How to choose a boyfriend denominator between two people you love the most ?

You have to ask yourself what exactly you need. If you decide to stay with him, then take a moment to observe him and see if he is working hard for you. After all, society is realistic, and love without bread is deceiving. Wishing you happiness!

There's nothing wrong with having everyone in your family do good for you.

But I know my own happiness.

If you think he is self-motivated and worthy of your love.

You choose your boyfriend. Because you chose your boyfriend.

Your family will slowly accept it. You're still their daughter.

And if you choose your family, give up your current boyfriend. Then you're really missing this person.

It's similar to the problems I will face in the future, I am ready to tell my parents how happy I am with my boyfriend, and let them understand how much my boyfriend gave up for me, and how much he struggled for me, the most important thing is that he loves me very much, and I love him too, I think we are happy together, and I believe that my parents mainly want us to be happy.

You and your husband have worked hard together. I believe that there is no such thing as a parent in the world who only recognizes money and does not recognize children. Parents are all thinking about their children, and if they don't agree, they are just afraid that you will suffer in the future, but between money and you, parents will definitely choose you, there is no doubt about it.

I have a plan. Let's take a look at Romeo and Juliet, both of whom kneel down in front of their parents at the same time, begging them to look very pitiful. Not yet, find a relative to do the nursery, and the two of them will "martyr" together (just do it, don't play with the fire) and let the nursery go to your parents.

The words of a third party are more convincing. May you tie the knot soon!! Congratulations!

It's still up to you. A marriage blessed by parents is certainly a happy one.

If you are an only child, I suggest you listen to your parents. I used to think that love was the most important thing, but after working for a while, I suddenly realized that my parents will grow old one day, and it is not right to hurt my parents for the sake ......of so-called loveIt is precisely because mom and dad are born that we usually ignore their feelings, because no matter how much we hurt them, they are still mom and dad and will always stand behind us.

I don't know if you're describing two mates, or if they're both in a relationship.

If you are choosing a mate, then both of these people must have something that attracts you, and you can be aware of which one is more attractive to you intuitively and which one is more suitable for you intellectually. If you are not sure, you can contact it for a while. Since it's not about establishing a relationship, it's okay to know more.

If you are in a relationship, you need to make a choice as soon as possible. Otherwise, it will cause unnecessary conflicts.

Look at your own heart and don't do things that make you regret it.

There is only one person I love the most, there is a family in the family, and as a daughter who is going to leave this family sooner or later, I choose the person I love the most.

Parents and boyfriends are more important than parents. Parents only have one in their life, and even if your boyfriend is your favorite, you can find it again if you lose it, but if you lose your parents, you will never have it.

If there is no helplessness in life, then life is meaningless, what people do is smooth sailing, what do people still learn! What is the point of living? I have experienced a lot of things, and sometimes I think about why God is so unfair to me, and whether it is too cruel to torture me again and again!

Thinking about it afterwards, this is a test for me, if you want to be happy, you will be unhappy or not, time is just waiting for you for a minute and a second, and there is not much life in this life! A person's life should be well controlled.

If I have to choose, choose the person I love the most, be selfish once......

It's easy to meet someone who loves you or yourself, but it's not easy to meet someone who really loves each other, and there are many people who can't meet each other in their lifetime! I advise you to be brave enough to pursue true love! You and your boyfriend are not true love, even if you wronged yourself and chose a boyfriend, that would be unfair to your boyfriend!

If you choose someone who truly loves each other, you respect your heart's choice!

Of course, you have to choose one, weigh whether the boyfriend is good, whether the other is good, whether emotionally, mentally, or financially, if you think about it properly, you should make a choice, after all, it's not right to pedal two boats.

If she can't give up his boyfriend for him, it means that she doesn't love enough, let alone loves the most.

If you really love someone, you will leave and go to her when you get married.

If, you are sure that that person loves you and wants to be with you, and then you love him too, then be together. Maybe I'm sorry for my current boyfriend, but love is originally a joy between two people, I just want to say, don't let yourself regret it, and minimize the damage.

It depends on what you want to pursue, if you want to pursue happiness in the future, you must choose to be sincere to yourself, sincere, mutually inclusive, understand each other, love each other, people, appearance is not very important, the important thing is inside. If she wants to pursue romance and momentary pleasure, then he and she may lose their happiness.

I love my boyfriend the most, which means that I don't love it the most, so I choose to have a boyfriend now, don't worry about it.

Falling in love with someone who genuinely loves you lasts longer than falling in love with someone who is in a fake love for you.

There is no choice, just be together.

Choose the man who truly loves her.

If you are looking for true love, you should break up with your current boyfriend decisively.

Choose to love yourself, because it is easy to find someone to love, but it is difficult to love you.

I think men should have a showdown with their boyfriends, and pay attention to their voice during the showdown.

If you like it, accept it, refuse if you don't like it, don't procrastinate, it's very hurtful, it's a man who thinks about it himself, whether you like him or not.

Try to listen to him, and help him when he needs to help, so that he can feel good to have you.

It has been said that everyone will meet four people in their life, the first is yourself, the second is the person you love the most, the third is the person who loves you the most, and the fourth is the person who spends your life together. Life loves to joke the most, and the one you love the most often doesn't choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And in the end, the one who spends your life with you is not your favorite or the person who loves you the most, but the person who appeared at the most suitable time.

Give each other freedom. Be understanding your boyfriend.

You don't know yourself, so there's no way to find it?

