Long distance relationships. Very contradictory 15, long distance relationship. It s contradictory

Just like what your girlfriend said. If you want to have it, you must have self-confidence...

I think it's still a problem with LZ itself.

Build your self-confidence. Communicate with people. Be a little outgoing. Change yourself a little.

To know. If a girl talks to a man, she must have expectations for this person.

Always care more about your girlfriend.

SMS. A small surprise gift.

It can warm a girl's heart.

You wake up when you do your part.

Although the love affair in the student days was unreliable. But at least it will leave good memories in the future.

Maybe you're the exception.

You should feel proud because you have a great girlfriend. Don't be discouraged by yourself, your girlfriend chooses you to be outstanding, so have faith in yourself. Women are usually easily annoyed, although they don't say it, but they feel very annoyed in their hearts, and if you say that you don't deserve it, she or something like that!

Have faith in yourself!!

My long-distance relationship is over Long pain is better than short pain My situation is similar to you Even if two people like each other anymore But the personality is not harmonious You won't be happy together Do you think you are very awkward when you play with her friends I don't know how to get along with them So everyone is not happy Why don't you give up such a tired relationship Maybe you feel reluctant But each other's world is not the same Isn't it painful to continue

Later? Don't believe that there will be a future, young people don't be fooled, I just believe too much that there will be a future before I fell into the trap! Dating from high school to college is the most unrealistic!

The transition of a girl in college is the most terrifying, and it feels terrible! Only if you work and have a certain economic foundation, then it is stable!

The time on the university campus is an unforgettable memory in the hearts of most people, and many years later, it will be sweet in the aftertaste.

Campus life, there is no social deceit, no firewood, rice, oil and salt in life, no boredom and troubles of work, and no family troubles.

The couples are so sweet, the smiles are so pure, the words are so simple, and the future is full of beautiful vision.

When they graduate and enter the society, due to different family backgrounds, they naturally face different lives, good family conditions, and after graduation, they can be arranged by their families with very promising jobs, they can have no worries about food and clothing, and have no scruples about life. The other party needs to go into the job search stage, get acquainted with the society for the first time, and need to bear all kinds of difficulties by themselves, due to the two different living environments, which eventually leads to two people having different views on life, and naturally becoming strangers.

Many couples out of the campus, choose different cities, because they have just stepped into the society, defenseless of the complexity of society, in the face of reality will inevitably suffer all kinds of blows, is the most need for each other's comfort and care, because of the reasons of different places, can not be by the side, due to the daily busyness, there is no time to maintain the relationship between two people, and so on life and work is not formal, the only remaining dependence no longer exists, without dependence, the relationship between two people will slowly fade.

I guess I don't trust enough.

1. The connection cannot be broken.

It is very important to keep in touch, even if it is just a text message every day, or make a **, but also let the other party know that he or she has him in his heart, and that the person he cares about and loves is him or her. Of course, the time and frequency of contact are different for each person, and it varies from person to person, but you can't break the contact.

2. Be common.

If possible, aim to meet at least once a month. Although it is said that distance produces beauty, for long-distance relationships, if you want to have a stable relationship, distance alone is not enough, you need face-to-face communication and communication, and you need to talk about love words and little secrets face-to-face, which is an important method and way to promote the feelings of both parties, and it is also essential.

3. Learn to create surprises.

Give the other person a different surprise, such as a love letter every week. Although there are a lot of communication tools that are fast and convenient now, they are not worth a love letter, and when you see each other's words and words, your heart will be warm, suitable for introverts to express their emotions, and it will also make each other's hard work and persistence in a long-distance relationship feel worthwhile.

4. Tolerance and understanding.

Good at taking advantage of the differences in thinking between men and women, tolerating and understanding each other. In fact, whether it is a boy or a girl, there will always be a lot of misunderstandings and incomprehensions in a long-distance relationship, and in order to better promote each other's feelings, you need to think from each other's point of view, know the difference in thinking between boys and girls, and you can tolerate and understand each other, which can reduce a lot of nonsense, and can also ensure the stability and sweetness of the relationship.

5. The correct way of communication.

Looking for the best way to communicate, in fact, even if the couple is in a city and meets every day, there will be times when they quarrel, not to mention that two people are not in the same place, it is inevitable that there will be a lot of quarrels, and they feel that the other party does not love themselves, or they feel that the other party has a new love and other ideas will make them tangled and uncomfortable, and a reasonable way of communication can effectively avoid this.

Find common topics, for example, if you both like to watch movies, make an appointment to go to the movies together, you watch it in your city, he and she watch it in his city, exchange experiences after watching it, and of course, you can also talk about what happened in the process of watching the movie, and so on, so that the long-distance relationship will also have endless topics.

