Do you know why it is so difficult to be happy from the heart as you grow up?

Growing up brings growth, evolution, and a refinement and summary of the things around you and the overall world. Don't feel that you don't have heartfelt happiness when you grow up, it's just that your mind doesn't keep up with the level of the environment around you. Most of the happiness in life ends like this.

In the beginning, you seek this pleasure repeatedly, then you feel nothing, and finally you get bored. As you get older, you have more and more ineffective means of happiness that you have repeatedly used, and you can feel less and less happiness.

When you were a kid, everything you did was something new, so everything was interesting, and when you grew up, you felt that the reason you lost your happiness was that you were doing the same thing over and over again. You are doing very screw work, for example, you collect money at the toll gate every day, and the long-term repetition has already made you lose your freshness, and the repetition has become a huge annoyance, repeating the labor for a day, looking forward to a slight change in the environment after work. You've lived the same life for decades, and your time doesn't have any breadth at all.

It's not interesting for you to play anything, because there's no novelty anymore, and you'll lose your joy forever.

When you were young, the reason why you could play carefree was because of the pain that your parents helped you bear. They help you take the stress out of survival. You don't need to feel pain about the pressure of survival, and you don't have to worry about not being able to meet the opposite sex.

The two most basic human needs, or the two big problems, are survival and reproduction, you can say a little more noble. It's called career and love. When you keep running away from problems and don't solve them, you will have to leave your parents one day, and you will have to face all kinds of problems one day.

At this time, many people began to escape, but it was a problem that had to be solved. Because the desire to succeed, the sense of worth, and the eyes of others are all controlling you. You can't be happy.

When we were children, we felt that happiness was so simple and pure, seeing a cloud on the horizon, a flower on the side of the road, eating a McDonald's, and going to an amusement park can make us feel extremely happy, but in fact, what really makes us "happy from the heart" is actually the kind of carefree life that we don't need to put in any effort and good things can be delivered to the door. Growing up, we slowly learned that life is never easy, and if you feel that happiness comes so easily at a certain time, it is only because someone is paying the price for you.

And growing up is just the process of slowly taking over your life responsibilities from your parents. ‍‍

Happiness is the flexible body. It's the running in the yard in the evening, the dust raised when jumping rope, the hustle and bustle on the court, the heat coming out of the padded jacket, the scars on the legs, and the red fluttering cheeks. Happiness is playing together.

After playing a few times, they became friends, went to the house, discussed secrets and plans, climbed walls and trees together, wrote homework together, and wandered the streets together. I thought this was friendship, and I thought it would never change. When we meet again more than ten years later, we can only greet each other.

When I grow up, there is no such group of people who go crazy together. When the children grow up, the adults will be old, and there will be fewer gatherings. ‍‍

When I was a child, the pattern was too small, I thought less, I was idle, I was a friend when I flipped the card together, and I had nothing to say when I went home together. The male classmate sang Qili Xiang next to you, and you swayed the oar in your heart. I said I like Jay, you say you like it too, we high-fived and became best friends, chatting and laughing together.

Time has worn away many so-called life events, but they stick to their place. Many solemn photos and memorials have been forgotten by me where and for what. Time will leave some fleeting beauty at any time, regardless of youth, regardless of growing up.

And I finally realized that even if they are awakened again, time has passed, and we will never be able to appreciate the beauty of that time from the standpoint we have now. ‍‍

Everyone grows up with their age, the people and things they come into contact with will also change, just like you said, there is no happiness from Nathan's heart, but in fact, it is happy, but there is no carefree happiness before, it can be regarded as pressure, not unhappy, as long as a normal person and a normal family are good, as they get older, you Chunxun's happiness can only be said to be different, and the heart must be full of sunshine, in order to belong to your real happiness!

Because the more you grow up, the more life problems you will face, such as love, friendship, family affection, raising children, providing for the elderly, housing loans, car loans, things, etc., there will be a lot of problems with firewood, rice, oil and salt, so there will be fewer happy covers.

