Why is it that it is harder to open up as people grow older?

Maybe when people grow up, they think more specially. When I was young, I was carefree every day. Do nothing without thinking about the consequences.

But when you grow up, you have a heavy responsibility, and you start to look ahead and backward in doing things, so it's hard to open up, because you have your own concerns, even if you open up and tell others, others may not be able to help you, so it's better not to say it.

I can't open my heart to others now, and when I contact people, it's more about the transaction of interests, and when I interact with people in the company, I will pay attention to my words, because you don't know everyone's heart, don't know who the other party is, maybe you will offend the other party if you say something wrong, maybe you will sue the leader and give you a small report.

So I treated everyone with a mask of hypocrisy, and now I am getting more and more tired of living, and I have never opened my heart to others.

Because there are so many secrets in my heart. I have experienced more things, seen more human nature, and learned how to protect myself, so that if I don't open my heart, I won't be hurt by others, and I won't let others know my weaknesses, so that I can avoid being hurt myself, so I say that adult people have more things to do.

As people grow up and get bigger, they will definitely not say everything like children, because children are a blank slate. I don't know anything, people grow up, I know how to deal with people and things and learn the truth that things are hidden in my heart, and the more contact I have, it will naturally change, and when I grow up, I feel that I can solve problems by my own ability, and it is difficult to open my heart.

In fact, I think the fitting room is a very normal thing, that is, when a person grows up, he can no longer be the same as before, he will tell others everything, sometimes he will choose a person to come, silently bear some pain, or a person silently bear some things, can no longer be as before, everything needs to trouble others, everything needs to tell others.

Because it was found that there were no empathetic people at all.

I used to tell my friends about these things, but at that time, I didn't really feel bad, I just simply lost something, didn't gain anything, comforted a few words, and went out to play.

But now that I'm older, it's hard to be happy, there are more complicated things to deal with in life, and my friends have their own things to do, it's really hard for me to talk to them, and I don't want to affect their mood because of my negative energy.

Because the more you grow up, the more things you think, the more things you encounter, some things can be shared, and some things can only be borne by yourself, in addition to the current society, many people can't see through, they have their own thoughts, I don't know if I can trust them.

The older people get, the more ideas they have, and they always feel that others have plans for them.

When I was a child, everyone didn't have anything, so who cared about whom? You treated me to a piece of candy today, and we're good friends.

It's not the same when you grow up, if you invite me to dinner for no reason, I must think that you have a request for me, the meal is not happy, and things are not good.

The key is that the vast majority of people's personal contacts are like this, and they don't go to the Three Treasures Hall for nothing, so they don't want to make new friends more and more, and they feel tired.

I don't know when I started, but I found that I had fewer and fewer friends around me.

I remember when I was a child, the little friends around me were in groups. Something happy or unhappy. They are willing to tell them about it.

Happy things are shared by everyone. Sad things, I hope to get comfort from my friends.

But the older you get. Something. The more difficult it is to speak. Since then, I feel like I have privacy.

It's hard to tell what you really mean. I also hate letting others know about me. I still feel too proud. I don't want others to see my weak side.

So that one opens up. With friends and relatives around you. Speak the truth.