Why is my boyfriend so timid, and what should I do if my boyfriend is timid and cowardly?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-25
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Exercise and exercise will be bold! In addition, you can't just say that a man is timid, as long as you need protection, he will appear by your side at any time, he is a real man who stands up to the sky!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Do you think this is important? If audacity is your number one criterion for choosing a mate, then trust me, you'll regret it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Some people can't stand that heavy thing, I just, I am unconscious after sitting, super uncomfortable, super uncomfortable, heart problems, nothing to do with timidity, I personally think.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Each person has his own characteristics, and since he loves him, he understands him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Everyone has their own hobbies, don't force each other, just love each other!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think you and Ben deserve to be with her! How can I find a good man like this now?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Everyone has their own hobbies, so why do you have to want others to be like you?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Isn't it nice for him to accompany you and watch you play?

    Why do you have to play with him?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's nice to be a guy who likes to be quiet

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Everyone doesn't look at appearances.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Being in the midst of blessings does not know blessings.

    Agree to the ground floor.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It is advisable to break up decisively. You have different outlooks on life and values, you are self-motivated, dare to fight, resilient, yearn for a better life, and yearn for a bigger city. Your boyfriend is content with the status quo, afraid of pressure, and willing to live the same life, such a guy means that his character is not decisive enough and even a little indecisive.

    The most important thing is that there is little guts and ambition.

    What he wants is a hot kang for his wife and children, working from 9 to 5, three meals a day, and raising his children. If that's what you're looking for......

    Obviously you are not, you have more ambitious goals, you are eager to put down roots in the big city, and try to move towards your goals, there are always companions in the road of life, and you can come and go in a hurry.

    You are excellent, kind, beautiful, self-motivated, self-confident ......He deserves better.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This is his nature, don't try to change, because you can't change it at all, but there are two sides to everything, cowardice and cowardice are likely to be kind, and if you don't match yourself, make a decision early.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1. Enhance self-confidence. Men are most afraid of not having self-confidence, they should keep telling themselves that they are okay, do more things that they are good at, and the better they do, the more positive encouragement they will have, and they will also be praised by others, thereby increasing their self-confidence.

    2. Exercise. A man should have a strong physique. Usually exercise more, it is best to practice a confrontational exercise, such as fighting, taekwondo, etc., when the body is strong, the natural courage will be greater.

    3. Read more books to increase knowledge. Only by being rational can we have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and only when we encounter things can we know how to do the right thing.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You don't have to worry too much about this, as long as the two of you get along well together, he is not the kind of stingy boy, it's okay, don't care too much about him, you just need to be yourself, don't rely on him too much, you have your own work and life. Usually give the two of you a little more space, don't stick together all day, this will also affect your relationship.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Generally speaking, a man is a manly image who stands up to the sky, and he can hold up a piece of heaven for his woman. Although women are no worse than men now, men are stronger than women after all, so men should be brave and strong. It's just that people's personalities are different, some men not only don't have the courage that men should have, but they are not even as good as a girl, they are timid and afraid of things, and they have a cowardly personality.

    What should you do if your boyfriend is like this? If you don't want to break up right away, how can you change it? Come on, dear women, if your boyfriend is cowardly and timid, you can try the following points, which may change your boyfriend's cowardly and timid personality!

    How it works: Give your boyfriend a chance to be brave.

    The boyfriend is cowardly and timid, which really needs the girl to worry more about herself, if you look down on him or show a very disappointed posture at this time, it can only make him feel inferior, and he will be more cowardly and timid at that time. Look down on him in tone, it's better to find a chance to make him brave, and let him burst out with the kind of bravery that belongs to his own man with your encouragement. Of course, don't encourage him to fight, but take it gradually, such as letting him learn to bargain with others and start "education", or complaining to him about grievances and asking him to "be brave for you" once.

    Summing up the "categories" of his cowardice

    Men are cowardly and timid, and some men's timidity is reflected in not daring to argue with others, obviously it is the fault of others, but they are wronged by others, and they are bullied by others pointing at their noses, and they don't dare to say a word. Some men's cowardice and timidity are manifested in the fear of those small animals, small insects, etc., and there is also a type of men's cowardice and timidity, which is manifested in the lack of responsibility for girlfriends, or the lack of ambition for things and life. You have to observe and understand all this, and then find a way to "educate" him.

    Give him more encouragement on weekdays.

    Some men's cowardice and timidity are manifested in not daring to argue with others, even if they and their girlfriends are bullied by others, they are also a cowardly and cowardly posture, and they would rather watch their girlfriends and themselves being bullied by others than dare to say more than half a word. Then you have to give more encouragement on weekdays, so that he can learn to change himself slowly, so that over time, his cowardice and timidity will change a lot.

