I don t know how to respond to a 10 year love, so I choose to compromise, is this a compensation for

Even if you have been in love for ten years, if you don't love each other anymore, don't choose to compromise and marry each other because you want to compensate each other, the result of this will not give the other party real compensation, it will only make the married life of two people unbearable, and in the end not only harm each other, but also take advantage of your own happiness. In the end, it is very likely that you will not be able to bear to have to go to divorce, and in the end it will only make two people enemies.

A ten-year love finally broke up, which is indeed a pity, and the parties are estimated to have a lot of reluctance, but even if they are reluctant, if they don't love, they can't bet their future life to get married, otherwise they will hurt not only the two people in love, but also the families and future children of two people. Married life requires the joint efforts and efforts of both parties, and this also includes the feelings between two people, if there is no relationship as a basis, then compromise marriage is an infidelity to marriage. In a marriage without feelings, when faced with all kinds of trivial matters after marriage, you will become impatient, ignore it, and you will not be interested in many things, and life will be like a pool of stagnant water.

There is no happiness reluctantly, the twisted melon is not sweet, when you love, it is true love, and when you don't love, you don't love, don't force yourself to pretend to be in love, no one will praise your compromises, and no one will pay for your compromise, so don't do self-deceptive things, it's better to break off. Life is short, even if you choose to break up, the time spent together in the previous ten years is also an irreplaceable beautiful experience in your life, don't feel too sorry.

Instead of keeping that marriage that exists in name, it is better to be free and ruthless, and maybe in the future, when the other party finds a suitable other Mr Rignt, you will thank you for not compromising and reluctantly being together. Many people choose to settle because of their soft hearts, which ruins the happiness of two people's lives, and in the end they are not going to retreat, but they can only continue to go on and finish their lives in unsatisfactory conditions.

This should also be regarded as a kind of compensation, but this method is not particularly good, and it is irresponsible for yourself.

It should be regarded as a kind of compensation, after all, the other party has already promised the other party, and the other party should also feel very excited in his heart.

If you don't love her anymore, I don't think it's compensation for her, it's another kind of torture, and it's a torture for you.

I don't think so, compromise will only make you unhappy, and it will also make your relationship problematic in the long run.

This is not actually compensation for her, but irresponsible to her, because you don't really love her.