How to live a more reasonable life? How can we live better?

In my opinion, a reasonable life includes three aspects: first, to allocate one's time reasonably; Second, make your life diverse and fulfilling. Third, we must make our own life regular.

Rational allocation of one's time means that one's time should be allocated to family, lovers, friends and colleagues in an appropriate amount according to the priorities of one's life.

We all have time, but time is not entirely our own. There are a lot of people around us who love and are loved by us, and we should make time for them every day.

Weekdays are busy, but that doesn't stop us from allocating our time to the people around us.

We can have breakfast with our parents in the morning, chat with colleagues and talk about work with our leaders, meet our lovers or friends for a delicious dinner after work, and talk to our parents about our experiences and feelings during the day when we get home, watch TV series with them, and then fall asleep together.

In just one day, we not only gave companionship and comfort to our parents, but also narrowed the relationship with our colleagues, and also enhanced our relationship with our lovers and friends.

I think this kind of time allocation is very reasonable, and it is very scientific, and there is no need to deliberately make a standard.

To make your life diverse and fulfilling is to increase the content of your life, and not just to eat, sleep and work every day.

If you don't work overtime on weeknights, you can make an appointment with your girlfriend to have a cup of coffee and chat, and then go to get a manicure, and buy a pot of flowers to go home to recuperate.

There are even more things that can be arranged during the holidays. For example, you don't need to go every day to learn oil painting, flower arrangement, and pottery, but as long as you have free time, you can know how to spend your time meaningfully.

You can go shopping and buy some favorite items to treat yourself for a long time at work. You can call your lover to exercise together, support each other, and get better together. You can meet three or five friends for dinner, talk about recent trivial matters and joys and sorrows, and the feelings are connected in this way.

You can go for a walk in the park with your parents, knowing that they are getting older day by day, and the time we spend with them is decreasing little by little. So no matter how fulfilling the holiday is, you can't forget your parents.

Filling our lives with regularity means that we have to follow the trail in our lives. For example, what time to wake up, what time to eat, what time to go to work, what time to leave work, what time to go to bed, and so on.

A regular routine can make us healthier and more energetic, and an irregular routine can be done once in a while, but it cannot be persisted for a long time, because it can cause our body to suffer a fatal blow.

In addition, it is more important to eat three meals a day, and a healthy body is the source of all happy life. If you are regular in all aspects of yourself, except for a disorderly diet, it is also not advisable.

The above is my understanding of a reasonable life, only by reasonably allocating our time and energy, and reasonably arranging all the contents of life, can we make our lives happier and more satisfying.

I think what kind of life is reasonable, because it is your own choice, how to live a reasonable life is what you really need to think about.

This question is a bit general, try to answer it.

1. Have a stable job.

Work is both a right and a responsibility. The creativity of work can bring fun, and the value created by work gives people a sense of achievement. The treatment and reward of work can meet the material needs of people.

Self-reliance is the most natural principle of survival and life. There are those who mistakenly regard parasitism, speculation, and theft as a way of life, which is in essence nothing more than an act of exploitation.

2. Live in harmony with others.

Be kind-hearted, compassionate and empathetic to your family and others. It is necessary to establish a relationship of mutual help and solidarity and cooperation. It is necessary to safeguard one's own legitimate interests as well as the legitimate interests of others, to obey the interests of the majority, and not to seek improper interests at the expense of others.

Everything must be done within the constraints of "norms", and actively practice the good habit of being helpful and self-sacrificing.

3. Correctly face all kinds of life encounters.

Life is impermanent. In life, people will encounter various pains such as birth, old age, sickness and death, as well as setbacks, failures, and various disasters. This is not subject to man's subjective will, nor is it something that can be influenced by man's subjective efforts.

Fight for the good, prepare for the bad. See through life and look down on gains and losses. Life will be more calm and calm.

Fourth, contentment is the only way to be happy.

Man is not made to suffer. The only meaning of life is to create joy and happiness. There is no difference between happiness and misery in life itself.

When we feel happy, it is not because we have a lot, but because we are satisfied with what we already have. The same is true of suffering, not because we have too little, but because we want more and are never satisfied.

1.College dorms are like opening a blind box, you don't know what kind of people you're going to be with. This can be seen as a lead training camp before you officially go out into the world. You're going to grow up with several people and learn how to get along quickly when they're immature.

2.Focus on the weaknesses of human nature. Human nature has a lot of weaknesses, and everyone has some.

It's not that someone is bad, but human nature is **. For example, most people will be vain, jealous, and so on. You may have a good family, but if you spend lavishly, others will think you're showing off, even though you've lived that way before.

What seems normal to you may be another in the eyes of others. Again, there are grades and so on, it's all the same. Actually, this is normal.

You need to pay proper attention to the feelings of the people around you so that it doesn't hurt too much.

3.If you do have roommates who are difficult to get along with, don't push yourself. To put it bluntly, everyone happens to live together.

It's fate to be able to get along. But after all, there are differences between people. If they don't deal with each other, that's it.

