I was in the same office with a good friend, but I didn t say a word, and my heart was very blocked

This question is a bit tricky, you have to convince him that you are not gay, or it won't help if you don't do anything, so you can take it slow first, get a girlfriend first...And there are a lot of friends, not just one, no matter what happened, let it pass in the past, there is a good saying that "the past can't be chased back, and the back is no longer beautiful"....Everything has fate, no fate, no matter how sweet the melon is, it is not yours, he doesn't treat you as a brother anymore, why do you suffer from it, your distress will only make him believe that you are more....You know, don't dwell on the past and refuse to let go, in fact, after letting go, you will find that the world is still beautiful, and you are still friends...

True friendship is rare, because it is pure and clean, so it is said that life can be a confidant and die without regrets. Sticking a knife in the ribs for a friend is righteous enough, but it is not unprincipled to help others and sacrifice yourself, sometimes you pay too much, others are used to your paying, but think it should be. Therefore, you should help when appropriate, and have a degree in everything.

Things that are often taken too seriously are easy to lose, so you have to face friendship with a natural mentality, and friendship that helps each other is normal and stable. For those who always release your pigeons, it's time to distance yourself and see how they react. Let them know that you have the backbone and your own position.

I was in the same office with a good friend, but I didn't say a word, and my heart was very blocked

Is this how you feel? Or is he acting obviously?

Do you have a girlfriend? If you're alienated because you're gay, then you find a girlfriend, and if not, it's better to talk.

You can find time to have a good chat with him, you don't have to be so humble, and you don't need to say that you can't do without him as a friend, but you should know that friendship should be cherished, and you should let your friend know that if he loses your friend, he will regret it!

I think you should talk about it, boys, be generous, when you eat, drink, or smoke, just talk about it, there's really no need to worry about this little thing!!

The same will be true between boys!

You just have to prove that you're not gay. It's not OK lama!

If you don't have a girlfriend, find one! Or take the initiative to talk to him and talk about some girls! Let him dispel this concern with you!

And you must be sure that he deliberately distanced himself from you because of this!

Or it's self-defeating!

Ignore him, let him love to death, live his own life, and change jobs if he is really unhappy.

There are some things that you don't have to think too much about, the more complicated they are, the more difficult it is to solve the problem, and the more entangled you are in this matter.

There must be a reason why he deliberately distances himself from you, and you should know best. Everyone needs different times and different occasions to do different things, and sometimes they need to calm down and enjoy their own space. Say when you should speak, laugh when you should laugh, and be quiet when you should be quiet.

Don't blindly test the loyalty of your friends, but always stand in the other person's perspective to know, understand, care and tolerate. At the moment, you must calm down, give yourself a space, and give him a space, meet and say hello every day, and then calm down and do something else, after a while, his heart will naturally calm down, and you will have nothing to say. Remember:

In the future, we must grasp the scale and grasp the sense of proportion in everything we do.

You're making people think you're gay-oriented, and people are scared, hehe.

That's right! No matter how good a friend is, there must be a little distance, maybe the man's privacy doesn't want to be revealed, so don't insist on talking about this issue, just like "a gentleman's friendship is as light as water". Such friendships may last longer.

You don't have to be too annoyed, don't think too much, don't push all the discord on yourself, maybe he has something on his mind recently, but he just doesn't want to say, this friend, don't punish yourself like this, don't give up this unexpected relationship, take your time, time will solve everything.

I think he still cares about you very much, otherwise he won't have a cold war with you, as long as you sincerely impress him, you will definitely regain friendship, and you are in the same office, you need to have a good atmosphere. Take the initiative to ask him out for a drink, open the knot, find the crux of his unhappiness, eliminate it, and hope that you will be reconciled, then the feeling will be very happy, and the friendship will be stronger.

It's better to calm down for a while.

No way, there have been too many rotten girls recently, and it is inevitable that there will be rumors, as a normal man, he definitely won't want to misunderstand, so he has to temporarily freeze this friendship. And don't behave too intimately, so that he mistakenly thinks that you are causing trouble for him, and becomes more alienated from you.

The best solution is to politely return the favor to him, and treat him with courtesy, which is also very good.

Don't overthink it, let it go.

Besides, even if it's an office, it doesn't have to be too intimate, right?

The world is so big, why should he look forward and backward because of his attitude alone?

Hope it helps.

Uh, is it that your behavior has made him misunderstand in some ways, such as gay, hehe, or ordinary men are not so careful!