How should the love of if it is divorced be managed?

Love doesn't have to be tired of being crooked together, and if you are about to leave, it is also a state of love.

Many people think that only two people stay together all the time, and they have to call each other to **, and then post a few pictures of affection** in the circle of friends**, this kind of love is the so-called real love.

However, in reality, this is not the case.

There is too much love, that is, in the accumulation of greasyness, I have deepened my understanding of the other half, and I have also discovered that there are some things in the other party that I don't like. These unappreciated details are subtly magnified so that love is unsustainable.

So,If the love that is separated is not love, such a distance is the most comfortable state of love.

It's not too intimate, and it's not too distant and distant.

Not far away, not close, can not only see clearly, leave a suitable personal space for each other, but also produce beauty, but also deepen the feelings of both parties.

The most important thing in managing a love that is about to leave is to respect each other.

If the other party is accustomed to an emotional life that is not too intimate, then there is no need to insist on the other party to accommodate themselves according to their own standards.

He may choose to give in to himself and do a lot of things he doesn't like because he loves you too much. After a long time, naturally this squeezed personality will be **, and the stronger it accumulates, the more powerful it is.

In the end, it will naturally lead to a breakup and a regretful ending.

Many times, love is unreasonable.

Some people will be willing to learn to change themselves and adjust themselves to the rhythm of the other party for the sake of the person they like; Some people will insist on being themselves, because at first, the other party likes this kind of self, but once it changes, it is no longer the appearance he likes.

We are all in the run-in of love, and gradually know how to adapt to each other's rhythm, and gradually understand what love is.

If the love of "if you are leaving" is sometimes intimate and sometimes indifferent, if it is true love for the other party, it is indeed a very painful thing. So if you meet such a love and are sure that it is true love, you need to have a lot of patience to maintain the relationship.

To treat the other party's "if you leave", first of all, you must have this awareness: the other party will show enthusiasm or indifference in stages. So when these emotions appear, don't overreact in your heart, first calm down, give the other person enough security, let the other party know that you will not leave her no matter what, ask the other party what happened recently, or why the other party has such an emotional change, and tell her that he will be by your side no matter when you are happy or unhappy.

In fact, many people's "if if you leave", is the manifestation of your own inner sense of security, don't easily feel scared and overwhelmed by this kind of "if you leave", deal with it patiently, I believe that you have a lover and eventually become a family!

There is a feeling called if you are leaving, just like eating spicy strips, you can eat it in your mouth, but you can't forget the spicy taste later。This kind of feeling, on the one hand, is obsessive, and on the other hand, it is unpredictable, can it be continued?

Once, I met a man who always cared about me and pampered me in his unique way. However, whenever I tried to approach him, he always stayed away, like a flirtatious kitten, always distressing and funny. I like his back, he likes my strength, and our relationship is like a game of separation, sometimes intimate, sometimes unforgiving.

One sunny day, he expressed his heart to me, and I was ecstatic, thinking that we could finally embark on a romantic journey together. But I didn't want him to disappear suddenly, like a rainbow, beautiful but fleeting. Is this kind of relationship destined to never continue?

However, the passage of time has made me realize that even if you are separated, the relationship can also have its own charm. Chasing and dodging, seemingly clueless, is actually full of fun. We became a consolation to each other, and the rest of our love grew in our daily interactions.

Although we are greedy for that period of time, we have also begun to move towards the future, using the time to protect each other, and create an emotional secret that belongs to my spine one by one.

I don't think it matters whether the relationship can continue。Because some love does not necessarily have results, and some feelings do not necessarily have to have fame, maybe we only need a warm embrace, a trustworthy person, and we can slowly become stronger in the washing of years. Since we have loved, let us be self-reliant, hold the hand of our son, and wander with him in this world of balance and separation, and go through every wonderful moment of life.

Finally, I would like to say: whether you are about to leave, or distance produces beauty, don't give up this feeling. Because this is probably the most beautiful scenery in your life.