It s hard to be a human being, and I ve actually worked hard, but I m still being ridiculed

Let's take a look at Yu Dan's Zhuangzi experience! You demand yourself with someone else's eyes! Do you still have yourself? Besides, other people's requirements are different, can you satisfy everyone?

I can't smoke, I can't drink, I can't punch, I can't flop, so do you think I'm going to be unhappy every day? I can tell you that I have fun every day! Do whatever I want!

Why should you always care what others think of you? Remember: you live for yourself, not for others!

Being a man = being able to play cards and punch boxing?

I don't think you figured it out.

Actually, the people upstairs are right, look at everything. A man lives this time for himself. Don't worry too much about what other people think.

Instead of working hard to learn to play, why not use this studious spirit to study. I think it's more meaningful to learn more about it than to spend time playing.

Think about it.

To say something unpleasant, don't be angry, I think your friends should not be friends with good habits, I advise you to stay away from them, entering the social work does not necessarily have to be able to play any entertainment, you spend the time learning cards in the aspect that is helpful to your work is not better. You don't need to talk about what people are doing with eating, drinking, and having fun. They're leading you to play bad stuff.

Maybe I'm saying more, but you can divide the good and bad yourself.

It doesn't matter what makes people laugh and entertain, why force yourself to do something unhappy, and these are not necessary skills to learn to be a person, use more time to learn survival skills. Your so-called friends may take you to the Bar for drinking and prostitution in the future. Do you think you're going to live like this?

If you want to open up, people live in the world just to make others laugh and laugh, and occasionally laugh at others.

You can't play and you can learn.

It's not easy to learn to play.

You can go to school on QQ by yourself first.

You can see how other masters play cards, and then figure it out for yourself.

The fact that you don't play with these things shows that you were a good student when you were studying.

Don't be afraid, this kind of thing is much easier than advanced mathematics.

Besides, you are working now, as long as you do your job well, and you are not playing cards professionally or professionally. Don't take this ridicule to heart, you may not be able to do anything. Be confident in yourself.

Don't put your heart on that, use it on business.

If you don't like it, don't play it.

..There's nothing to laugh at about this guy who can't play cards, no one can do anything.

You haven't seen the dark side of society yet! You have to adapt to this society!

Your speech is very funny, I have the urge to laugh when I hear it, I believe that your classmates may just be joking, some things don't deliberately argue, it will be better to take a step back. To be an elephant person, don't open your mouth easily, and when you speak, you can say something amazing, improve your persuasiveness, make yourself make fewer mistakes and improve your prestige. I guess that's what's inside.

Let the spirit become strong, a person with a strong spirit is fearless and has a strong aura.

Go your own way and let others say go! They laugh at you, but they can't do anything to you, as long as you slow down the pace of your progress now, you will get a different kind of vision in some days.

There is also a classmate in our class who is in a similar situation to you. Our whole class bullied him, he was worse than you, and if there was any bad thing, the classmates in the class would let him carry the black pot and tear up his homework. Break his chair.

In fact, you really don't have to care too much, although he is ostracized, he still joins in the fun every day, and we don't talk about him too much, just be yourself. You just have to concentrate on your studies, and you don't go to school for these things.

We've done this before, bullying some of our classmates, but now that we think about it, we regret it. I feel very sorry for people. The only thing you have to do now is to be strong and hard, go back and tell your parents about the things in school, your parents will definitely help you, your parents should tell the teacher, if the parents don't take the initiative to tell the teacher, you should ask your parents to tell your teacher about what your classmates have done to you, and let the parents and teachers guide and scare other children, so that they will not dare to discriminate against you blatantly.

Also, you must be tough and confident. Don't be afraid, kids!

Attitude determines everything, character determines the future, just like the question you asked today, you are not confident, otherwise you would not complain to us, you can only rely on yourself to change the status quo, others just play an enlightening role, try to find your own reasons, you can ask for help from your best friends, and see if you have something bad or disgusting to pay more attention to after you put it up.

Maybe they're disappointed in you, but don't be discouraged, gold always shines.

If you resist, stop one, and the others will not dare to say anything.

The old man often swears. Alas.

The more you are afraid of what you are facing, the more it will come to you. So the more you are afraid of being ridiculed by others, the more you will be laughed at by the crowd. Look at the opening point.

Who has grown up so old and hasn't done a few bad things. Just let him go with a smile. How can you succeed if you keep making mistakes?

Stupid people have a knack for being stupid. Just make yourself careful.

Go your own way, let others do what you think, and do what you think is right.

Whether you have failed or succeeded, it has passed, no one will pay attention to your failures, no one will remember your successes, only you know that you will become stronger and stronger in each experience.

Don't care if people are smart, it's useless to envy anyone, don't be arrogant, if you don't push yourself, you don't know how good you are, failure is terrible, isn't it, you don't do anything and it's even more terrible to think about failure there, remember that you don't have so many audiences, afraid of ridicule? Why should people laugh at you, and why should they care what they think of you?

Take your confidence and put yourself in your shoes. Failure is an episode of success, and without failure, how can you know what success is. In fact, everyone has the psychology of fear of failure, as long as you overcome the inferiority complex in your heart, bravely work towards your own goals, even if the results are not satisfactory, a clear conscience is the best.

There is one thing you lack in yourself, and that is the courage to face failure after hard work.

You don't have the habit of having two hands in mind, and you should budget for the worst and the best before you do everything. That way you won't get hurt too much.

To live is to struggle.

So I'm generally not working very hard (.).

Smart people have high IQs or something, alas, can't compare.

