Who you ve never seen again?

College roommate, his hometown is in the Northeast, and he returned to his hometown after graduation. And I also returned to my hometown to develop, and it has been five years since I graduated, and I haven't seen him in the middle, and I still miss him when I think about it now.

A friend of mine said he was going on a trip together, but he had a car accident on the way home, and I wish him all the best over there.

Hearing the news of my grandmother's death, it was like five thunderbolts, I was working in the field at that time, and when I rushed home, I was already in the ground, and I didn't even see the last side.

After breaking up with my ex, I left the city and never saw each other again, and I heard that I was very happy.

The boyfriend I made in college went to study abroad, and I slowly lost contact with him, I should have deliberately avoided me, and I haven't seen him again for 10 years.

My boyfriend had a car accident on his way home, and although he was still alive, he kept avoiding me and never saw him again, and I still liked him.

High school classmate, I haven't seen him since the previous class reunion, and he passed away last year at the age of 23.

In my junior year of high school, my grandfather passed away. At that time, I was a boarding student and went home once a week. One weekend at my grandmother's house, my grandfather was fine. Who knew that week would be my last weekend with my grandfather.

Best friend from high school, at the same table for eight months. I haven't seen each other since the last goodbye at the class reunion five years ago. I've been thinking about getting together again, but the time is always not enough to get together!

The aunt at the cheong noodle shop hasn't been seen since I moved to the dormitory.

The reason why I miss her so much is that her family's cheong fun is so delicious that she visits her five days a week.

On the day my father died, I was still in elementary school in another place, and my mother never told me, and when I got home, my mother kept telling me that she was on a business trip.

My best friend told me that he was going to Shanghai, and he didn't come back, and he didn't know what to do there.

You have never said goodbye to many people in your life, but you have seen them for the last time.

This is the most real cruelty of life, cruel to the vast majority of farewells we don't know, cruel to even if we know, we have no way to change and prevent, cruel to our inability to choose who to save the delay and stay, cruelty to such a farewell throughout our lives.

If ignorance in primary school is not worth mentioning, then think about your middle school years, at least more than half of them have not seen each other since graduating from middle school, and at that time it was not even a matter of saying goodbye. Thinking of them now, perhaps the last side of their lives happened thirty-five years ago.

What about universities? It has been 30 years since I graduated from college, and in the past 30 years, less than half of the more than 50 classmates have met each other. Although they didn't say goodbye at the time, if there was no chance, could it be said that those classmates who hadn't seen each other in 30 years had met for the last time 30 years ago?

The subsequent work, the first acquaintance in the job, ordinary or intimate, from the moment they leave that job, becomes the last frame. And the last job of the people who got along for five years, ten years or even longer, after leaving, there are very few people who meet again, and more of those emotions that arise in getting along, once they leave, it is like tea and cold, and there is a high probability that it will be difficult to meet again in this life.

As for the people who can be friends, although every stage of life has never been broken, but now that I think about it, maybe nine out of ten people, or even more, have never broken up, never said goodbye, but suddenly there is no trace and news, and sometimes there is no memory of when the last meeting was.

As for family members, especially today's aging parents, who see each other once or twice a year or once every three or two years, who dares to say that parents will be able to wait until next time? At least among my acquaintances and friends, it is not uncommon to feel the grief of not being able to say goodbye to my parents and see them for the last time.

On one side, it's simple, face to face.

On the one hand, it's very difficult and can't be achieved in a lifetime.

If these people who have never said goodbye but have seen the last face are just people who occasionally meet and intersect in their lives, and they do not have any intersection with themselves, they have no common experience, not to mention that they have feelings in the time they have along, and they have proved and supplemented their past, then they will not achieve anything, and they don't care about missing and losing.

But when we think of Dan Meng, there will always be many more faces and names in our memories than we imagined, as well as the past represented by them.

This is what makes us sad and regretful, and unbelievable.

In fact, who doesn't know why this is the case! It's just that I comfort myself and say that I really didn't mean to, I just feel that there is still a lot of time and opportunity.

But in fact, if you really have it in your heart, it will not be like that until you die. It's just that the further I go in my life, the more I find that one heart can't accommodate so many people.