Psychiatrist: I m very heavy right now, it s my brother s business

He was psychologically hurt by the discriminatory gaze of his classmates because of his personality problems, not very good at studying, feeling inferior to others! Or because of his study problems, his classmates rejected him, and even caused him physical harm, a bit of violent bullying

Maybe it can be said that a bad class atmosphere in the class caused his classmates who are not very good at learning to be treated unfairly? Explain it, and I'll solve it for you

One of the characteristics of children is that if you are fierce and beat one of them to tears, everyone else will be afraid and will not bully him. If you go to help, they will surely call them brother and sister as well, then it will be even more troublesome. Let them solve their own problems, and it will be counterproductive for you to intervene.

These are all things that children must experience, and encouraging them to study hard is the only thing. Be careful to maintain his optimistic attitude and reduce negative emotions. That's how I got here.

The mood can be adjusted, you can avoid these things, or just go and fix these things that make you feel heavy, and you don't have time to think about too many other things, and I'm just as sad as you are

Talk to the teacher or class teacher in the school, adjust or change the class, and it may be better to change the environment.

Teachers should be able to solve these small problems, right?

I think the main reason is that he was so bold because he was pardoned for crying at home, and that's why he didn't cry at school, because when he cried, no one helped him like he did to his family. So first of all, he can't take care of him when he cries, and let him do his own things (at the age of ten, I can cook a lot of dishes) In addition, his parents are at home, they must be dignified, and they should be beaten. As for writing the name, it is a kind of venting, and the justification of the act is not legitimate:

Parents can't control it, how can you manage it! Hitting the paper is a normal vent, but it is just seen by you, which is impolite. It's normal for the computer to buffer and tear the paper, and when we are playing **, don't we also have some small actions?

Because I also have depression, so I know what it feels like, in fact, depression is simply to think a lot of things, but not to follow people's thoughts, the most afraid that others will not understand, afraid of being misunderstood because of this, the heart is easy to suffer, and finally it is easy to think about some extreme problems.

I don't know how old it is, this symptom is divided into extroversion and introversion, you also say it is like, it is best to go to a well-known hospital to see, don't wait until it is very serious, like this symptom is all knotted, I don't know how long it has been, as long as the knot is opened, nothing has happened, now many people have depression, but light and serious problems, some can be solved by themselves, if you have to drill the horns, then you have to go to the hospital to see,

The mood is very low, often with tears on the face, anxious mood, unable to concentrate, consciousness dispersed, I feel bored to be a person, and have world-weary thoughts.

You are guessing, you should tell his symptoms, not use the symptoms to determine whether he has depression or not. Because you're not professional.

This is not from the surface Some people are very cheerful or depressed patients have to be judged by professionals to hurry up and go to the hospital whether it is or not I wish him good health.

Being depressed all day long and always having something on your mind is the most striking feature.

It is to suffer from gains and losses, often unhappy, as if nothing can make him happy, for a little thing, always can't let go, Zhejiang Huzhou 3 Hospital has a special look at this disease, small babies a few years old, my mother-in-law is there to be optimistic, take a few courses of medicine, the point is that the family should often accompany him, give you warmth and confidence, better than medicine. He can't be worried and angry.

Living alone in his own world, he is often depressed, very quiet in the eyes of outsiders, does not want to tell others what is on his mind, and sometimes even his emotions have to guess and he can't tell the difference between joy and sorrow.

Depressed, always staying alone in one place and not talking to people. Wait a minute.

Hesitant and indecisive in doing things.

Listen to me give you an analysis and see if it's correct!

It can be said that your brother's experience has been full of twists and turns, in short, it is not a good thing to go through these at a young age.

Let me talk about the main reason for your brother's situation, your mother's attitude towards your brother determines that he has some freedom to the economy in advance, and long-term economic easing will make him affirm money, and dilute the value of learning, people only have recognition and recognition of something, and will really pursue it after recognizing its value, so as your brother grows up, the decline in academic performance is directly related to his dissolution of the value of learning. After that, he proposed something that he thought was valuable, that is, going out to work to earn money, of course, the final result was a return, in fact, his outing did not prove that his idea was wrong, but only showed that his way of doing things was undesirable, so that in the end, he chose to continue to study (maybe he really realized the importance of knowledge, maybe he just couldn't find a better way and way out for the time being, and the school temporarily served as a refuge for his social responsibility).

In fact, this phenomenon of your brother is a common idea that people have in adolescence, don't worry, it is a turning point in his life, during this time he has considered a lot of problems, no longer from the point of view of his family or school teachers and classmates, but with his own ideas to practice some of the things he thinks, failure or success does not matter, the important thing is that he has grown up slowly.

Therefore, it is recommended that if you can still communicate with him at the moment, then ask him what he thinks, fully respect his personal opinion, and give him some personal advice, let him find out what he really likes and wants to do, and let him understand that no matter what he does, he will eventually succeed through personal efforts, including continuing to learn!

Everyone has had psychological disorders in the past, or there are now, and we must pay attention to them, and don't wait until they develop into a disease, which is really terrible. If your brother has this kind of psychological disorder, encourage him more, give him more care, take good care, the important thing is to know what he thinks in his heart, and take time to talk to him.

