My ex boyfriend got married, but he didn t tell me directly, why?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-10
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Your ex-boyfriend didn't tell you directly about getting married, probably because he hasn't fully accepted the end of the relationship yet, or he's not sure how to face your reaction yet.

    Or, he may be trying to evade responsibility because this kind of news may cause you pain and annoyance.

    Alternatively, he may also think that this kind of message will interfere with your friendship, so he chooses to avoid causing you trouble.

    Whatever the reason, you should do your best to accept the news, take it as part of your growth, look forward, and wish him happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I wonder if you're getting old, huh? He shouldn't want to face you directly, and find a person who he thinks is similar to him and get married, maybe a little angry, but since he is like this, you can only give up on him forever, otherwise you will become the so-called junior, neither want you to know that you are sad, nor do you want you to know that you are happy, so don't say it's the best way''Besides, you think you've broken up, is it necessary for him to tell you??? I'm very careful, give me points, hehe.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You ask yourself first. Isn't it important to tell you otherwise? Does it make sense.

    Asking your ex-girlfriend to his wedding? I've watched too much TV. Tell you what you regret?

    Prove to you that he is loved? If only he told you. What do you think?

    Do you think he's showing off? If you are divided, you should have your own life. There is no obligation to tell you everything.

    And the breakup is still mentioned by you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'm afraid you'll be sad. He should think that he can't give you happiness, wants to tell you to find a good home, and is afraid of hurting you, so he doesn't tell you clearly.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's just a notice, and you don't have to think about it.

    If he really wanted to talk to you, he wouldn't have given up before.

    Whatever the reason is, it's all in the past, and you don't want to be out of the shadows of the past, everyone will encounter this kind of thing.

    Memories are beautiful, but he can be memories after all.

    Forget about the past, maybe someone is waiting for you at the next intersection.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1。。If he told you at the beginning, wouldn't you be sad? He doesn't tell you because he's afraid you'll be sad!!

    3。。Don't give up just because you broke up!! Your boyfriend is right!! If this dream doesn't work, change your dream, there is always someone you can rely on for a lifetime.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There's no need to tell you what, you know what, you don't love him anymore!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It should be from the heart, because it was you who proposed the breakup. There should still be you in the heart of billions.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Probably afraid that you think he's showing off faster than you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Very good, he's afraid you'll get entangled.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't want to break your heart and let you have a good time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    He doesn't want you to know.

    It's all said that you can find a better one.

    It means that there will be no you in his world in the future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Summary. Hello, dear, I'm glad to answer for you Your ex-boyfriend suddenly asked you if there are two possibilities for marriage Oh 1, suddenly remembered you on a whim, because there is no one around him now, so maybe he wants to get back together 2, I'm going to get married, and I want to ask you to eat.

    My ex-boyfriend suddenly asked me if I was married.

    Hello, dear, I'm glad to answer for you Your ex-boyfriend suddenly asked you if there are two possibilities for marriage Oh 1, suddenly remembered you on a whim, because there is no one around him now, so maybe he wants to get back together 2, I'm going to get married, and I want to ask you to eat.

    So, you can ask a side-by-side question, if the breakup was unpleasant, you can say, "How about I got married?" What if you're not married, do you still have anything to do with it now? ”

    He sent it to me with something else, I said it's fast, and he said that it's not a nasty problem for me, and it's not an annoying thing, it's just that there are some things in my own heart, and you can live happily after you get married! What does this mean.

    This sentence means that he doesn't hate or annoy you, but when he was with you, he was confused, so he broke up with you, and you are about to get married now, and you should live happily without me, which is good.

    Explain that the other party originally wanted to get back together with you, but you said that you were going to get married, so the tone was very regretful, but dear, since you broke up before, it means that the other party missed it, so don't feel too sad in your heart.

    Maybe he didn't know if he really liked me, but he didn't find a better one before he remembered me.

    Don't be so pessimistic, maybe he only woke up after the breakup to realize that you were good to him at the beginning, so as to understand that he loves you, but now his identity is different.

    What's the use of that, it's not good to cherish it with him, and if you miss it, you miss it.

    So, as a bride-to-be, don't worry too much about it, what you meet is providence, what you have is lucky, and what you can be with is the best. Since you have separated, it means that the other party and you are not separated, so you should be a passerby, and you don't have to be too harsh on <>

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. First of all, from my years of experience and psychological analysis, your ex-boyfriend has such a practice, which means that he still likes you in his heart, because he knows that you are married and he still wants to see you, then he has feelings for you.

    First of all, from my years of experience and psychological point of view, your ex-boyfriend has such a practice, which shows that the Dou clan likes you because he knows that you are married and he still wants to see you, so he has feelings for you.

    So what do I need to do Ignore him.

    In fact, in the face of such a situation, I think you should not pay attention to him if you guess the bad pants, because after all, you are married, and there is nothing to say after you meet, it will only make your husband misunderstand you, resulting in some emotional conditions in your family, okay I just want to ask him what he thinks In fact, he just got married! Say you want to be friends with me.