If you push yourself too hard, you think about it every day, and if you are overly sensitive, you will become more and more uncomfortable. Just jump out and don't take it too seriously.

4.The human heart is a bottomless pit. This is true not only for roommates, but for anyone.

You don't want to be kind to others, and others will treat you just as well. Don't try to be honest with everyone, but stick to the bottom line. Only by having the right expectations for people can you not let yourself be disappointed by expecting too much.

If we want a better life, we must do a good job in our own life planning, and then strive to improve ourselves, and envy ourselves to continue to improve, so that we will have more confidence to realize our ideals and help more people who need to take turns to achieve a better life.

So it's very important to work hard to improve yourself and keep improving, and doing the following things can help us:

1. Go to bed early and get up early, with regular work and rest.

The plan of the day lies in the morning, develop a good habit of going to bed early and getting up early, so that you can have a healthy state, be full of energy every day, full of motivation in work and life, and become a self-disciplined person.

2.Develop a good motivation to learn.

It is also very important to continue to learn new skills, people have been in a comfortable environment, they will lose the motivation to learn, and they can not make better progress for themselves, we only continue to learn and make ourselves more competitive, in order to better adapt to the changes and development of life.

3. Stop complaining meaninglessly.

Whether you're having a good or bad day, whether your work is going well or not, complaining can't change the outcome that has happened. Instead of complaining and filling yourself with negative energy, find a way to divert your attention, ease your broken emotions, set a small goal for yourself, and give yourself the motivation to change, so that the days will be better.

4. Overcome the difficulties of life.

The alarm clock goes off, you want to sleep for another 5 minutes, these scenes are not very familiar, this is a bad habit of procrastination, it can make you make excuses for your laziness every time, overcome procrastination, improve your efficiency, is a very important step to improve yourself.

5. Learn to reflect and summarize.

Only by knowing how to introspect can you discover the strengths and weaknesses of your personality faster, do something good, and encourage yourself; If there are deficiencies in the work, correct them appropriately, so that you can make progress every day.

Yesterday I looked through this book "I Decided to Live a Simple Life" from the bookshelf, a book by Sasaki of Japan, which I saw on a reading app and bought it back because I thought it was good.

Before reading this book, I didn't think that life could be like this.

The main thing in the book is about the detached, minimalist lifestyle, reducing the excessive dependence on objects or materials, and giving more time and energy to optimize oneself, make a better self, and do more meaningful things.

Break off), resist the urge to buy things you don't need, and throw away things immediately after thinking about losing them five times.

Shedding), removing the superfluous things in life.

Get rid of the attachment to things and focus on your own needs. It's okay to go shopping less ** and read more books.

Returning to the original heart, breaking off is to serve the final departure, and in the end, it is necessary to return to the peace of mind.

Steve Jobs once said, "Your time is limited, please don't live for others." "Again, your time is limited, please don't live for clutter.

Less is happiness. The fewer things you have around, the happier your life will be. Because we no longer need things to fill our lives.

Realize life itself. How to live rightSometimes, we don't know what we're up to, as if it's all about living, for the simplest way to live. Sometimes, unintentionally, we emit some fragrance like a flower and infect others, which we cannot predict and do not need to deliberately pursue.

The fragrance may remain in someone else's heart forever, or it may not be at all, so we don't have to be happy or sad about something. Casualness is the best, this is the true nature of life. The pressure is not that someone is working harder than you, but that those who are several times stronger than you are still working harder than you!

A simple life makes people easy and happy, and simple desires make people peaceful and serene. Because of simplicity, I deeply understand the lightness of life, light as a flying flower, as light as a falling glow, as light as rain; Because of simplicity, I can understand the tranquility of the soul, as quiet as the night sky, as quiet as a valley, and as quiet as a stream. The simplicity of everything contains the truth of indifference and tranquility.

Life is so simple, family, love, friendship are woven together to form a picture of happiness.

Recognize that every day is important, and live every day as an important day to create a virtuous circle of interpersonal communication.

Leave a little space for yourself every day, keep this time simple, free and pure, and recharge yourself regularly to recharge your energy.

Clean things up frequently, keep the space tidy, and don't let the cluttered space disturb your thoughts and emotions.

In fact, there will be a time in life when you are very tired, at this time, don't think about so many troubles, think more about a better future!

It is very important for people to live in the world and be happy, but don't base your happiness on the pain of others!

In fact, life is struggle and harvest, life is short, life should have a suitable goal, people always have to be a little spiritual, no matter what they do, they always have to make a difference. Life should be colorful. It should be:

Constant searching, constant pursuit, continuous struggle, although there is sweat on the way forward, there may be tears, but there will be happiness and enjoyment in success.

Time will make you mature. Self-confidence is important for a person, appropriate and correct choices are needed, and endurance for the process is necessary. Self-psychological adjustment must be frequent, and the struggle for success requires unremitting efforts. Happiness and joy are gained in constant success.