1. No matter who you choose between the two men, first see clearly what you want, whether it is the material basis or emotional life in the future.

2. If you can give up 5 years of relationship, it means that you still don't love your boyfriend enough.

3. No one can say for sure about emotional things, what you are bothered about now is the choice your parents give you, not your real own choice, you can't refuse, some things you can communicate with your parents first, your own position.

4. Whether it is a potential stock or a high-quality stock, the focus is to see how the other party treats you, what kind of person your blind date is, your parents and your uncle should be able to tell you, don't say anything about money or not, the point is to tell you how he is a person, what his personality is, and whether it will be difficult to get along with your personality.

5. What kind of person is your boyfriend, you should know very well that what you say before marriage and what you do after marriage are two different things, you might as well weigh whether he will do what he said verbally before marriage.

6. Your boyfriend's parents are both managed by the business, and worrying about whether they will be difficult to get along with in the future is another important point.

7. I just want to say that you are stupid, is the future pension of your boyfriend's parents yours? Could it be that you will live on his parents' pension in the future? And it's the kind of life they give to you if they want to give it to you, and if they don't want to give it to you, you won't give it to you?

It's hard to say about this thing, but the thing of wealth, you just need to know that the focus is whether your boyfriend is self-motivated.

8. Ambitious men generally make their final plans for themselves, what are you afraid of, and it is normal for businessmen to make profits and losses, the focus is on what business he does.

In short, one is a bland life choice, the other is a choice of ups and downs, this thing depends on your own choice, material life is earned by yourself, and emotional life is cultivated by yourself, the focus is on whether the other party is worth cultivating the feelings of the two of you.

Wishing you a happy Chinese New Year.

Look at the answers upstairs are methodical and listen to them, but I am too lazy to read your question and their answers, so I read the title and choose a boyfriend of 5 years, because marriage requires understanding. But if you say he's frivolous, then it's troublesome, you'll break up on both sides, frivolity is generally selfish, conceited, irresponsible, and sooner or later you're going to leave, but blind date, lack of understanding, no love marriage, it's best to make your love longer, don't rush to give it to him, see the result, I don't want me to say that you will break up with anyone, but the facts.

If their incomes don't make a difference to you, then your choice of these two should now be based on which one do you prefer? This will be more reliable. After all, when the material factors are about the same, we prefer to choose the one that we feel from the bottom of our hearts. Isn't it?

So much or what I said, who do you want to live with for a lifetime, who can live with you for a lifetime, these two questions are clear, it's who it is.

You don't have to look at the rest, you don't have to think about it, just think about these two questions.

Empty yourself first, and you will see your husband.

After listening to so much, emotional matters have nothing to do with feelings, but there is too much money to do. How can there be a profitable deal!

Although I gave it to my boyfriend for the first time, I think he is too good at coaxing people, and I don't know if your husband minds your first time, who has never been in love with this idea, respect your parents, and discuss it with them.

The first time you give it to whomever you want, the later ones will not cherish you and annoy you!!

The most important thing is who exactly do you love?

Wow, what a tirade??

When I saw this topic, the first thing that came to mind was the score!! Because I can't tolerate my boyfriend liking two people at the same time.

You really grieve for you. If you could tell me the truth the first time, I would definitely advise you to break up. It's a pity...

You also wrote the following, and you are still with him. Can't you see such a man clearly? What is there to love for an irresponsible man?

Can you even forgive?

Oops, I don't even want to talk about it. , even hurt you so many times, and ignored you.

What are you still thinking about here? , a woman in love is really stupid, it's just stupid.

I still hope that you can really separate from him, and nothing good will come of this.

I want to open a little. Better a finger off than always aching.

He's evading responsibility, and he's still hiding in the end! I want to say he's such an incompetent and useless guy! I really don't know what you love about him.

Love Him to hurt you like this???

This kind of man is not loved by anyone at all.

You listen to his nonsense, if a real man loves someone, he will definitely be able to be single-minded, it is impossible to love this and love that for a while, in this case, there is only one explanation.

He doesn't love anyone at all, you have to see clearly, don't be nostalgic, although it will be very sad, but you must leave, you are not too late now, because first of all, if he loves you, you can make you miscarry 6 times. I love my wife very much, she had a miscarriage, I was very sad and blamed myself, so that although I was only 20 years old, I decided to have this child at that time, although under the persuasion of both parents, I didn't want it. I'm all sad.

A man who can make you miscarry 6 times is not worth loving at all.

If a woman wants to be happy, she must find someone who really loves and really loves you, maybe he can't speak flattery and doesn't know how to be romantic, but he knows how to love you with his own heart. Know how to protect you with your body.

That's true love, 6 miscarriages, he doesn't think at all if you won't be able to have children in the future, this kind of person is his own model. Curse him to never be loved.

There is nothing to be nostalgic for such a man, giving everything for him should not be a reason to tie you up, there is still a long way to go, don't wronged yourself like this, I can also say that there will be no happiness with such a man. Be chic and let it go!!

Love is so painful, why not try this to let go, don't care about how much you give and don't get anything. Because that's not proportional at all. For someone who no longer loves himself, it is pointless to keep him.

It will be painful, but time will heal your scars. Life will go on.

I've finished reading your story, to be honest, I'm really not worth it for you, how can you have such a boyfriend and girlfriend Oh, such a person is really not worth it, there is only one person who loves a person, it is impossible to fall in love with 2 people at the same time, he is too selfish and has a problem with his character, leave him to do it yourself!