The family is ordinary, the qualifications are the qualifications, the ability is mediocre, how can

No one, including God, can make you mediocre except yourself. Once you realize that you can't be satisfied with the status quo, you have to set a goal for yourself. First of all, choose your career, I don't think you will be a network administrator for the rest of your life, so for the future, you can learn some other skills while working, or you can directly find a career you like.

First, you should not care too much about the amount of your current salary, which is only a little material basis for your struggle. Every day, ask yourself if you are getting closer to your goal. It doesn't matter if you earn less for the time being, you should accumulate more things that are conducive to your long-term development.

Secondly, it is important to find a few like-minded friends, communicate frequently, learn from each other, learn from each other's strengths, and be mentors and friends. Finally, we must have perseverance, the road of struggle is always tortuous and long, and we must believe that quantitative change will bring qualitative change sooner or later. Good luck soon.

Make more friends with people with lofty ideals. Strive to improve your own quality, do a good job of accumulation, one day you will become an excellent person, you will become a successful person, long-term vision. Don't be lazy online, go for it.

God helps those who help themselves. If you don't work hard yourself, you're really going to be like this for the rest of your life.

Because you are mediocre in everything, you can only be a mediocre person. People who are unfair are because they have something to stand out.

Do you want to wait for pie to fall from the sky? Do you think you can wait? Or wait until a rich man marries you?? If that's what you think, then just wait.

In fact, it is good that you can realize that you are in a good situation, which shows that you are a little conscious. You can find yourself a goal, even if it is "100,000 yuan in five years". Then think about your goal every day, think about how you can achieve it, and give yourself a task. You should play online games.

If you're bold, quit your job right now and push yourself to nothing, so you will have a desperate need.

In this way, you take a week to think about what you like to do, or what you do is more promising, how long it will take to achieve, three years or five years, and then make a decision, you need to know that you still have a college degree, which means that you are not stupid than others, but you lack a stage.

You're restless buddy, calm and calm.

Society is complex, complex and annoying. You don't have to care so much, it's necessary to go with the flow, and of course you should have some plans for yourself, no, you can't be depressed all the time.

Don't be sad, it's not good for secretion, and it's useless to talk about it. Live well, and work hard according to your plan.

You are like me now, everything is very chaotic, I don't know what I want to do, what I can do, but I think all this is an excuse for myself, set a goal, let's work together, don't think about it, choose a career and work hard.

Choose the major you are interested in and take the undergraduate entrance examination, it will allow you to slowly regain your self-confidence and direction forward.

I am also a post-80s generation, I also have the same mood as you, there are many successful people around me, including my family members are very encouraging me, to be an inspirational youth, or always full of fantasy everything needs action and requires your efforts!

Virtue and self-improvement are wise moves to surpass oneself and surpass others.

May all of us born in the 80s who are still on the road and have reached the end of the line work together!

I think it's not your fault that you're ordinary.

But it's a terrible thing to have no purpose in life.

If you have a goal, you will become confident, and then your charm will unconsciously exude.

It's your mentality that hurts you!

I'm worse than you, it's good to live one day at a time! Don't think too much, the more you think about it, the more annoyed you get!

It's still very promising to learn more about computers.

Life、Don't be afraid、

Fear will only make you lose your bearings

Now you should calm down and think through calmly.

Don't be in a hurry

Age, education, and status are the same as mine.

I'm also worried about the future now.

It's okay in society now, it's so hard to go on your own.

See if you dare to go out, it's easy to get infertile in an Internet café every day.

There's a fart tomorrow You're going to it like this The most despised person who gives up on himself.

There is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of those who have a heart. As long as you are willing to work hard, you can learn anything, but it is best to choose what you like.

There are good things to learn in life, and it mainly depends on what you learn.

The question is what do you like and are you willing to grow? And how far do you want to grow?

Most people are mediocre in appearance and mediocre in qualifications, what do you mean by this? Then you don't want to learn things, right?

What are your strengths? Interest?

You need to make the most of your free time after work.

Resign, but don't resign. If you have a dream, you have to chase it while you're young, no goal is not long-lasting, it has nothing to do with your education level, thinking is painful, and some setbacks are better to experience early than later.

Rhetoric, emotional intelligence is very important now.

Such people are everywhere....Because the more ordinary people are, the easier it is to chase! It's often too beautiful but no one dares to chase it, right? Don't think too much, it is estimated that the quality of those who chase her should not be good...No matter how bad it is, she is a veteran of the love field....If you have a set, you can't help it....