First of all, you must have self-confidence to ensure the integrity of what you do, and then you must be confident that others can't find thorns, don't take other people's words too seriously, every sentence is a tempering, stand up, and it will be fine after a long time.

Only in the voice of everyone's doubts will there be development, no matter what they say, you do yours.

If you work hard but you can't be a person (not optimistic, open-minded, like to calculate, don't want to suffer), others don't like you!

You must know that you are just a human being, not God, it is impossible to make everyone satisfied with you, the only thing to do is to relax and be yourself, time will prove you.

It's good to work on your own. Don't care too much about other people's opinions. It's too tiring to live like that.

As long as you think it's right, then don't care if others recognize it or not.

You don't have to let others recognize you, you just have to do your best and do your thing well, just have a clear conscience.

What people can see is always the result, and the bitterness of the process is never cared about.

Don't care about others, be yourself, there is no need to please others, if you don't get affirmation, it may be that the method or direction of your efforts is wrong, adjust it well.

You can beg the Bodhisattva to be an animal in the next life.

Why doesn't anyone understand, why doesn't anyone understand me? I've worked hard, but still some people think I'm not good at it? I wonder why no one understands me as a human being?

I've tried my best, but why doesn't anyone understand me? I've worked hard, but still some people think I'm not good at it? I think I'm a good person, why doesn't anyone understand me?

I've worked hard, but still some people think I'm not good at it? I feel so tired of being a human being. Think I can't do it?

I feel so tired of being a human being. Nobody understands me? I've worked hard, but still some people think I'm not good at it?

I feel so tired of being a human being. Tired.? I've worked hard, but some people still think why don't anyone understand me?

I've worked hard, but still some people think I'm not good at it? I feel so tired of being a human being. No?

I feel so tired of being a human being.

Classmate, I would like to send you a word: it is better to be discouraged than to be angry. This is a society where the law of the jungle eats the strong, and your efforts may not be rewarded, and the belief that you will get what you work hard is no longer of practical significance.

You work hard, but your grades are still not satisfactory, but you know very well in your heart the efforts you have made, so you are very sensitive to the teacher's evaluation, and any hint of impulsive tone will make you feel sad. In fact, you don't have to care about her words and deeds, you are you, she is her. Think about it from another angle, she is just the person you paid to teach you, you can't be angry with her, and after graduation, she still goes her own way.

If you still care a lot about your teacher's opinion and use her evaluation as a criterion to affirm the value of your life, then you keep working hard until the day she changes her opinion of you, even if she still does, what does it matter? Your parents will be proud of you, your friends will envy you, and those who have better grades than you will have some admiration for your efforts. Every Chinese New Year, your aunts and uncles, and relatives will still treat you as an angel.

Right? If it is a teacher's problem, there are many possibilities, such as her quality is not high, she does not understand education, or the family has a bad relationship with her father-in-law, female menopause, she is demanding perfection, and she only values those who have good academic performance. I'm under too much pressure at work, and I'm being bullied by my colleagues. ......What a mess.

You don't care about him, because you're not her emotional trash can.

Some efforts can be seen and touched, and some efforts cannot be verified.

Will he stay with you for the rest of his life? If you don't care about these words from him, will he affect your life and studies? Is the focus of your life listening to the endless chatter of others, or trying to go abroad for graduate school?

There is a good saying: "Don't torture yourself with others".

Besides, "no one says behind anyone's back, and no one says anything behind everyone's back." If you can't even tolerate such things, then when you go into society, such people abound, then aren't you so depressed that you can't do anything? In fact, "the prime minister can hold the boat in his belly", and those who want to do great things regard this as a rare opportunity to hone themselves!

It is understandable that everyone's educational environment is different, which naturally leads to different personality differences.

The key to your problem is that you don't have the right attitude towards him. In another scenario, if he were your very good friend, I think you would just think it was just a joke!

Go your own way and let others say go! "Look at your goal, and things that have nothing to do with it will become very light.

This kind of person is clearly against you. I think he thinks it's you who stiffened his relationships, isn't it, you have to review this. He is against you at every turn, and if you have ever said anything bad about him in front of others, if so, I advise you to change your mind immediately.

If so, you need to review it properly. No, of course, is better. You can try to say good things about him in front of others, and be more persistent, that is, let you speak for a while.

Over time, these words will always reach his ears. He may still think you're hypocritical. But you still say it, make him feel guilty, and he will change it.

Sometimes you can take the initiative to help him and do small things. Maybe he deliberately stumbled you at first, but you have to endure it. External pressure will force him to think of your actions.

Build a good relationship with you. You can give it a try.

The undisputed man of the world. However, there are still people who are jealous of me.

I'm a little bit good, but it's not a big deal.

I studied very well, majored and spoke good English. Because, I like to learn. And now that the employment pressure is so great, I still plan to study abroad. I'm busy with graduate school entrance exams now. I'm pretty good at football.

It's not handsome, but it's a pretty handsome little boy.

Buddy! Come up and pretend to be high!! Cattle people are evaluated by others"! And not what you say!

Let's lower my status first!!

There are 1 more bad guys! This society is also very realistic!! Learn to cope with everything!!

Enough to live!

However, there was still someone who was jealous of me. His character is very poor. Selling books and radios to deceive classmates (much more expensive than selling outside, and later quit under everyone's pressure)...

He smoked alone in the dormitory, which affected everyone. He studied very poorly and finished last. And also cheating.

His popularity is not good, and everyone knows about his ugly things!

Is this the standard by which you look at people?