If the love doesn t work out, should it continue?

What's the most terrible thing to lose in love? Is it money? Money is so important, it is the foundation of a stable life, it is said that poor couples mourn everything, and no money seems to be impossible.

However, as long as we can love and understand each other, we can always get motivation from love, and we can survive in such a rich society. If you lose your money, you can still fall in love. Is the most terrible thing about losing your youth?

Men are no longer strong, women are no longer beautiful, they are no longer the same people they were back then, will they dislike each other? However, if you fall in love, the years will only make love sink down, and the two of them will walk through life hand in hand, overcome hardships together, and have common memories, and youth is nothing more than the starting point of love; Love can accumulate over the years, and there is no one who can replace it. The scariest thing is losing contact?

You are separated from each other, and you can no longer face each other day and night, and sometimes there is no even news at all. However, if you still love him, you will bury him in the bottom of your heart, carefully keep that memory, across life and death, across time and space, and, maybe one day, fate will connect you together. The most terrible thing is the loss of hope, right?

Without hope, everything has to end, and love is destined to bow to fate. However, if you lose hope, you will still look forward to it, and you will regret it, you have cherished this love so much; You've walked together, even if it's tragic. You and him, there is no shortage of money, youth is still in hand, you are still as beautiful as ever, you are together day and night, morning and evening.

However, you are no longer in love with each other, you gradually lose hope, breathing, shedding, and heartache, but he turns a blind eye, hears nothing, and does not even say a word, cold, and strange. It turns out that there is a loss of feeling, and what is more terrible than losing a feeling?

If it's acenaphne, it's because what two people pursue together may not be the final result, but the feeling together, and the days spent together are the best, no, no one knows the final result, so why bother thinking about it, as long as two people really love each other, then will they be afraid that there will be no good result.

1. It should be continued

Some people say: People live not to pursue the result of living, but to experience a wonderful process, and the process is the most important. How many people can you fall in love with in just a few decades?

So even if you know that there is no result, since you love each other, you should continue to be together until the day of separation, so that you will have no regrets when you remember it in the future.

But have these people ever thought that such behavior is not only irresponsible to each other, but also to each other's consumption, and in the end it will only be more painful after separation, although there is a little short-term happiness in your memories, but more sadness after regret, so there is not much point in persevering.

2. It should not be continued

Friend Xiaoshi has been disgusted since she first went to her boyfriend's house, but she is not discouraged by this, she feels that the result lies in her boyfriend's thoughts, and she wants to stick to this relationship and impress her boyfriend's parents.

But the relationship between the two of them was destined to have no good results since then, her parents did not agree, her boyfriend was not firm, no matter how hard Xiaoshi tried, she was always excluded, and it was difficult to get the approval of the other party's parents, no matter how hard she tried, it was useless.

Xiaoshi persisted for more than a year, she was tired, and finally chose to break up.

She reflected on this relationship, and regretted it even more. She knew that there would be no good results, but she still had to fight for it without giving up, and wasted nearly two years in vain. In the past two years, she has suffered a lot of injuries and suffering, and in the end, she has not been able to save her love.

To sum up, I don't think that love without results should not continue. The fairy tale of love is very beautiful, but the reality of Youzhao is very skinny. In life, time comes first.

Love in reality is not so great, even if you let go, you can still find another person who gives you happiness.