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The bystanders are clear, the authorities are confused, what will win as long as you insist, even if it is a lie, if you don't wait for "it's gold and always have a shining heart" and think more about the life you want, then separate, I believe that you have planned everything you want to do and want to do, and he will let himself be independent, your departure may be a good thing for him, because then he will know more, share the priorities, understand that only dreams can not survive, and at the same time believe" If this relationship has a long time, especially in the morning and twilight, "you will not be separated regardless of the ends of the earth, when the time comes, you will all achieve something, together, is not better, I wish you ,,, realize your ideals as soon as possible."
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I think he must be very anxious, as a man, spending women's money to realize his ideas, maybe he has already hesitated in his heart whether his ideal is right or wrong, his heart must be very entangled, and he will be anxious for your future, but after all, he is willing to stay for you, when a man needs encouragement, women support him, fail, comfort him, he will always want to understand what reality can allow for life, how to give his girlfriend a life, he knows that you are tired.
Maybe you can talk about it once, you ask him to think carefully about the reality he is pursuing, if he still insists, you can maintain the status quo, you can tell him that you will support him, a man needs motivation, he will work harder, succeed the best, fail, and will know how to give you the most realistic future.
So, it's better to wait, not just to wait, but to support.
If you think you can't persevere, also say what he thinks, don't just give up, give up before you work hard, you may lose what you can have. Think about it.
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First of all, it is certain that he still loves you very much, when you were a junior college and he was an undergraduate, he did not give up on you, and later, he stayed in your city. With love, you can resist a lot of things, two people have been together for a long time, the deeper the love is, you can't forget him, believe me.
What I want to ask is, are you sure he must have no future in doing that? He was also against what you were going to do, but now you are fine, if he is a person with pursuits, it means that he can still be saved, however, I don't know much, you can talk to him well, how does he want his career, in short, he loves you, and it is not good to break up.
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To break up or not to break up, there is only one condition "reality", see the reality clearly... To divide or not to divide.
Divide it! If, as you said, your boyfriend is not self-motivated, then as the gap between you grows bigger and bigger, he will become more and more inferior, and the final result will be unhappy, and the man's inferiority complex is very terrible!
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Hehe must break up, I think you shouldn't like him either, you just think he's good to you, so you will stay by his side, you are compassionate, but you won't be happy if you marry him.
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Look at your boyfriend's personality, if you're more stubborn and conservative, don't say it or say no, otherwise it's okay to be honest, I think you don't want to hide his feelings.