When it s time to talk about marriage, I broke up with my girlfriend, how can I get out?

The saddest and most regrettable love is that it is about to enter into marriage and fails.

The degree of the three things of falling in love and finally breaking up, preparing to get married and finally breaking up, and finally getting married and divorced are all different, but in fact, the subject is better, after all, it is only to talk about marriage, and he is not married, but he should have been in love a lot, love each other very much, or have been accustomed to the existence of the other party, and the result is still a breakup.

It is right for the subject to want to get out of such a situation, after all, people can't live in the past forever.

So advice to a couple of subjects.

First, believe in time, even if the subject doesn't do anything now, in the face of time, this little hurt is nothing, even if it's three or five years, ten years and eight years of love, it's nothing, I have partners who have been in love for nine years and finally broke up, and there are also couples who broke up in two months, in the face of time, such injuries can be smoothed out.

Second, entering the next relationship, people say that the best way to forget the ex is to start the next relationship, but the feeling question is mainly that it should be difficult to enter the next relationship if you don't get out of the previous relationship, but it is still recommended that the subject change his direction and focus the character on others, such as parents, such as another person you think you also like.

Third, shift your attention, such as setting a time to run, and focus more time and energy on work and study, and on things that don't make you cranky, so that you can forget about each other more quickly.

Fourth, after a breakup, you can often see each other, even if you can't see each other, you have to create opportunities to see, not to redeem, but this extreme way will make you forget the other party faster, and feel that everything before is actually in the past.

When it came time to talk about marriage, broke up with your girlfriend? What exactly is the reason? You should tell us about it, so we can get to the problem well.

But let me guess, maybe the breakup at this time is due to money, housing and other problems. Is it your girlfriend asking you for a lot of bride price, or a house or a car? And you don't have the money, you don't have a house, you don't have a car.

If that's the case, it's also quite normal.

If your conditions are not good, then you have to learn to make the girl happy, so that the girl willingly marries you, a person who has no house or car. But girls nowadays are very realistic, if you don't have anything, and you don't do a good job, she will definitely break up with you, at this time, then you deserve it.

But if you don't have a house or a car, but you're working hard and you've been starting a business, you're probably going to succeed in your business. At this time, if you need a woman to work with you through thick and thin, then your girlfriend leaves you at this time, which proves that she has no vision, so don't want such a girlfriend.

You don't want to break up and can't get out, it's just because you have paid too much, and you can't get back the feelings or money you have paid, so you will be sad. Actually, these things are nothing, you think about it. Maybe lose her and you'll find a better girlfriend.

And it's often like this, since you're not suitable, it's only a matter of time before you break up. And many people will find a more suitable one for themselves after a breakup. So get out of here and don't embarrass yourself!

If you can't get out, you can only make yourself more uncomfortable, and you are just practicing yourself, and there is no benefit!

This kind of thing is a big blow to the parties, but there is another thing to be thankful for, at least the breakup is proposed before marriage, rather than choosing to divorce after marriage, so it may feel a little better to think about it. If it's not suitable, you should break up. A prerequisite for a happy marriage is that two people are suitable, and while the word "suitable" is simple, it is demanding.

It's really hard for two people to fit in every way. If one is in a hurry and the other is slow, there will be many contradictions. If one person only wants to get through the rest of their life and the other wants to get better and better, there will be a lot of disagreement.

The pursuit of life should be appropriate. If a person does not have a pursuit of life, but he wants a high quality of life, there will be a lot of quarrels.

Whether two people are suitable or not is usually discovered after marriage. That's why a lot of people feel pain after marriage because they never thought that there would be so much friction after marriage. There will also be some people who find that two people are not suitable when they are about to get married, which can be said to be very lucky, if they find that they are not suitable, there is still room for re-choice and repentance.

If you make a mistake in the first step, you will only make a mistake in the next step, and once you get married, you will have to face the problem of having children.

If you divorce as soon as you get married, you will definitely think about face, and if you don't care about face, you won't get married in the first place. So obviously, we will continue to compromise because of the issue of face. Because of the person you choose, you can't tell others how miserable you are, and others will think you're happy.

After getting married, the family will definitely have children, which is an inevitable problem unless you are very resilient to stress and can stand up to your principles.

