Observation and acceptance is change in itself.

It's about knowing myself.

Insecure, with a slight compulsion.