The more you grow up, the more work, life, and social problems you need to face, and the more pressure you need to bear from all aspects of bad luck, and you will naturally feel less and less happiness from the heart.

At this time, you need to adjust your heart, adjust the rhythm of work and life, and the happy collapse will slowly return to you.

Because when we grow up, we will do a lot of jobs that we don't like, and we will be under pressure for a long time, so it is difficult for us to be happy, and it is not easy for us to find the original happiness when we are in trouble.

Because the longer you guess, the higher Sun Da's requirements for happiness. When I was a child, I felt very satisfied as long as I got a little something, such as some snacks and a simple toy. You can be happy for a long time.

And when I grow up, as I grow older and my vision improves, the things I used to feel happy about will feel insignificant, and I have to chase the hall for higher happiness and pay more hard work. Since this pursuit process is also painful, the feeling of happiness is decreasing again.

As the experience of the adults increases, the views on the problem will become more and more transparent, and it will be more and more difficult to find it more and more difficult in this society, and it is difficult for them to be happier and happier, because the more they grow up and understand more, it is difficult to get happiness from the subtle and simple Dongnai Luxi. Happiness comes more from comparing with others, from the desire for money. This happiness only creates a greater sense of emptiness.

On the contrary, it is becoming more and more difficult to satisfy.

As the experience of growing up increases, the views on the problem will become more and more transparent, and it will be more and more difficult to detect quarrels, and it will be difficult for this society to communicate, and it will be difficult for them to be happier.

Because the needs of children are very pure, it is very simple to serve Qiaole.

When you grow up and want more things, the more difficult it is to satisfy your desires and hopes, and it will be difficult to have happiness from the heart.

We've stopped at everything we've got in front of us, we've grown up, we want to make the we bragged about as kids come true one after another, and we desperately want to bring a better life to those who love us and the people we love.

In the final analysis, as we gain more knowledge, our desires increase.

In the past, happiness came easily, the definition of happiness was relatively simple, and in the world of growing up, in addition to studying, eating, sleeping and playing.

If you have a bad score in any exam, you will be scolded by your parents and teachers at most, and it will be good to be sad for a while;

If the quarrel between playmates is awkward, smile and shake hands and return to the original friendliness;

If you can eat a pack of spicy strips, you can be happy all day;

A carefree childhood contains a lot of joy for us, and when we grow up and open the door to the cognitive world, the emotional changes we experience will also be enriched, such as happiness, sadness, joy, happiness, pain, anxiety, heartbreak, etc., which will accompany us throughout our lifetime experience.

As the experience of growing up increases, the view of the problem will become more and more transparent, and it will become more and more difficult for this society to communicate, and it is difficult for them to be happier, because the more they grow up and the more they understand, it is difficult to get happiness from the subtle and simple things. Happiness is more derived from comparison with others, and from the desire for money. This happiness only creates a greater sense of emptiness.

On the contrary, it is becoming more and more difficult to satisfy.

Because as we get older, the things we pursue will collapse more and more, and the things will become more and more difficult to obtain, so it will be difficult for us to have people who are happy from the heart!

Actually, I don't think it's because the older you get, the harder it is to be happy from the bottom of your heart, but because the more you grow up, the more things you think about, the greater your goals. In order to get the goal of self-reliance, I have to work hard, and the pressure is very high, so I feel that when I grow up, I am not as happy as when I was a child.

Hello! Because the more you grow up, as you grow older, there will be more troubles and troubles about the things that are worth it, and there will be more troubles, and the happiness from the heart is childhood, which is carefree, so, as you grow older, you will understand a lot of things, and you will encounter a lot of things to suppress the slippery feelings, so the more you grow up, the more difficult it is to have happiness from the heart.

The older you get, the higher your requirements for happiness. I remember when I was a kid and I felt satisfied just by getting a little bit of something, like some snacks, a simple toy. You can be happy for a long time.