7. Strive to be together.

Strive to live and work in a city as soon as possible, even if the best relationship can't withstand a long time of separation, even if the other party's love for you is firm, you need to live together, and experience the ups and downs together to be practical. In order to better promote the relationship between the two sides, it is necessary to strive for living and working in the same city as soon as possible.

1. Give the other person time to calm down. When two people have a conflict, you must remember to give each other time to calm down, and don't fight dozens of ** as soon as the quarrel is over, which will only increase the anger of the other party. The best way is to call again at a suitable interval, or send a slight letter to test the other party's mood, and if you are willing to reply, it proves to be a good sign.

2. Communicate with the main side. There are many problems in long-distance relationships, which makes it even more necessary for two people to communicate. When communicating, try to give the other party a preventive vaccination, and ask the other party to stay calm during this period.

In this way, communication can be better. Of course, the communication is about how to maintain a relationship.

3. Express your love. People in long-distance relationships are usually very insecure, and many of the reasons for quarrels come from this. Therefore, both parties must always bring each other a sense of safety and security, and it is the easiest way to express their love from time to time.

Especially for girls, it is especially insecure, and boys must pay attention.

4. Go directly to the other party. When the conflict cannot be resolved, remember to communicate face-to-face. You just go straight to her, long-distance relationships are especially easy to resolve conflicts because of meeting. As long as the other party sees you, it is easy to dissolve, and any contradictions may no longer be cared about.

5. Give a small gift. After resolving the conflict, there should be just some small romance in time, so that the relationship between the two people continues to heat up. It's definitely a good idea to give a small gift.

Because the place is different, you can send a courier to contact each other. Don't buy a gift that is too shabby, otherwise the other party may get angry when you see it.

6. Greetings on time in the future. After the conflict and then reconcile, it is actually easier to enhance the relationship between two people, and in the future, everyone will learn to be obedient and always take into account each other's feelings. You might as well contact the other person on a regular basis so that you don't feel that the other person is unimportant.

7. Give the other party a certain commitment. As mentioned earlier, long-distance relationships are most afraid of insecurity, and at this time, you should give each other a sense of security. The promise given to the other party can be that within which period we will say goodbye to the other place and live together.

Be sure to give the other person a reasonable deadline to give the other person confidence.

Long-distance relationships are the most taboo in the Cold War. If you are true love, you must not ruin a good relationship by quarreling. They are far from each other.

When the other party is sad, he can't comfort him in time, and he can't eat and watch movies with him. If they still quarrel, it will be very hurtful to feel very badly. There will be an indelible rift between two people, try to quarrel less and understand more.

Actually, what is the scope of your quarrel? Think the other way around. A long-distance relationship is more difficult than a normal relationship.

Because they are not in the same area. And then if you're in love, you'll think about how much you've done for each other.

I know you can't think about it calmly after a fight. I'm not very good at solving long-distance relationships. All I can say is that you guys quarreled.

Just look at the other person's chat history. Or look at your little bits and pieces to know how much you have given each other. I really bless you.

In a quarrel, we must first distinguish between truth and falsehood, and first figure out the purpose of the other party. Let's talk about girls. Many people think that quarrels are unreasonable for girls.

Therefore, as long as the girl is happy, she generally does not quarrel.

If you quarrel, think about whether you have done anything wrong and whether you have forgotten something. If not, I guess the girl just wants you to coax her. In love, girls are more dependent on boys.

It's a different place, so you can't see her grievances or happiness, and she won't be psychologically comfortable, so it's very likely that she will get angry and quarrel. At this time, if we guys don't want to break up, please say some sweet words to coax them. It seems that this is the instinct of boys.

It was easy to quell the war. Or give her a small red envelope.

If the economic strength is not too strong, don't send 520 or 1314. A 99 a day is much better than these. You can also buy her small gifts every once in a while.

I heard that straight men love to give lipstick, and I think they are versatile. I suggest thinking again and then acting. If you really quarrel over something, it is recommended that the boy buy a ticket and kill him without saying a word.

No amount of love can be received through a screen, or a bear hugging a warmer person face-to-face.

You should express your apologies by hitting **, or sending gifts to the other party, so that the other party does not get angry, and this gift of your own is your own heart.

I think it's best if two people solve the problem in person, and girls need a sense of security, and boys can take a few days off to come to the girl's city to spend more time with their girlfriends or hang out.

If there is a conflict in a long-distance relationship, the fastest way to solve it is to go to your girlfriend's city to find her to reconcile, or you can coax your girlfriend through **. Then just promise her not to make mistakes again in the future.

I think that when there is a conflict in a long-distance relationship, we should communicate with the other party in a timely manner, not to expand the conflict, but to find an opportunity to solve the problem in time.