If you re in love, how do you tell your family? Especially if parents don t always tell you about th

Updated on educate 2024-04-07
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Say something like this: Mom, there was a female classmate at school who had a crush on me, and I ignored it, what do you think?

    1.Explain your position It is not a proactive attack.

    2.Show that you have refused to listen to their arrangement.

    3.If they think it's a pity, and you talk about it, they're all happy.

    4.If they think you're doing the right thing, then you're too old in their eyes, so they're talking to someone and then try it again in a few years.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Mommy, I've grown up, I want to be in love, can I, listen to your opinions, (what my mom told me, it definitely works).

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can pretend to be a natural parent chat, intervene when they are happy, look at their eyes, talk your thoughts, let them know how you feel, and your parents will listen carefully and give you advice.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It depends on how old you are.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hehe, you can say whatever you want, because you're your mother's baby!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think that since I have been discovered, I should be honest and discuss.

    Honest attitude, honest attitude is very important, if you fall in love, and deliberately cover it up, it is difficult to convince the other party that you love each other. The attitude of courage to take responsibility, to fall in love is to talk about love, there is nothing unseemly, to admit bravely, and to be willing to take all the responsibility for this, this is a responsible person.

    A serious attitude towards feelings, as long as you show your sincerity, the other party can feel it, and your parents can understand it, to a certain extent, falling in love is your own business, and your parents' opinions can only be used as a reference, not as a substitute for making decisions. Of course, if you are a student and fall in love, it may affect your studies, so if your parents find out, you should also communicate with your parents and tell you what you really think.

    I don't think it's okay, maybe I'll feel a little embarrassed in my heart, try to keep a little distance from the subject. First of all, you must ensure that it will not affect your learning, and even get better, your parents must be afraid that you will affect your learning, so if your learning is not affected, your parents should not be so opposed. The attitude should be frank and honest, and the action should be responsible and responsible.

    So let's talk about it again, that is, when you really face the parents, you must keep your senses in front of the parents and the teacher, and explain clearly: 1You haven't done anything out of the ordinary.

    2.It's normal for young people to fall in love at the beginning, and although parents will say that they can meet better people in the future, at least there is no one who likes each other more than each other now. 3.

    You know that the most important thing now is your studies, and you will never let love delay your studies, and you will not openly ignore me and me at school.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First, when you fall in love, you must take protective measures and be responsible for yourself, at this time your other half can't be responsible for you, because he is not yet capable, and may not even understand what responsibility is.

    Second, if you simply eat together, study together, go to and from school together, walk and talk together, it doesn't matter, don't affect your studies, it's best to promote each other, set common goals, and get admitted to the same university, so that your parents will be impressed.

    Third, how to tell your parents. If your parents are more open-minded, it is better to be honest than to hide, and state your principles separately, so that your studies will not be affected by falling in love, and secondly, tell your parents your common learning goals and future plans. Of course, the premise is that you have discussed these with your other half, if he is a gentleman who does not learn and does not know how to do it, then I advise you to let go as soon as possible, and the loss-making business will not only not make you make money, but may also make you achieve nothing and do nothing.

    High school is the most critical stage of life, which determines your future platform, knowledge and whether you can realize your dreams.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think you should be honest with your parents, because they are the closest people to you and they will understand you. I think the main thing is to reassure your parents and let them know that you two really love each other. If the two of you really love each other, then they will not interfere with you, and you can fall in love freely, but you should be careful that when the two of you are in love, do not affect your studies.

    If the two of you fall in love, it will affect your learning, then your parents may have to object. You have to tell your parents that falling in love with the two of you will not affect your studies, because the two of you are sincere, and the two of you are truly in love, so your parents will understand you and they will not interfere with you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Summary. Kiss When you fall in love, you have to be called a parent, how to tell your parents. You can say something like:

    Dad (Mom), I was close to a female classmate (male classmate) at school because of studying, and the teacher suspected that we were in early love, and I would like to ask you to go to the school to find out the situation! First of all, your parents have a bottom in their hearts, and you didn't say that you are in love, so your parents generally won't say anything about you, only the question is whether you are really in love, and you can adapt to this.

    Kiss When you fall in love, you have to be called a parent, how to tell your parents. You can say something like this: Dad (Mom), I was close to a female classmate (male classmate) at school because of studying, and the teacher suspected that we were in early love, and I would like to ask you to go to school to find out the situation!

    First of all, your parents have a bottom in their hearts, and you didn't say that you regret falling in love, so your parents generally won't say anything about you, but the question is whether you really fall in love, and you can adapt to this.

    Kiss The correct concept of funny love True love must be two people who are attracted to each other, they can feel warmth and peace of mind together, and they are gentle and starlight in each other's eyes. Love should be a fiery expression, not coldly stinging him with all kinds of insincere cruel words, and expecting the other party to understand his mind enough, which really does not exist. No matter how angry you are, keep your emotions in check.

    But I've been called parents before I'm in love, and now I'm going to be called again, what should I do?

    Kiss: What was your parent's attitude towards you before?

    I didn't beat me, I just scolded me and told me a bunch of big truths, but I felt that this time it might not definitely hit me.

    Dear: Are you a girl or a boy?

    Girl. Dear, you're looking for the same boy this time.

