You can only choose between making yourself miserable or not being miserable, which one do you choos

It depends on the specific situation, if the bitter mouth in the face of your good medicine is good for the disease, and the advice is good for the ear and the good for the action, then you might as well let yourself suffer temporarily, and the short-term pain is for the long-term pain.

If we are faced with inhuman setbacks, and pain and non-pain are just our own state of mind, then we should try to maintain the spirit of revolutionary optimism - choose an attitude that is not painful.

This makes yourself miserable and makes yourself not miserable. That must choose not to make yourself miserable. Because people are under a lot of pressure to live, and in the face of such a fiercely competitive society, they just have to live how happy they are.

Otherwise, how boring and stressful it is for you to live in pain every day. So it's better to choose not to make yourself miserable.

Let go and choose your own path of pain, unless you are insane. Normally, they will choose the one that is not painful. Everyone has the heart to pursue a better life. Living in the world, happiness is a day, and happiness is a day.

You can only choose one of the two to make yourself miserable and not to be miserable, you choose that, of course, you choose to make yourself not miserable, happy is also a day, pain is also a day, why not be happy and happy to live every day.

If you are selfish, choose not to make yourself miserable and to make others miserable. If you still have a little conscience, choose to make yourself miserable.

Unfortunately, for a long time, I was in a state of lingering pain.

I always wondered, how on earth could I not be in pain?

I've been thinking this way for so many years, but the pain doesn't seem to have diminished a bit.

When we see others suffering, we will feel that this is a compulsory lesson in life, and when the pain falls on us, we will begin to complain about others, feel that fate is unfair to me, so we desperately resist. On the other hand, they believe that others are not suffering, only the pain they are experiencing, or lament the unfairness of fate.

In fact, the greatest pain in life is to think that you should not have pain.

Oscar Wilde once said, "Many people live, but they never live".

What is Lived? Have you ever tasted the taste of a last meal? Do you remember how you felt when you walked?

You walk on the road, but your soul flies out of the clouds.

You have writing in your hands, but you are thinking about how you are going to entertain yourself at night.

From morning till night, your mind is full of the call of some "successful people": come on, come on, fight for your honor in this world.

You always feel that it's okay, it's still a long time, life can be serious later, and what you have to do now is to survive.

The problem is that most people are using the guise of "survival" to cover up the fact that they have lost their lives.

How long has it been since you felt happy? Maturity doesn't mean you're going to be deprived of happiness, and if you're no longer happy, it's just your heart dead.

You should smile at yourself when you wake up in the morning: life is beautiful!

You should have a good understanding of the details of life, eat a meal wholeheartedly, and watch a movie wholeheartedly.

You should cherish the people around you, whether you are like-minded or not, it is fate to be able to get together.

You should accept the uncertainties that may arise at any time, which life surprises you and without them, your life will be extremely boring.

Live in the moment, feel the weight of your chair, feel the joy of talking to people, feel your struggles when you're in pain.

No matter what mood you feel at the moment, you smile sincerely.

Accept all the pain and stand firmly on the ground.

Let yourself be miserable and let yourself not be miserable, you can only choose 1 of 2, which one you choose is to choose no pain, who wants to suffer, happiness and pain are completely different, no one wants to suffer, that is when there is no way to suffer.

Whoever is blessed and does not like to suffer, who will live in pain, happiness is also a day, pain is also a day, so people will choose not to be miserable, live every day happily, and will not choose to make themselves miserable.

The choice is not painful. No one likes to live a miserable life, and there is a choice, or a happy life.

No one chooses to make themselves miserable. Allowing yourself to suffer without getting anything in exchange is not the choice of a normal person.

Many people will choose not to be miserable, so it is a very good thing to choose not to suffer and live happily.

Surely choose not to be miserable, happiness is the true meaning of life.

Most people will choose to make themselves painless, which is a rational choice for many people.

How good it is for people to live a lifetime and be able to spend every day happily, why should they suffer? It is precisely because you ask too much and cannot be satisfied that you will be miserable, and only by raising your own height will you be less entangled in small things and less painful.

I certainly chose not to be miserable.

There will always be pain in life, and you are not afraid of pain when it comes, overcome it, and you can't choose pain.

Of course, it's to make yourself not miserable, people are selfish!

Like someone's joys, sorrows, and sorrows only you know, but the other person doesn't know anything. If you are jealous, you can only be jealous, and if you are angry, you will only be angry, so you have to bear the sadness by yourself. Then one day I finally made up my mind and decided that I would never like this person again.

What does it feel like to give up someone you've had a crush on for a long time?

1. Finally let go of the other party and let go of yourself.

When you have a crush on someone, you will unconsciously become humble, and the other person's every move can easily affect your heart.

The ups and downs of life are indispensable, and you don't have a choice about this.

I don't understand your question too well, is it short-sighted to get rid of pain? Otherwise, you are still living after you are free from pain, just living a life without pain.

Of all the ways of life, none of them must be held up to death. A good life is like a fish swimming in the water and forgetting about it, and people are happy and self-sufficient without knowing that old age is coming.

If your current life is miserable for you, and it is difficult to get rid of it without changing your state of life, even ascetics may not be able to do it.

Judging from the way you ask questions, you are measuring your life with a closed mind, most likely because of responsibility. I used to be in this state when I was weak and helpless, but now I really sit back and watch the pain and despair of the past. Indulge in the well and complain about the heavens and people, and do not reflect on the well, can you get out?

What about the scenery outside.

When I came out of the well, looked up at the vastness of the universe and looked down at the prosperity of the category, the previous hardships naturally disappeared, and life opened up a new blueprint.

Marriage, family, social role, poor health, bad experiences in the past. These are the wells that many people have suffered all their lives, and they have decided that this well cannot be brought out, and then they will die in pain.

I'll just say a simple analogy, people nowadays love money more, and it's better to use money as a metaphor.

When you get along with your parents, brothers and sisters, it is very painful, but you feel that you are neglecting your family feelings and unfilial piety to your parents when you come out to live freely alone.

Have you ever wondered what your parents and siblings think of you? Maybe it's uncomfortable for them to live with you, but because of the role of the family Hail Minshan, they won't kick you out. Everyone is in pain.

If you are brave enough to take the first step towards living independently, and then as you learn more about your potential and talk about your life skills, your standard of living will improve dramatically. This state is very profitable, and with savings, I will give tens of thousands to my family from time to time. Even when you are not at home, the family appreciates you, values you, pays attention to you, and everyone has their own enjoyment.

You see, isn't everyone happy?

Don't spray ugly words.

There is no pain. I hope there is no pain, however, life will not be smooth sailing, there will be ups and downs, and it will not be so smooth.

Pain is the spice of life.

Knowing that pain means that you are still improving, and a person without pain is equivalent to having no feelings, no change and no ambition, so what's the point of doing it!