And when I grow up, as I grow older and my vision improves, the things I used to feel happy about feel insignificant, and I want to pursue higher happiness and pay more hard work. Since this process of pursuit is also painful and painful, the feeling of happiness is less, and the happiness that comes from the heart is less.

1.As I get older, I have more responsibilities, and my mentality has gradually matured, and I know that I have a great sense of responsibility. For example, starting a family, paying for the family, raising children, honoring parents, and many other things to worry about will become more and more.

2.There will also be a lot of setbacks at work. Now the pressure of competition will be greater, whether it is in life and work, or in dealing with people. And the longer you go, the more lonely you feel.

3.As I get older, I feel that I don't have enough time, and time will pass quickly. But if you are still far from your goal, you will feel nervous, and you will deny yourself more and lack some self-confidence.

Everyone tries their best to pursue the perfect self. When you can't achieve the life you want, you may be more depressed in your heart. In short, whether it is life or work, I will think about it a lot.

There are a lot of things in our hearts, so if we want to be happy, we need to be able to afford to put them down.

Because the more you grow up, you will face more problems in life, such as love, friendship and friendship, family affection, raising children, providing for the elderly, housing loans, car loans, and so on, there will be a lot of problems with firewood, rice, oil and salt, so there will be less happiness.

Have you noticed that as adults, we have not had a hearty happy experience for a long time, and most of us are busy for work and life.

In my memory, the joy of being a child is simple.

You can lie on the ground and watch the ants move for a long time; You can go to the library for a day; Summer vacation is coming, and I am excited to think that I can go swimming in the pool.

However, as we grow up, we find it harder and harder to be happy from the heart.

Now relive the fun of childhood, but it has long been different.

When I was a child, Xiaobawang was no longer fragrant, and I felt that watching ants move was a boring thing, and I didn't even have the patience to read a book.

The person is still the same person, but the happiness is discounted.

The carefree childhood is the deepest memory in everyone's heart.

As adults, we begin to carry more and more stress. In order to live, we must study and work hard, and we must restrain many desires.

Every day is pretty much the same, almost the same. This kind of life is becoming more and more monotonous, lacking surprises and accidents, and of course it is difficult to be happy.

I remember when I first graduated, moving bricks in the factory, doing mechanical repetitive work every day, such days could be seen at a glance, and I was bored to the point of mold. In the end, I couldn't stand this boring life and chose to leave my job.

But many people are still repeating this kind of day, life is like a pool of stagnant water, the waves are calm, you may be very satisfied, but not happy.

Maybe it's some surprises that break this monotonous life, such as being admitted to the school of your choice, getting a promotion and raise, and confessing success.

What is <> happiness? I believe that many people should have some of their own views and opinions on this issue, happiness is often very simple for us when we are young, a candy, a toy, a delicious meal can make us happy for a long time, excellent transcripts after school, parents' praise, teachers' rewards can also make us happy for a long time, after work the praise of leaders, colleagues also let us experience a happy mood, but also with the passage of time, We can find that the probability of feeling happy is getting smaller and smaller, so many netizens have asked: Why don't you feel happy the more you grow up?

I believe that many people should have a different understanding of this issue. In my cognition, the reason why people grow up and don't feel happy is often because our requirements for happiness are getting higher and higher, when we were young, we didn't have a lot of extravagance from the outside world, as long as we can meet our own requirements, we will be very happy, the most important thing after school is to learn, so all the progress made in learning is the source of our happiness, after work, with the increase in working hours, we find that we have been smoothed out all the edges and corners of life, I can no longer find the feeling of youth at the beginning of anything, I am just living day after day every day, working for my family and children, and there is no part of my own space at all, so happiness will slowly leave us.

So this problem also brings us a certain vigilance, but also makes us reflect on a certain amount of reflection, the reason why happiness is becoming more and more difficult to find the most real reason is nothing more than because we are more and more demanding of each other, so sometimes think about the problem from a different angle, let yourself relax, you will find that the result may be different, which is also unknown, I hope everyone can better relax the pressure in the future, and regain happiness.