He s leaving me now, but I really don t want to give up on him

Find out why he left you.

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My boyfriend and I often quarrel because of personality incompatibility, it doesn't matter, if he really loves you, he will still come back to you in the end, and you have to make some concessions.

I've been in a similar situation, and eighty percent of the reason he left you was because he started the next spring! Everything else is an excuse

Love needs to be tolerant, it needs to be understood, if he can't tolerate you and understand you, does he really love you, and does such a person really deserve your love.

If you can't keep it, why keep it.

If you love someone, give him plenty of space, don't deliberately explore his secrets, don't expect to know everything about him; If you care about a person, give him enough freedom, don't restrict his behavior at will, and don't try to change his life. What is yours will always be yours, and if it's not yours, why can't you let go. Better a finger off than always aching.

No matter what you can't force on, it's the same in love, both parties have feelings to imitate the appearance of husband and wife. If you don't agree with each other, if you are still reluctant, you can only hurt each other. Just like your friends are not satisfied with you, they will often complain and complain, do you really not mind this?

No, it won't! It's just buried in your heart, and when your humiliation accumulates to a certain level, you will lose your mind, and then the damage will be much worse than it is now. To remember:

Human personality is not easy to change. There is a saying that "the country is difficult to change, and the temperament is difficult to change", which is worth it. In addition, time is the best medicine for healing, and it will be fine after a while, there is no need to embarrass yourself, you must learn to cherish yourself.

There's always a reason why I left you.

Top down the 1st floor.

Love is not a must, if you love her, you give her freedom and wish her happiness.

To give is to give and to gain.

Summary. Hello dear! In your case, it may be better if you can find a stronger third party to help you; If you can't break up peacefully, it shouldn't be the reason why the other party loves you very much, if you really love you, you won't be unable to break up; The other party has given emotionally, and it is understandable that they cannot accept the breakup emotionally; This situation in the description is not a normal state, the interaction between the other person and his parents in a young age is not our usual intimate state, and he has a lot of emotional longing in his heart, a thirst for love, and this desire is projected on the love partner, so that the love partner will feel controlled and suffocated.

If possible, it is recommended to find a professional psychological counselor to help him with healing; It can not only help him see himself clearly so that he can learn to grow and change, but also help you break up smoothly. I hope mine can help you and I wish you all the best!

I didn't like him and wanted to leave, but he wouldn't let me go.

He had obsessive-compulsive disorder, and he told me to do things I didn't want to do, and he did.

Hey, it's so hard. Don't want to say <>

Hello dear! In your case, it may be better if you can find a stronger third party to help you; If you can't break up peacefully, it shouldn't be the reason why the other party loves you very much, if you really love you, you won't be unable to break up; The other party has given emotionally, and it is understandable that they cannot accept the breakup emotionally; This situation in the description is not a normal state, the interaction between the other person and his parents in a young age is not our usual intimate state, and he has a lot of emotional longing in his heart, a thirst for love, and this desire is projected on the love partner, so that the love partner will feel controlled and suffocated. If possible, it is recommended to find a professional psychological counselor to help him with healing; It can not only help him see himself clearly so that he can learn to grow and change, but also help you break up smoothly.

I hope mine can help you and I wish you all the best!

I'm so annoyed. Thank you.

Cutting through the mess quickly is the best way for him, and it is impossible for the end of a relationship not to affect the mood, but this influence has long and short. Hurry up and finish, for him, it is better to have a long pain than a short pain, and it is the best choice.