After all, marriage is not a matter of two people, but the union of two families, if two people want to enter the palace of marriage, first of all, they need to be recognized by both parents, there are many couples who are defeated at this step, although the feelings for each other are indeed very sincere, but due to family reasons, there is no way to continue this relationship, and in the end it can only end in a breakup. However, this also shows that the relationship between the two people is too fragile, and they really can't experience a little storm, and it's good to break up now, at least they don't have to regret it after getting married.

Definitely not to break up, talking about marriage proves that you have overcome the difficulties you face when falling in love, and you already have the idea of getting married in your mind, and you have experienced a long period of love, both parties understand something, so you should not break up.

If it's not suitable, you should break up. A prerequisite for a happy marriage is that two people are suitable, and while the word "suitable" is simple, it is demanding. It's really hard for two people to fit in every way. If one is in a hurry and the other is slow, there will be many contradictions.

If it doesn't fit, then of course break up. Even if you get married, you still don't think it's appropriate, and you should break up. Whether you break up or not has nothing to do with what stage you are in, whether you break up or not has to do with how your relationship is and whether it is suitable.

should not break up, since two people can go to the point of talking about marriage, it means that two people are still very suitable in life, and two people also have a particularly good emotional contact in life.

should break up, at this time, if you find that the two people are not suitable or have different views, you can still choose to break up.

If the three views of two people are not correct, the relationship cannot go on, even if it is the day before the wedding, it is still possible to break up.

The heart is very sad, but there is an irreconcilable contradiction between the two people, although they want to enter into marriage with each other very much, but the breakup may be the final result. There was a bit of struggle in helplessness, but in the end, only depression remained.

It must be very painful and embarrassing, and in this case, many relatives and friends know that there are many times when this kind of problem arises, not only painful, but also very embarrassing.

This will be a particularly painful feeling, after all, they are all talking about marriage, but they are going to break up, and the feelings they paid before are wasted.

I have encountered such a thing, at that time I was very angry in my heart, I really had no other thoughts except anger, I felt that my feelings for many years were wrong, and I was blind to the wrong person.

is about to get married, and the experience of breaking up can be said to be a bolt from the blue, and the whole person was stunned at that time, and I felt very depressed and painful.

At this time, it will actually be sad and desperate, after all, it has reached this point, but it is a pity to face a breakup for some reason, and you may lose the pursuit of love.

You will feel that the world is too unfair to you, and you will not be able to face the inquiries of your relatives and friends in the future.

I will feel that I am very unlucky, I finally found a girlfriend, and I can't marry myself, and I will be particularly lost and depressed.

I would feel that I was so unfortunate that at such a critical moment, I was released and did not have the face to see my parents.

Heartbroken feelings, feeling that everything is gone, that my heart is empty, and that I have to start everything from scratch.

I will feel that I am really blind, how can I look at such a other half, and I really regret it when I think about it now.

If we propose to break up when we are about to talk about marriage, it must be a particularly devastating experience, because we must know that each of us always has a lot of thoughts in our hearts about a beautiful thing, especially for our own marriage, many people have a longing and expectation to face their own marriage event, because we finally met the right person, and we are about to enter the palace of marriage, which is a particularly happy thing.

When I talked about marriage but proposed to break up, at that moment, I no longer believed in love, and I felt that the whole world seemed to have abandoned me, I was extremely disappointed, speechless, and so painful that I didn't even have the courage to cry. It's a terrible experience.

Generally speaking, it is impossible to break up if you talk about marriage, if you encounter such a situation, then the other party should be very broken, after all, the rest of your life is about to be entrusted to others, and it is very uncomfortable to suddenly hear such a sentence.

It is very depressing to propose a breakup when you are in love, two people have been in love for so long, and in the end, they broke up without entering the palace of marriage, and there will be a kind of pain.

I think it's quite painful, maybe I feel that my previous relationship was wrong, and it's still more painful.

You can ask both parties to calm down, think about whether they are impulsive for a while, and then make a decision, rather than you follow the impulse, which may be regretted for a long time. After all, who can tell the emotional thing?

First of all, we must understand the cause of the incident, ask why he proposed to break up, what he may have to hide, and secondly, if it is true that the other party is not in love, then I can only let go.

It's best to talk to the other person and ask why, and if you do something wrong, you can correct it. If you insist on breaking up, you can only choose to break up.