Why doesn t a guy want others to know that he has a good relationship with a girl?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-12
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think there could be a variety of reasons:

    First, I'm shy, I may like this girl, but I'm afraid that I'll say something to the girl after being known by others, and I'm afraid that the girl will reject him, which is actually the psychology of adolescence.

    Second, personality reasons, some people's personality is that they don't like to publicize some things, they love to be low-key, and they don't want to cause unnecessary misunderstandings.

    Third, she doesn't want to attract the attention of others, (because if more people pay attention to her at the same time, who said that a prospective girl will not be liked or even snatched away by others?) The less people know about something, the better! A person is silently working hard and seeking further development.

    Maybe I'll tell my friends when I succeed.

    Fourth, he may like another girl in his heart and use this girl as a spare tire.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A guy doesn't want others to know that he has a girlfriend because he thinks you are insignificant and treats you as suchSpare tire

    The performance of a guy who uses you as a spare tire:

    1. Don't take you into his circle of friends.

    The person who treats you as a spare tire rarely brings you into his circle, and will not introduce you to his relatives and friends, for fear of having an unclear connection with you, or being relied on by you, even if the relationship has already been confirmed with you. He had a plan in his heart, and he rode a donkey to find a horse.

    He will not give a clear attitude. In the circle of friends, it is always implied that others are still single, for fear of missing out on someone better than you.

    2. Do not give up and be ambiguous with the opposite sex.

    Men with spare tires, like many women who have spare tires, love to find a spare tire to cry every time their relationship is frustrated, and complain to you about how hurt they are emotionally. When you comfort him, he will always show that he is very moved, and even has a tendency to be with you for a while. But after his injuries heal, he will have an affair with many members of the opposite sex, looking for the next target, completely forgetting that you are still silently waiting for him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. Good afternoon, young lady, the teacher can understand your current feelings, because your boyfriend is afraid that others will know that you have lived together, his approach is a little hurtful to you, and makes you feel sad, does he feel a little uncomfortable living with you, in fact, your feelings are very normal.

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    Good afternoon, young lady, the teacher can understand your current feelings, because your boyfriend is afraid that others will know that you have lived together, his approach is a little hurtful to you, and makes you feel sad, does he feel a little uncomfortable living with you, in fact, your feelings are very normal.

    My dear, for this confusion of yours with the teacher's many years of experience to analyze. First, it has something to do with his personality, because everyone's three views are different, and they look at problems from different angles and ways of dealing with problems, so he may feel that it is best not to let too many people know about living together, because this is the privacy between the two of you. Second, when she is willing to let others know that you are his girlfriend, it means that she recognizes you and must like you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe the boy feels that he is not capable enough, and he can't protect the girl, but he wants to become better, and he can protect the girl and then talk to the girl.

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