    In fact, your ex-boyfriend just wants to find a sense of existence in front of Shan's reputation for you, because if he likes you, then he will not get married, he will always be good to you, but he took the initiative to contact you, indicating that he still has you in his heart, for such a fluctuating boy, after all, you all have your own family now, so it's better not to meet.

    Did you have a good previous relationship with your ex-boyfriend? Compared to your current husband and your ex-boyfriend, which one do you think you prefer?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Summary. My dear, the reason why he says this is because if he doesn't have you in his heart and he has a family now, he can't contact you anymore, so it is irresponsible for his family, and the reason why he takes such a big risk to contact you is that he can't control his heart, and he can't <> it

    I'm also married, and my ex-boyfriend is also married, but we're still in touch, and every time I send him a message, he replies.

    Hello dear, you and your ex-boyfriend are married, but you are still in touch, every time you send him a message, he will reply, which can be seen that he has not let go of you, although, you both have each other's marriage, missing someone is uncontrollable, he does not resist contact with you, it means that he has <>you in his heart

    My dear, the reason why he says this is because if he doesn't have you in his heart and he has a family now, he can't contact you anymore, so it is irresponsible for his family, and the reason why he takes such a big risk to contact you is that he can't control his heart, and he can't <> it

    My dear, I can sense that your heart is also very chaotic right now, so what are you going to do about it? <>

    Sorry I just fell asleep.

    I must have him in my heart.

    It's okay, my dear. It's nice to see you again. <>

    But nothing can be done....Let's not destroy each other.

    Honey, I can feel that you are a very good girl, but how can love be controlled by us, we don't want to hurt each other, but the heart of loving him will not stop, do you know what he is thinking now? <>

    I didn't ask recently, but I asked once last year, and he said that there was me.

    My dear, as long as he has explained to you, then he will always have you in his heart, otherwise he will not always keep in touch with you<>

    Yes. Every time I send a message, I will reply, and if I can't go back, I will tell me what I was doing in front of me.

    My dear, it means that he cares about your thoughts very much, and he is very thoughtful in doing things, so I would like to ask, are you happy in your marriage now? <>

    My dear, you love each other like this, and it will really hurt you to give up. <>

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. Method 1: **Message, not special.

    Applicable to: Keep the ** number and break up peacefully.

    It's simple, there are thousands of routines, it's better to generalize and treat them as ordinary people, which also proves that there is nothing different in your mind.

    Method 2: Change your avatar.

    Suitable for: Exes who interact frequently.

    Regardless of QQ, Weibo or WeChat, if you feel that direct notification will not be easy to say directly, then change the Moments avatar to a groom or bride photo, and you will find that if the other party takes the initiative to ask, you will answer generously, by the way, inform the time and place of marriage, invite politely, simple and direct.

    It is better to change the avatar and then send a circle of friends, which can be a feeling that the relationship between the two is about to be sublimated, or it can be busy chattering on the road of preparing for marriage, such as the bride's makeup trial photos, etc., the most important thing is that after receiving the marriage certificate, it must be sunburned, and you can make public notices and invitations by the way when you harvest blessings.

    Method 4: Pull ** red envelopes.

    Suitable for: The ex is a classmate or colleague who has a common circle.

    No one may pay attention to you when you speak, and the red envelope collar is one to one.

    Actually, I'm not married, but I want my ex-boyfriend to know that I'm married.

    Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you.

    First things first: Are you and your ex-boyfriend in constant contact? If you've been in touch since your breakup, then you can tell him via text message

    How are you doing? Do you have a new life? I already have a new life partner, please bless me, just as I have been blessing you in my heart.

    If the other person does not keep in touch with you after the breakup, it is recommended not to bring up the old things again, let alone tell the other person vividly. - With regard to the past, choosing blessings is what responsibility should be for the new life of the present.

    Method 1: **Message, do not engage in special applicable objects: keep **number, and break up peacefully with the ex.

    It's simple, there are thousands of routines, it's better to generalize and treat them as ordinary people, which also proves that there is nothing different in your mind. Method 2: Change the avatar and apply to:

    Regardless of QQ, Weibo or WeChat, if you feel that direct notification will not be straightforward, then change the avatar of the circle of friends to a photo of the groom or bride, and you will definitely find that if the other party takes the initiative to ask, you will answer generously, by the way, inform the time and place of marriage, invite politely, simple and direct. Method 3: Eligible for Moments:

    Exs who follow each other, but don't talk much. It is better to change the avatar and then send a circle of friends, which can be a feeling that the relationship between the two is about to be sublimated, or it can be busy chattering on the road of preparing for marriage, such as the bride's makeup trial photos, etc., the most important thing is that after receiving the marriage certificate, it must be sunburned, and you can make public notices and invitations by the way when you harvest blessings. Method 4:

    Applicable to the red envelope: The ex is a classmate or colleague and other people who have a common circle, and no one may pay attention to you when they speak, and the red envelope collar is one to one.

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