How can I save our relationship?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-09
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    How can I save our relationship?”

    That. 1. Perhaps, your guess is right: "After all, the misunderstanding of this matter is solved and it will be fine, why do you want to break up with me?"

    Is there another reason for her? "If so, would you still love her? In fact, most of the men and women who have this will break the thread.

    Are you okay with that? This is what you have to think about and what you have to choose.

    That. 2. If you are sure that she is okay with others, or that she can continue to love her deeply even if something may be wrong, then you should try to correct your shortcomings: first, you speak without thinking and do not pay attention to the way you express yourself; second, she likes to ask her more sensitive questions; The third is that love easily jumps conclusions about her performance.

    IMHO, these three points are indeed shortcomings that should not be underestimated. For example: "You didn't tell me something clearly", "What the hell is going on?"

    Your ......"Wait, if you use this kind of commanding, suspicious, censorship, reproach, and contemptuous tone to speak to people, not to mention that the person concerned can't listen to it, even if others listen to it, it's not comfortable.

    That. 3. Strive to create conditions for living together. Not only do you have to be magnanimous to her, but you also have to be more considerate and try to live together. After all, you have an emotional foundation, as long as you are sincere, she should not abandon you.

    Of course, the feelings are both sides. If you are sincere and she still turns a blind eye to you, or regards you as a passerby, then she is determined to choose another high branch, then you can only "get along and disperse" with her. However, there must be a process for her to love you again, and it is impossible to see the results immediately, so you have to be a little patient.

    I wish a lover a family member and a happy life!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If she loves you and is reluctant to really break up with you, it is also possible to say that the breakup is angry, if it is not angry, it means that she does not love you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Actually, it's a very simple thing, buddy, she's changed her mind, you better give up!

    There will not be such serious consequences just for such a thing, the only explanation is that she changed her mind and wanted to break up, and you just gave an interface to mourn for you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You tell him that I come to ask you because I believe in you, if I believe in others, I won't ask you, I don't want to be separated from you, if time goes backwards, I will still ask It's just that I won't ask like before, don't give up on me if you love me, believe that I didn't doubt you, and said that because I was too shocked at the time, I said the wrong thing. You persuade her first, don't keep forgiving anything, say something else or better, and she will explain to you that she still cares about you, take your time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    She's just playing tricks.,She still likes you.,You have to explain it to her.。。。

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I can understand your girlfriend's feelings, in fact, what she is angry about is only your distrust, and feelings need to be trusted.

    You have to coax her more, you can see that she actually loves you, she is just angry, you have to believe her, if you still want to be with her. Promise her that you won't suspect her, that you will ask that because you are jealous, and you have to learn to put down your face, so that it will be better.

    In fact, you said that the way you got sick was very good, but the expression was not in place, she hung the ** because of her face, women at this time are very fragile, as long as you coax well, say: "It's my fault, I'm sorry, don't be angry anymore" and so on, that is, to be coquettish to her, women can't stand this trick the most. She ignores you mostly because of the woman's reserve, as well as her so-called persistence, or the instigation of some friends around her, which is nothing.

    Hope it will be useful to you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't ask for this, it's unreliable.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Do you forgive her? Why don't you turn your head when you say this kind of thing, it's you who doubt her, it's her who is angry, it should be her forgive you, she didn't do anything wrong, for you who are seriously suspicious, I'm really speechless, it's no wonder you were hung up when you said that.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think what you said is wrong, anyone would ask about this kind of thing. Brother, I'm just like you. Also because of such things. Then she told me not to talk about her in the future. Hey, it's so sad.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1. Communication, if you really want to save a relationship, the best way is to communicate. Be sure to know what the other party's attitude is. It's best for two people to talk and understand each other's thoughts. If the other person always ignores them, then there is no need to continue.

    2. Speak with facts, everything must be spoken with facts, and put the facts in front of you. Give yourself a fresh life. Face your own heart, don't deceive yourself, and solve problems with the most sincere attitude.

    If the other party still cares about you and still has love in your heart, then happy days can come again.

    3. Don't forcibly redeem it, in the face of your separation, don't forcibly redeem it, that is meaningless, if you insist on doing this, then I can only say that you can only drift apart from each other, and some people chatter, and even cry and ask each other why, why they separated. In fact, do you think that your question will get a real answer? This will put more pressure and disgust on the other party, and this attitude will also give you a heavy blow to your soul!

    Give up and redeem", then the other party will feel that you are not a threat, and at the same time, it can also make the other party form a mental gap, if you cooperate with the self-improvement of the second attraction, then it will also make the other party regain curiosity and interest in you.

    4. Take care of yourself, regain your happiness, do anything that can make you face life positively, you can get a hairstyle, learn yoga, or travel. When you're feeling frustrated, doing what excites you as quickly as you can is amazing, and it attracts a lot of people when you're having fun all the time.

    5. Accept the past calmly, we must admit that no one is perfect, but the bad thing is that although we recognize that this is normal, we never try to accept and change. In fact, the only thing that doesn't change is change. If we want to improve our relationship with our ex, why not try to change ourselves and try to be better?

    Setting goals for ourselves and working on them until they are completed will not only build self-confidence but also let your ex know that you are changing your shortcomings. Action is 10 times more powerful than words. Your actions will make your ex fall madly in love with you.

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