    Give him a little bit of hard stuff every day.

    This should be based on your boyfriend's cowardly and timid aspects, for example, some men are afraid of the dark and dare not go out once it is dark, and they are even more timid than a delicate little girl. Then you can call your boyfriend every day when it gets dark, so that he can come and pick you up quickly, for example, if you are very cold, you are very scared, or there are dangerous people and things around you, so that even if your boyfriend is afraid, he will be brave to come to you. If he does this too many times, he will inevitably change his timid character.

    Let him understand that you like brave men.

    You don't have to express this directly, but in a subtle way, or with some suggestive language, so that your boyfriend knows that you appreciate him very much.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It is very difficult to change the character of a person.

    However, this kind of thing, for young people, is very normal to be pitted.

    The difference is that some people are brave enough to resist, and some people have to struggle for a long time before they know how to protect themselves.

    The problem of the weak is often to give in to the powerful and to be harsh on the power to protect themselves.

    But from another point of view, there are also women who have strong personalities. There are also configurations where women are strong and men are weak.

    Combined with your own self-positioning, consider whether you can accept him, and then make a choice that is more suitable for you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Speak more to communicate with others, and have the courage to refuse what you don't want to do. You go out with him and let him speak, buy something and place an order or something for him to come, you don't take the initiative too much.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is his character, and it's hard to change, so let it be. Otherwise, let's change it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Summary. Dear, the teacher thinks that after a girl has a boyfriend, her courage becomes smaller, in fact, it is not the real courage that becomes smaller, the teacher analyzes, on the one hand, I think that after having a boyfriend, I only focus on my boyfriend, and I don't want to do anything else, I just want to stick to my boyfriend for a day. On the other hand, after a girl has a boyfriend, she doesn't want to do something anymore, worrying that some of her actions or behaviors will make her boyfriend jealous and angry.

    So I feel that after having a boyfriend, I have become less courageous.

    Dear, the teacher thinks that after a girl has a boyfriend, her courage becomes smaller, in fact, it is not the real courage that becomes smaller, the teacher analyzes, on the one hand, I think that after having a boyfriend, I only focus on my boyfriend, and I don't want to do anything else, I just want to stick to my boyfriend for a day. On the other hand, after a girl has a boyfriend, she doesn't want to do something anymore, worrying that some of her actions or behaviors will make her boyfriend jealous and angry. So I feel that after having a boyfriend, I have become less courageous.

    My dear, look at your question, is it that any friend around you feels like a different person than before after falling in love? Don't dare to go out anymore? Won't you have too many jokes with other friends?

    You can talk to the teacher more and let the teacher know more about it, so that he can better help you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't think like this, that's because he cares about you too much, if he confesses before he doesn't know if you have feelings for her, you don't think you mean that the two of them will not be very embarrassed to meet in the future, so that they don't even have friends, I confessed to the girl I like very much a few days ago, and it turned out to be this, and now I regret that it is better to be friends, at least we can go out together.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If he faces a girl, it means that he loves that girl very much, and if he is timid in daily life, he may be knowledgeable!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Say; It's not that men are timid, it's that men are lustful.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Not all men are timid, but many are brave.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Are you a woman?

    If it's a woman. Men are not timid. He's afraid of hurting you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Not every boy is timid.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    As a girl, you may be very timid, which is also very normalIf your boyfriend is also very timid, that's a very cute feeling.

    We should also know that the personalities of all kinds of people we meet in life, whether in study or work, are not exactly the same, so it's normal to meet one or two timid boys in such a big world. Speaking of a timid boy, I think of my classmates, once I went to a haunted house with him on Halloween, since it is a haunted house, there must be a lot of staff pretending to be ghosts, to scare us. Because I usually know that he is a very timid boy in my daily relationship, so we haven't established a relationship at that time, but we just have a good impression of each other, so we went together, at first he swore that I was not afraid of me and I was naïve, thinking that he was really with me and would not show that he was so afraid of the timid character, but when you went to me, I found that he was lying to me at all, he kept holding my hand, and desperately screaming for help. Help, seeing him like this, I really want to laugh and I'm embarrassed to laugh** I have seen a boy so timid,So I kept him quiet that night. Seriously, it was a really weird night.

    Even if I'm with him now, I often talk about Halloween day, and his performance at night is actually a very memorable night for me, because the first time I saw a boy scared like that, he had to hold a girl's hand all the time, so I thought he was very cute and very funnyBecause I'm really the only boy who's seen him so timid, and it's still my boyfriend.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I'm helpless, I really want to change my boyfriend.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You have to protect him, I feel that the girl paper will be insecure.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Sister Yu prefers that kind of boyfriend.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Don't dare to watch ghost movies, don't dare to go to haunted houses, don't dare to go to wandering, and be content with the present.

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