    It's not the one before and then this one likes me for more than a year, and Oak then confessed to me that only as early as twice I liked him at that time, and then the two of us were together, and they were together for 28 days, and then the finger finch was discovered, what should I do?

    Kiss You can take the initiative to confess to your parents.

    But I'm scared, they care or filial piety, I am very strict and not very strict, but I don't know what I should say? I was scared because the first time I was called a parent, and the second time I had to be called.

    You can make sure to your parents that it doesn't interfere with your studies and prove it to them.

    But my grades weren't good, and we both enjoyed each other, and we loved each other very much, and we didn't want to tell the difference, and when I was sick, he would remind me to take medicine, and the medicine was too bitter, and he would give me a candy.

    Dear: You can explain to your parents how good he is to you, you like it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is often said that love is a matter of two people, and when it comes to falling in love and talking about each other's longing for the future, they think that they can overcome all difficulties and embark on the palace of marriage, and then plan a happy life after marriage. I believe that most couples will go through such a psychological process, which is a sense of belonging, and it is also a plan for their future. When it comes to you and me, I think that I should tell my parents that I naively thought that my parents would definitely support your planned life.

    At this time, there will be two situations: first, the parents saw that the two young people were indeed a good match, and the family background was still in line with their tastes, so they hit it off and agreed, and then they were all happy. However, in the second case, instead of criticizing your plans, your parents are judging each other's family circumstances.

    Including: the economy, the personality of the other party's parents, and even more, the medical history of the elders who moved out 5 generations ago, saying that after getting married and having a child, they may be like whoever they are, either dumb or demented. Saying that the other party's job can't give you a happy life, and saying bullshit, it can be summed up in three words:

    Disagree. We love to the depths of our love, of course, we don't understand our parents' arrogant reasons, and we still can't resist our parents if we refute and gamble.

    They thought they had come and said, "You have lost the battle of lips and tongues." Young people, if you don't admit defeat, you can't debate, can't elope? Child, have you ever calmed down and thought that what your parents said is really right?

    The union of two people is not only that you are in love, you love him, he loves you, and incidentally, you also love everything in their family, he loves everything in your family even more, and your future children. Have you thought about it? The problem of personality is really a big problem, even if you have a great sense of tolerance, after living for a long time, tolerance will become narrow-minded.

    Over time, you wrap yourself in a ball, and either they tell you to get out, or you yourself roll away with a reunion body.

    One more point, the background of your parents, have you considered it? The slightest mistake in their morality will be the subject of a quarrel in the future. Of course, no one is morally wrong, but once it is broken, both sides will have the right to provoke the other in the future.

    This also warns us that when we fall in love, we must not make our family history too clear, and that irrelevant past events should become private. So, do you think it's still necessary to ask your parents for advice when you fall in love......?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It depends on what kind of personality the parent has and how much affection he has with his or her own object.

    1. If you are not sure about your parents' attitude, it is better to talk secretly. It is not their fault that your parents oppose your college falling in love, after all, they are worried about you because of their different positions. Especially for girls, your parents have worked hard to raise you, and they don't want you to look at the wrong person.

    There are so many scumbags, what if you run into them? If you are sure to hide your parents' love from you, remember that your circle of friends should be shielded, and don't think that your parents will not look at your circle of friends when they are old.

    2. Tentatively ask your parents what they think of their love! You can make ambiguous gestures that will provoke your parents to test you when they ask if they were in love at college. As for how to deal with your parents, everyone is different, and it depends on your eloquence and intelligence.

    If you have a certain attitude, you can talk about what you should talk about, and if you are suitable, you will walk together, don't keep talking about affecting your studies, and if you can't find a partner in the future, you can cry!

    3. My father and mother are open people and have an open attitude towards college students falling in love. Some parents not only don't stop their children from falling in love, but encourage them to talk, especially now that there are so many single dogs. When I was in my junior year, I said that I would look for it, and what should I do if I couldn't find it in the future, a 360-degree change scared me to suspect that I was not my own.

    Obviously, you told me not to be in a hurry, but now you are urging me to find one, and I have 10,000 MMPs in my heart!

    College Romance Matters to Note Items.

    1. Men and women are prohibited from renting houses outdoors.

    Many men and women are too open-minded in their love thinking, and they spend most of their time in rented houses. Due to the lack of self-protection among university students, outdoor renting can easily affect the relationship between the two parties. This in turn affects learning.

    2. Men and women should be single-minded in their relationships.

    When they are in college, they must learn to share happiness with each other, give themselves more space for freedom, and not put love in the first place, let alone engage in ambiguity with many classmates, and as a result, they will hurt themselves and others, and they will pay a heavy price.

    3. College love should also be based on learning.

    If both parties love each other, they should study hard in order to have a better life guarantee in the future, and they should not focus on love. The university period is the best era, and both sides should learn to cherish the feelings between them, work hard to make progress, and make plans for their own future development.

    4. In college love, women must learn to observe words and feelings.

    When you fall in love in college, even if the feelings of two people are too pure, you must guard against scumbags and being deceived. As a result, women lose their concentration in their thoughts, lack the energy to study, and suffer from their physical health. We must resolutely reject unreasonable demands from men.

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