I m 20 years old, my boyfriend is 29 years old, how do I tell my family and ask for help?

Only 20 years old. Too young.

I think forget it.

Hahaha. Just kidding......

Saying goes. As long as the relationship is really good.

Age is not an issue.

Not to mention the distance.

That's probably what it means

As long as the two of you are true love.

But it doesn't hurt! Of course.

Be mentally prepared too.

How to live in the same city in the future.

Whether the like-minded thoughts can be like-minded.

In particular, there is a "generation gap" in thought

Think about it early.

If the feelings are unwavering.

So. not to seriously think about it.

Relationship openness. Tell parents.

Talking about marriage.

How to tell parents?

1. I have a boyfriend.

2. My boyfriend is 29 years old.

3. We want to get married.

4. Now I want to know.

What do parents think.

That's it. It's as simple as that.

Make it clear in four sentences.

Don't grind.

Beat around the bush. Muddy and watery.

It seems that you are hesitant.

You tell me?

Age is not a problem, old husbands and young wives are common in modern society, as long as the two of you really love each other, the family will agree.

Therefore, some instructors just have bad intentions and deceive female students. I got along with the instructor when I was a teenager, have you ever thought about how your parents feel?

The feelings are yours, as long as you feel appropriate. The opinions of parents at home should only be used as a reference. Age is honestly not a key factor.

Separate first and let the two sides cool down.

Separate for a while, calm and calm, and then nothing will happen.

You know it's your fault, so why ask.

If you don't change, or continue to scold him more and more, believe me, you will drift away on the road of singleness.

It shouldn't matter, as long as it doesn't affect your studies, I think your parents will understand, after all, 20 years old is also grown up, and in a few years, parents should urge blind dates, and say it boldly.

It's been two years together, what are you waiting for? Unless you don't want to spend a lot of time with your boyfriend! If you really love each other, you must tell your family as soon as possible.

They scold you because they care about you and love you. As long as you are happy, they will not embarrass you. Hurry home and talk about it!

If you think your relationship will last, tell your parents.

You should be annoyed how to tell your parents. You can start by tentatively saying "There's a boy chasing me" to see how your parents react. I'm interested in asking you to tell me how he is, which means that your parents also want you to have a boyfriend now.

If you are reminded that now is not the time to fall in love, it means that you can't accept it, and you will talk about it later.

It's not too late to get married, and if you break up, you don't have to look for the bottom of the stairs, and the damage is not so deep.

Try talking to your parents about yourself as your friend's business and see how they react.

Because you've grown up.

I feel that it is time to normalize my relationship.

Just say what you want, and I believe that parents will not blame too much.

I'll have to tell them this sooner or later.

Hello dear, according to age, you are not old enough to get married.

Your boyfriends are 29 years old, which is the age of starting a family.

It's better to decide to get married based on how much he loves you.

Or get married now and wait until you are old enough to get a marriage certificate.

When the boy is older, he should consider getting married.

The reason why it is concealed may be because of the fear of losing you, everything depends on your mentality.

Of course, I have to tell my family, and I think he has bad intentions when he intends to lie to you.

What's that, as long as you really love each other, my in-laws are 13 years apart.

Age is not a problem, but if you hide your words, persuade you to break up, there will be endless troubles.

If you are with him, after you get married, I promise you will regret it for the rest of your life and suffer for the rest of your life, I tell you from a man's point of view.

This person is very insincere, he lied to you at the beginning, and I don't know if other things have lied to you, suggest, tell your family.

It is good not to distort the description of gender, it can be regarded as if he is 29 years old, and he can be reported as the person whose conditions are closest to 29 years old in all aspects.

Want your family to know! Let your family help you with the gatekeeping, because your family is on your side.

There is no age gap in love.

Age is not a problem, but age is a lie, and integrity is very questionable.

Then it's up to you, see if you can accept being 10 years older, he actually has no malice in lying, he just likes you and worries about age.

Tell your family that a marriage that is not blessed by your family is unhappy.

Maybe you're married or you're hiding that you actually have a family, so it's better to be careful.

If it's true love, don't tell it, hehe.

Gotta tell you better dump him and come home with me, I'm 25 too

Definitely, if your family supports you, you will be happy.

Is your family against you finding a much older one, and some parents don't seem to mind.

Never trust such a **. It's good to let the family know. 1 to 2 years old is OK. A whole age group.

Dishonest men are really unbelievable, decide for yourself.

Why don't you look at his ID?