She naturally has things that attract others, such as being helpful, having good living habits, etc., but you just don't notice it.

Because she is ordinary, unlike other people, she comes out of society to seduce others.

Because others think she is easy to chase.

A lot of people chasing may just be shown by her, which is not true

I'm just a mediocre-looking boy, but happiness hasn't come yet.

As long as the feelings are there, plus there is fate, the appearance does not have much to do with it.

No, everyone has the right to be happy depending on what you think.

It may be that the more girls like this, the happiest in the end.

Nonsense! Have you seen "Jane Eyre"? Happiness is the feeling of the heart, as long as your heart is full of love, you can feel joy and happiness at any time.

I'm 26 years old and I'm not in a hurry, you just have to wait for online shopping.

Plain is true, happiness is not spoken.

Who said, does happiness have anything to do with appearance, you call it inferiority, beauty.

Don't be pessimistic, only work hard, and happiness is in your own hands.

Dear Going with the flow is best.

On the one hand, improve your own ability.

On the other hand, it is necessary to collect information in various ways and find a work unit that is more suitable for you and has better conditions.

It's really not your problem to find a job now、Self-employed is not ashamed at all! Your mother raised you because of that! How can you feel shameless!

You can make your mom's shop better!! You're a college graduate, so you're sure to have a good idea!!

Well、、Or you try to find a job、、Anyway, the store is your mother's, you can quit at any time、Sweaty、Actually, you boys can go outside、Ask your classmates and friends。

After reading the answer upstairs, I will also say two words, First, your parents love you, and there is no doubt about this. His worries and verbose are the manifestations of love for you, but young people are very annoyed by these (I also think that my parents love to talk about me, although now I am also a father), but we should put a correct attitude to look at this problem, parents' concern is one thing, how do I do it is another thing, I have my own thoughts and ideals, their care and concern should not be an obstacle for us, the popular point is: he said his, I do mine!

Don't tell me anything, if they don't agree, they can't do anything, you're not young, you're twenty-three years old, it's time to have your own ideas and practices. Second, what is your main contradiction now? It's a matter of staying or going, staying:

The development space at home (small county) is too narrow, and your parents put too much pressure on you, making you infinitely troubled. Go: You don't want to leave this place that annoys you!

Third, according to the university information you provided, you did very well in college, so I suggest that you leave this small county town and go to a larger place to work on your own, and you don't have to go too far, like a provincial town, go out, leave this place that annoys you, and create your own new life, staying there will only make you feel infinitely depressed. Let's leave, the outside world is the world of our young people, but! Remember to go home often.

I've said a lot, but I'll say a few words: your path and your character are all paved for you by your parents, although it's easy to walk, it's too calm.

In this case, why not pave a way for yourself, leave your parents and train yourself, from which you can learn a lot, and I believe that when you come back, you will be able to fully understand your parents' intentions.

In fact, I envy you, at least I have freedom, I can fight hard, but I don't, my family forced me to get married early, I really wanted to run away from home, I died of pain, I was just 20 years old, I really didn't dare to resist them, I was afraid of my father, just like you were afraid of your mother. For half a year, they have been silent and don't laugh, they don't understand what I mean, why don't our parents ask our opinions when they want us to do something? Didn't communicate with us well at all.

Actually, I think I still have to resist, because this is the most important thing in life, I can't accommodate my parents for a lifetime, it's brewing, it's annoying! We should resist what we should resist. Come on!

As long as you let everyone see your abilities, it doesn't matter if you went to college or not. You now pretend that you didn't go to college and do your current job. With the results, everyone is naturally impressed.

I am a human resources company, and the people in our company like to be handsome and educated, but when I don't see people, I like to say that the former is capable and practical.

No matter how high the education is, stepping into the society is a blank slate, and no matter how beautiful the face is, it is not capable of being just a beautiful vase.

I recruit people in order, character, ability, experience, education.

It is recommended that if you work part-time, if you don't have the financial ability at home, then work to make money, and then make up a little gift for yourself, and go to travel below, you will find that it is different, at least not the same as now.

Try to do what you can do at the moment, it's still early to be young, it's just a grind now.

You are like most people, you don't have any special talents but are not willing to be ordinary, I think everyone has their own meaning, the best way is to work hard to improve yourself, do your best, don't be changed by the outside world, live in the moment, everyone can live wonderful, come on!

If you want to have a chance of success, first of all, let yourself despair, despair will bring two situations to yourself, the first is to break out, to burst out with unprecedented perseverance, and the second is that you should know that the consequences are also very serious.

If a girl marries a rich man, she will end her life.

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