Why do you struggle to get along with your parents the older you get?

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

Because I gradually changed from being a caregiver to a caregiver, and at the same time, I had to juggle my work and my own small family. However, after becoming a parent, you will find that the tiredness of being a child is always less than the tiredness of being a parent. When you think about it this way, your heart is balanced.

Because when we were kids, we used to listen to our parents, basically what they said and what we did, but now that we're older, we have our own independent thoughts, so listening to our parents can be very annoying.

Maybe it's because our minds are becoming more and more independent.

When children grow up and have their own opinions, and if they don't depend on their parents for everything, there will be disagreements.

Why be parent-centered. What to do with your parents.

Mainly because parents always make "irrelevant responses".

"Irrelevant response" is a psychological concept that refers to not getting the response you expect when you have a conversation.

The child confides in you, but you deny his pain; The child shares happiness, and the leaky orange talks about you, but you can't see him idle; Children want to be comforted, but you are always used to preaching...If you often get a no-return response from your parents, you will have a huge sense of nothingness and will not be able to confirm your existence. Over time, existential anxiety arises—a painful emotional experience that arises when an individual perceives a threat to his or her own state of existence and the value of his or her existence.

If communicating with our parents always produces psychological discomfort, it is only natural that we lose our desire to share with our parents out of our survival instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.