Why aren t the unfamiliar people afraid, but the familiar ones feeling scared?

For the unfamiliar person is not afraid, but the familiar person feels afraid, probably because the familiar person has left some bad impression on himself and made himself feel afraid, so he will feel afraid.

Because no matter what an unfamiliar person does, it has nothing to do with you, and if a familiar person does something that hurts you, you will feel afraid and afraid.

You are not afraid of unfamiliar people, but you are afraid of familiar people, that is, familiar people know everything about you too well, so you are afraid, is this the reason?

Because the more familiar people are, the more they know your heart, the more they know your character, and they may also know some tricks, so such people must be careful.

People who are not familiar with him are not afraid of familiar people feeling afraid, this is because you are not familiar, you don't know his details at all, and when you are familiar with him, you know more about him, of course, there are some things that will cause you to be afraid.

Because you have little contact, he doesn't understand you, he doesn't know what you think in his heart, people who are too familiar, you are afraid because he knows you too much, so he is afraid.

Because people who are not familiar with you do not understand you, people who are familiar will understand you. That's why you're scared.

That's because you don't know people, you don't feel that the other party will treat you and won't make you sad, and those who are familiar, you will be afraid of hurting them or hurting you, so you will feel this way.

Why is the unfamiliar person not afraid, but the familiar person feels more afraid, because the unfamiliar person, he doesn't know your shortcomings, but the familiar person, he wants to understand what you are, and he is more afraid.

It's normal that you feel scared because you know people you know well. And you don't know this stranger, so you think he's still very kind, so you're not afraid.

Because you don't know people you don't know, and you know familiar people too well, you will be more afraid.

Because familiar people may know him, maybe he has a strange personality, so it makes you scared or too close, and you can't stand it.

This is because everyone is too familiar with each other, so they know each other too well.

People who are not familiar with each other are not afraid, but people who are more familiar feel more afraid, because people who are more familiar with each other may know each other better, so sometimes they will be particularly afraid.

Because you are familiar with people, you care about their opinions and opinions about you, and you are afraid that what you do will disappoint them, and you are a person who has high standards for yourself.

Because the unfamiliar person does not know what will happen, he is not afraid, but the familiar person knows what is going on and feels terrible.

It may be that you are a familiar person, but you can't figure it out in his heart, so you feel scared.

It may be that when I was a child, I had some shadows in my heart about this, so I was afraid of familiar people. It may be someone familiar who has hurt you.

Because sometimes it's really like this, the more familiar the person we are, the more we feel that sometimes he does something that makes us feel scared.

You have a feeling that you care about someone you know, so you feel scared and feel that the other person thinks differently than you.

It's just your personal thoughts, and it's good not to have them anyway, even if you're familiar with them, they're not as scary as you think.

This is your personal problem, whether you are familiar or unfamiliar, you should not be afraid, afraid of anything.

I wanted to embrace the memory, but it turned into a bird and flew away between its arms. People always pursue their dreams under the sun, but they reminisce about the past in the dim light.

It's because we know too much that we feel scared, just like all of us are transparent.

Because the other person doesn't know any of your weaknesses or weaknesses.

Why aren't people who are not familiar with it afraid? On the contrary, familiar people feel scared because they are too familiar with each other.

People are afraid, but the reason why familiar people are also afraid is because you have social interaction, and you still don't need social aspects, so you have to exercise well.

I'll give you an analysis of this reason from a scientific point of view, although it is wonderful, but it is not so godly, just like magic:

This starts with the analysis of people's facial features, such as the shape of the face, the high and low points, the distance between the high and low points of the nose, mouth, eyes, cheekbones, and the high and low points are regular. That's why there are people who look alike.

And when some of a person's signature code is consistent with someone you're familiar with, for example, one of your feelings is very good with someone, it stimulates your subconscious.

A strong sense of identity.

And there are two variables that you don't know about:

1. You don't necessarily agree with this person's characteristic code, just like 6 stones, just placed at a specific distance, and the size is exactly the same. Although you may not have seen the combination, the characteristics are exactly the same as the one you have seen.

2. The problem of your deceased. This old man may have been away from you for many years, or even forgotten about it. But there's something in your subconscious.

For example, I like a foreign actor in a movie very much, and I watch a lot of his movies. Later, I analyzed: his facial features are consistent with my aunt, and my aunt and my grandfather naturally look alike, and the feelings left by these two relatives in my subconscious are very deep.

Of course, the reality is also emotional); Although this actor doesn't look like my grandfather, these coincidences have made me feel close to him and identify with him.

You're not sick. It is a sight to come at home in everyday life.

Make you feel his kindness.

So many people will feel this way. Be cautious.

I feel that this is a love in the dark, you should be in love with him, in love with him, so there is a strong sense of familiarity, it has appeared in your dreams!