Age is not a problem, height is not distance, let's divide it,

You're only 22 years old, so you should still be the age to have dreams. If this happened to a 25-year-old girl, the results would be mostly realistic. I have a sister who is in a similar situation to you, and that boy is now forced to accept it in her sister's family.

At the beginning, I also found 110 to warn him, let's call it my brother-in-law for the time being, my brother-in-law gambled when he was in school, the most serious kind, his own tuition, my sister's notebook, video camera and everything I have gambled on, and the family conditions are also very poor, and I also used my sister when I seemed to be grumpy. My sister is very beautiful, the family is very wealthy, and the family is a little overspoiled. The process is very complicated, my brother-in-law is super good to my sister in addition to gambling, they have been together for almost six years now, and now the relationship is still strong and I am strong, of course, my brother-in-law has quit gambling, and now he is doing business by himself.

Therefore, you are only 22 years old, I believe that you understand the reason, and you can also feel from your description that the balance in your heart has tilted. If he is good in nature, he can change it for you, like my brother-in-law, he can change himself within a clear period of time, and you can hold on a little longer. Fate cannot be forced, but it must be strived for.

If it's really what you say, you may have given up in the bottom of your heart. ps: A man who beats people can change for a while, but it is difficult to change for a lifetime.

Of course, if you really cherish you, anything can change for you. Wishing you happiness!

Giving up decisively is the best way, domestic violence is difficult to correct, many examples around you are the most powerful proof, it's too late to give up now, Mom's actions and ideas are correct in a large range, for your own sake, you really shouldn't just give up your life's happiness and career, don't regret it in the future. There are still a lot of good men, bravely give up, and on your terms, better men are waiting for you somewhere in the future

Give it up! Good cups! You are also a college graduate who studied art, and you would fall in love with such a jobless vagrant little man!

A man who has no ability can only beat his wife at home! Listen to your description, this man is a gangster! If you want to go to hell in the future, please continue to "give"!

Little girl, I advise you to give up this relationship! From the fact that he beats you and you can't eat, you should see that he doesn't take you seriously at all. Besides, he's so much older than you, you don't have to hang yourself from a tree.

You have to be considerate of your parents, they are for your own good, and they are thinking about your future happiness. The reason why you are reluctant to give up is because you have never forgotten your common efforts, but you must know that even if you don't marry him and marry someone else, you still have to pay with your husband. Having said all that, I wonder how you feel?

Think for yourself!

Why do women always think that when a man is 29 or 30 years old, he has to do well in his career? Is it because of that man is thirty? In fact, most men will not have much development in their careers when they reach the age of 29 or 30, you know, they are 23 or 24 years old after graduating from college, and they have only been a few years, what kind of development can there be, if a man is very rich at this age, it is estimated that he will not look down on you, and people will find more beautiful and richer women, and they still want you?

Don't you look at those rich second generations, there are more women who have played with more than they have changed clothes, if your boyfriend is 29 years old and has a very developed career, will he keep you as a woman? That's why I hate women who talk about men's careers the most.

Only a marriage that both parties yearn for is meaningful, and a love that brings a negative change in the outlook on life or even a suicide is not love.

In itself, this society is like this, men are older than women, and others don't have one, but once women are older than men, there are more objections, but your parents are also thinking about you in the future, after all, you are still young, or you may meet better in the future, I am afraid that you will regret it, but if you really like her, then you have to actively work hard, communicate well with your parents, and in the end may agree to you.

This family considers that you are older than the age difference, but this is the two of you asking him, think about it, will she be old and don't like her in the future, if you really want to, get along well, and slowly the family will accept it, and get married and have children as soon as possible.

Age is not a giant, only the relationship between you and your girlfriend is real, I think no matter who is against, I think you should cherish it,

Why not agree to be together.

There is no rational analysis.

I suggest that you rationally consider what the purpose of your current relationship is, just to talk about love or marriage.

If it's just love, then just by feeling, don't care about other people's opinions and feelings, even if you're just looking for a young lady.

Also within the relationship as long as you are happy.

If you are ready to get married.

The other person's personality, health status, background, family situation, emotional experience, and even political outlook need to be considered in some special circumstances.

Don't just say love.

Marriage and love are not the same thing at all.

Hopefully you'll recognize.

If you don't want to give up, just be together.

Daddy loves you, so don't worry.

You're still young, don't be in a hurry, and let the man see your parents first.

Going to his house for a few days is equivalent to home delivery.

Take your boyfriend to see your family first, and then go to see his family if your parents agree.

Has your family ever seen your boyfriend?

The mood of the parents is the same, the man has never seen it, character. The personality is not clear, and I must not be at ease!