Don't ask this question as soon as you meet, take your time, find out what has happened to him recently, let him speak slowly, control the heat, and don't arouse his inner disgust. When there are only two people in the family, it is better for parents not to be here, because it is not good if there are too many people, and sometimes there will be problems if there is no problem.

When chatting, find a random topic, let him say more, and shift the topic to the recent, you can understand what happened to him recently, maybe it's just a little thing, then it will pass quickly, he is just a little stupid, can't figure it out, you enlighten it, maybe it's just that you think too much, there is no psychological barrier, this situation is also the best.

I think it's a good way to have a pet, pets can bring mental health to people, and when you play with pets, you're very happy, and people will forget all their worries and all their worries. People who have pets, there will be very few troubles, when you are unhappy, pets will be very caring, run to you, sell cute and cool, lick you, look at his so cute, will play with him, time will pass quickly, you will forget all that things.

This method is very good, you can give it a try. If you want to be happy, you will forget everything, you will only remember the happiness and troubles of the time, who can really remember it? I want to have a pet and play with him every day, it's a lot of fun.

The appearance of psychological problems may be innate, or it may be a psychological shadow left by childhood. I think the most feasible way now is to take him to see a psychiatrist, and under the scientific and reasonable guidance of experts, I believe that he will definitely come out.

After all, psychological problems cannot be ignored, because it directly determines a person's character, determines the future life situation and even fate, so one day earlier will be one day earlier.

Nowadays, there are psychological counseling centers in every city, including current schools, and there are campus psychological clinics from elementary school to university, so the problem of psychological disorders among adolescents cannot be ignored.

For those of us who are laymen, it is very troublesome to feel that ** psychological problems are very troublesome, and even hope is very slim, but in fact it is not like this.

From a psychological point of view, they have developed some programs that are suitable for these patients with mental health problems. In addition, your family must give your brother enough care, because people with mental disorders may suddenly lose control of their emotions or have some autistic tendencies.

The family must be tolerant of all their words and deeds, and only the warmth of home is the most important thing for them. If his psychological problems can be obtained, your family still has to create a good atmosphere for him.

After all, the appearance of his psychological disorder may be related to your family environment, if you don't fundamentally solve the problem, then even if the psychologist helps him ** well, he will ** sooner or later.

It is important to remember that no matter if any family member has a mental or physical illness, it is the common responsibility of the family, do not dislike it, do not run away from it, and be sure to give him enough patience and care, maybe this method is better than all the panacea.

It can be seen that you love your brother very much, and you can see that you have a psychological disorder. If a person has a psychological disorder, the greatest help for their loved ones is that they need your patience and guidance. Play with him more and communicate.

Swap with heart. I once read such a story. An autistic child with a psychological disorder has not spoken since he was a child, and he will not respond to what his relatives say.

Later, the family brought home a companion dog for the little boy. The dog doesn't speak, but it is always by the little boy's side, and the dog, as everyone knows, is patient and loyal. It was the dog's insistence on keeping him company that made the little boy speak gradually.

Finally, I was able to communicate with my family. This story shows that you must gain your brother's trust in you, and then guide him slowly.

If it were me, I would communicate with him, ask him about his obstacles, and then find a way to help him solve them!

My brother is 34 years old this year, and he has been addicted to online games since junior high school for many years, although he has a relatively stable job on the railway, but I think Internet addiction has caused serious damage to his body and mind, and his personality has been distorted, which is manifested in: although he has been in society for several years, he has a serious lack of social experience, and his psychological age is seriously lagging behind, as if he is a teenager about 15 years old, and his personality has become self-righteous, conceited, and does not consider the consequences, regardless of the feelings of his family. This psychological situation of my younger brother has become a disaster for us, he is always so naïve and self-conceited, constantly getting into trouble, and his family is always in the predicament of cleaning up the aftermath after trouble.

And he was always unrepentant and unrepentant. Although I understand that the root of my brother's problem is that he has a serious psychological disorder, but as an adult, we can't force him to see a psychiatrist, but if he doesn't have psychological **, he can't get out of the predicament, what can I do, as a sister, how can I help him?

In addition to feeling that your brother hates his family, what other manifestations do you think your brother's psychological problems are, such as words and deeds, emotions, etc.? Most of the child's personality characteristics are influenced by the parenting style of the family, and the performance of the younger brother may be closely related to his upbringing. I hate my family, I don't know who I mean?

Hate, which contains grievances and anger, is a strong emotional outlet. Hates family, in fact, it is also a manifestation of not being able to accept yourself.

Guidance: As a family member, you need to be more patient and accepting of him, and more encouragement and affirmation. Only by trying healthy and benign emotional expression and communication can he have the opportunity to gradually understand her inner world and make him feel the respect and recognition of his family.

You should find out what kind of psychological disorder your brother has, or how this psychological disorder is caused, and see if you can help your younger brother get out of the psychological disorder.

If you feel that your brother has a psychological disorder, you should always enlighten him, and if necessary, take your brother to the hospital to see a psychological clinic for psychological **.

It's best to find a psychiatrist for a consultation, and you can also ask him, what's going on, the specific situation here is not clear to everyone, so there is no way to help you.

Tell your parents and ask them to take him to a psychiatrist. Now that psychological problems are being paid more and more attention, it is not hypocritical or anything, it is best to detect it early.

In this case, it is recommended that you take your brother to a professional psychologist for a check-up**.