If you have such a feeling, it may be that someone else's temper and personality are very similar to a friend of yours, so you will directly feel that there is such a connection with the other person, or you will have such a good impression of the other person.

Maybe you will have more eyes with this person, there will be a certain magnetic attraction, and you will feel that its appearance and conversation are more suitable for you, so you will feel more cordial.

Relatively speaking, this person will be more easy-going, so you can get to know each other further, and maybe you can become a good friend.

Maybe you get to know someone with the person you want to see the most in your mind, and you will find that there will be a familiar look in him.

In fact, this feeling exists in the dark and people always have a fate, this feeling is indescribable, maybe you have seen him in a dream Maybe you have indeed had a relationship but no one remembers.

Having a strong sense of familiarity with someone you don't know is a subconscious in it, just like your familiarity with an old person.

Could it be that you think too much and cause it to be unnatural to lift yourself? First, accept your fears. Everyone has fears, and you don't have to worry too much about it.

Then, usually contact more people, things, things, and more interactions, exchanges, and conversations with others. Also, usually have more outdoor activities and sports, broaden your mind and horizons, and adjust your physical and mental state. Finally, if you have time, you can also consult a psychologist.

Summary. This is a matter of personality and can be changed through practice.

It can be stressful to meet someone you don't know.

Hello friend. This is a matter of personality and can be changed through practice.

Is this your **.

You can try to contact more people, don't stay at home, and start by contacting and chatting with people around you, such as neighbors.

Fear of getting along with people you know, and lighter about people you don't know.

First, learn to relax yourself. When you enter a social environment that makes you afraid, what you need to do is to learn to relax yourself properly, you can try to take a deep breath, make a big noise and then slowly exhale, repeat a few times, or do a tiptoe exercise, gently tiptoe up and then slowly put down, with the previous deep breathing method, I believe it can eliminate a trace of anxiety in you. Second, self-perception reconstruction.

People with social phobia are actually very concerned about what others think, so they pay attention to their every move, worrying that they will make a fool of themselves and be laughed at by others for being "too stupid", so over time they will be disgusted with all kinds of social situations, and they will be afraid that they are not as comfortable as they are at home. In fact, everyone only cares about themselves, and they don't have much leisure time to care about others, even if you make a mistake, then it will be forgotten in a few minutes. You just follow your heart and be yourself, and you don't have to imitate other people's opinions in the shed.

Third, improve yourself and develop your social skills. If you feel that you don't know how to get along with others in that kind of social situation, you can read some relevant books, online tutorials, newspapers and periodicals to learn the basic skills taught in them, and you can usually practice your eyes, smile, speaking style, speed and intonation in the mirror, so that you can be confident and strong, and observe the communication methods of other people in life. Necessary socialization is beneficial, but not the more socializing the more beneficial, so you don't have to force yourself at all, only go to meet the people you want to meet, only talk about the topics you want to talk about, and participate in activities that you want to participate in, and your comfort is the most important thing.

Have symptoms of autism.

Generally speaking, there are three aspects of having autism:

1) Social development: not interested in external things, not very aware of the existence of others; Lack of eye contact with others, failure to actively socialize, share or participate in activities; In terms of group contact, the imitation ability is weak, the social skills are not mastered, and the cooperation is lacking. The imagination is weak, and symbolic play activities are rarely carried out through toys.

2) Delayed and impaired language development in communication, abnormal speaking content, speed, and pitch, and varying degrees of difficulty in language comprehension and non-verbal communication; May lack the ability to communicate in gaps.

3) Behavior: In daily life, adhere to certain ways and procedures, refuse to change habits and routines, and constantly repeat some actions; Narrow interests, extremely focused on certain objects, or particularly interested in certain parts of objects or certain shapes of objects.

It is recommended that you change your current lifestyle, slowly accept the new life, communicate with others more, participate in more social activities, and you will slowly get better, the important thing is to be confident, everyone will find their own relationship.

Good luck.

This thinking should be intermittent.

Maybe it's because of your mentality! In fact, sometimes this is normal, because sometimes I haven't seen you for a long time and haven't been in touch, and at this moment, I want to see but I'm worried about what will happen after I see you, and I'm afraid that the other party won't recognize you and have a feeling of loss, so I think it's better not to see you....In fact, you can usually try to communicate with them more, send text messages or something, and talk more slowly...

I'm just like you, and now I'm trying to improve, you can read more books on this subject!

Some people, some things are always inadvertently separated from you, not contradictions and no accidents. Occasional or inevitable encounters are also waiting for the other party to speak first to greet each other, afraid that the other party will see through their own uncompetitive forgetting. Time gradually precipitates out of our own social circle and friend level, and we can only freeze those surprises that fate gave us when it favored us into a picture, and then bury it, without rushing or impatient......Say goodbye to those memories that may be poignant.........