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First of all, you are a perfect attentionr, and secondly, you are acting like a real insecure. I don't know what your previous life environment was like, but it may be extremely related to this. You have a sense of fear of life as it really is.
Let go of this feeling in your heart. First of all, change from your clothing. It's definitely not going to be comfortable at first.
But slowly you'll get used to it. It doesn't matter. Try to trust the people around you, go out with friends, go hiking, go on outings, have dinners, etc.
Let's change our mindset first
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Everyone has his own room.
Maybe it's because of your family, your living environment, or maybe it's the people or things happening around you that make you ignore the family and friendship around you.
You feel lonely, even if you have a lot of so-called relatives and friends around you, but your soul is lonely.
Your room doesn't have a door to the outside world, just a small window, and you look out of the window, and you see all the ways of society, and you see all the hypocrisy and filth, and in the depths of your soul, you're huddled in the corner of your own room, shivering, not letting anyone else into your world, so you don't feel safe.
Based on this situation, you are much more demanding of yourself than the average person, and you are striving for perfection everywhere, and the pursuit of perfection is not a bad thing, but excessive pursuit will make the process more tedious, and if someone questions your persistence, you will be more demanding of yourself, and others will not be able to change your mind, because you live in your own world.
I don't know exactly what happened in your life or what kind of living environment you grew up in, but since you yourself are trying to change it, it means that you also dislike your current lifestyle, then force yourself! Don't be imperceptible to your inner thoughts, force yourself out of your inner little room, try new things, believe that you must have your own hobbies, but you haven't had time to discover them.
Finding friends who you like has a common language makes it easier to communicate.
You're going to get out there and untie the knot.
ps: Obsessive-compulsive disorder is also a condition Judging from your statement, you have the possibility of obsessive-compulsive disorder If you have the conditions, it is best to find a psychiatrist** They are professional and know how to take you out of your heart knot.
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There's nothing wrong with you living like this, a lot of people live like this, and it's fine;
Actually, I recommend you to check out blood types and horoscopes, but I can also help you look at them:
1. You have perfectionism, isn't it a bit compulsive?
2. There is indeed a lack of security and personal growth environment! Understand for yourself;
3. Still require perfection;
4. This is the reason for the existence of tobacco and alcohol, and the public has this reaction;
5. Dreaming is a human right;
6. The psychological age matures early;
If there is no difference between the ideal and the reality, it is not called the ideal, it is called reality!
Anyone in their 20s is like that
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I think things are in the past, don't think about it anymore, look ahead, think about how you will do it better than now, you have to compare yourself.
Young man, you are still young, these thoughts will be there at your age, it's okay, just look forward.
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A year older than you. I had almost the same experience before. Strive for perfection.
Obsessive-compulsive disorder. Suspicious. Worrying.
Split hairs. Love fantasies. But now it's fine.
This is the case for most young people to some degree. To sum it up in one sentence: think too much about the secondary disasters caused.
Unavoidably. Thinking about meaningless things is so sad and messy. Leads to hesitation, doubt, and anxiety.
Think before you think.
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1.Be conscientious.
2.Be cautious.
3.There is a sense of honor.
4.Introverted. 5.Divergent thinking.
6.Be steady.
To sum up, as long as the luck is not particularly bad, there must be great achievements.
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Seriously, there are a few things that resemble me! It's a bit withdrawn, and he rarely has contact with the people around him, and he rarely even talks! With a bit of inferiority! Well, people, it's easy to live if you're cheerful.
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It seems that you are very boring and a perfectionist, to paraphrase an old saying: the extreme of things must be reversed, and the golden mean is the king! Remember! Be kind to yourself, don't be too tired to live!
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You're about the same as me, but I've learned to change, you're a pessimist, too concerned about every bit of life. You are also an honest person, you have no guts, you should learn from the lively people around you.
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Do you usually have entertainment? Do you have time to stay home or hang out?
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You can still live like this!
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I feel like you're learning more about yourself, but you can't fully accept yourself. Perfectionist people are like that, because everyone around you is imperfect, and so are you. And the people you think you can make deep friends with will also feel that they are flawed after you get in touch with them, so you may not be able to find someone worthy of deep friendship without fighting.
Personal opinion. You just love to think, there's nothing wrong with that, and so am I, so naturally there will be a little more trouble, and there are some things that you don't understand now, but as time goes on, you have more experience and you understand what's going on. The so-called 40 is not confused, and the pure group is 60 ears.
Life is important, you don't have to do what you want, look a little more open in life. If you feel like you have a dual personality, why not use the best of both personalities to make yourself better?
By the way, since you are very interested in yourself, I recommend you to do an MBTI or cartel 16pf analysis, you may belong to the rational person who does silver, compare the results, look at the analysis, I think it will be helpful to understand yourself.
I just feel like you're entj, tj obviously, systems thinking. I'm an intj, and it's nice like you. Work hard, you are very capable.
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Enneagram is a personality analysis technique, which is a category of personality psychology and an analysis of the psychological personality tendencies of healthy people. In psychology, "personality" has a special concept, in fact, it is better to call it the Enneagram. Enneagram analysis is just one of many personality analyses that, despite being popular, are not authoritative ones.
Any kind of personality test is based on the classification of personality types, which is itself controversial, and even if it is supported by a large amount of data, it is qualitative, and it is difficult to judge the quantitative characteristics poorly. The analysis and interpretation of the results of this test is problematic due to omission.
If it is an ordinary popular psychological test, I have to say that this test is still okay, and the results are close to the accuracy of people's understanding, which is still very bluffing.
The only ones that are more commonly used by professionals are 16pf and Minnesota.
Hope you can have the help of Oak Gear.
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You are a person with extremely strong self-esteem, you are generous on the outside but delicate on the inside, you believe in your friends and have the desire to show yourself in front of others, you are too critical of love, you are eager to get an encounter similar to **, but helplessly, you are still in reality.
I don't know if it's right?
You can apprentice and learn what you want to learn on weekends.
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