My ex girlfriend wants me to accompany her for medical expenses, should I give it to her

Don't give. You want to show that you are quite responsible.

But think about it. Just broke up with you and immediately got engaged to someone else, which means that she doesn't necessarily only focus on you when you're together.

Besides, she volunteered at the time, why do you want medical expenses?

Do you still want to give it to her?

Purely personal opinion!!

If a man is stingy, his merits are halved; If a man is generous, its disadvantages are halved. If a man is a barrel, stinginess may be the shortest barrel.

Think about whether you should be stingy or generous.

Don't expand the business of the two of you to the matter of three people, I mean in this case, it's your business with her, and the other thing about her engagement with someone else. You should be responsible, you know?

Don't you give it to you or a man! I've never seen such a cheap man like you! Is this a question! Your responsibility! You should take it upon yourself! Need to have questions!

Personal opinion: You just broke up, she got engaged to someone else, you know if she is for what reason, is it revenge on you or she doesn't care about marriage at all, if it is the former aspect, it depends on the situation, the money is not a lot of words to give, after all, there has been a period of time, if there is more money, forget it, since they are engaged to others, don't mention the past, this is how the society is. If it's the latter reason, it's not good.

Purely personal opinions, it's no wonder that there is inappropriate language.

When we feel pain, think of others who are more painful than we are.

It should be given. People should be worthy of themselves and have a clear conscience.

Didn't understand your question.

Clean up your own troubles.

You still ask about this... What do you think of it yourself?

I think, isn't it neat for a girlfriend to go with her when her boyfriend is sick? Why is it clearly taking medical expenses?

Since it's a girlfriend, whether it's a day or a year, she's your cousin's girlfriend...

Of course, the girl your cousin met may be an exception, some people will prefer to use their boyfriend's money, this depends on your cousin, if your cousin is willing, then there is no way to do it.

But this money-conscious girl, if she shouldn't in the future, is probably not a good partner to get married.

In fact, it is normal for a man to pay a woman's medical expenses, but this woman is quite excessive, and she should have taken the initiative to take out her medical insurance card, isn't that saving some money, and saying that with your cousin, she doesn't have to take it, and she has the meaning that a man should take the initiative to pay, so this woman can't.

If there is really a difficulty, it can help, but this woman's own ability to pay is really too much, your cousin's girlfriend is obviously the kind of person who loves to take advantage, this is just the acquaintance like this, I don't know how much it will be in the future, you have to give it next time, it is not good to give less, she will definitely kick your brother as soon as she meets someone who gives more money, this kind of woman is too unreliable to only love money, break up as soon as possible, otherwise your brother will suffer in the future.

I think that woman is a bit excessive, and after two months of getting along, she always asks your brother to spend money, I feel that such a person is unreliable, in the end, does she want to find someone to pay or a boyfriend? If you spend a long time together, it is another matter if you truly love each other. I feel that your brother's girlfriend is not really dating your brother, so she just divided it up and wasted time and money.

Agree, look for those who need you, not those who need your money.

It's a bit excessive, and it's not going to be the way to do it for a long time.

Maybe, lovers can't do it, and friends can't do it.

Uh, you mean she's just bored and looking for someone to spend time with? If you have a chance to get back together, and you still love her, I think you can go; But you also know that she still has a boyfriend, and her boyfriend can't accompany her in the field, so she asks you to accompany her, which is obviously to use you as a spare tire, of course, I don't know very well, it ultimately depends on what you mean, I hope it can help you, good luck!

If you don't go, you'd better not go to such a thing, because how do you know that her boyfriend won't come back, and if she comes back, which one of you says, even if you don't come back, you have to keep your distance.

Do you think it's appropriate for you to accompany her? People have boyfriends, but they are not around, in what capacity did you go, don't forget that there is a word called "before" in front of your boyfriend.

You can go, but you can't cross the line, and if you don't think it's okay, it's better not to go.

I'll just go and look for nothing, and it feels good.

The main thing is to look for some happy memories.

Then go Either side has no company anyway.

If you break up, don't contact again.

If someone's boyfriend comes back and beats you up, will you still go?

Hehe, if she's a good woman, then go, you have a girlfriend now before you go to him, I suggest you have to be psychologically measured!

Do you have a girlfriend now?

If you have, don't go. No, it's up to you whether you want to go or not.

Do you still love her? If you love, you go, and if you don't love, you don't go.

Look at what kind of mentality you should have to face her!!

No, absolutely not!

If you do this, your parents will be angry and your girlfriend will be implicated. His parents don't want you to go without a job either. You quit your job for her, and she's more stressed.

First of all, you try to spend as much time as you can with her. Although it is hard, it shows your sincerity even more.

Secondly, discuss with your girlfriend about work, whether you want to change jobs nearby, but be prepared, you can't quit without a brain, and you must do a good job of preparation after resignation.

If I were that girl, I would think, if I call ** occasionally, care more about my life, just chat with me, there is no need to quit her job In that case, she will feel very uncomfortable and guilty.

You work during the day. I can accompany you at night. There's no need to be with you 24 hours a day.

There is no material foundation to talk about what to do, and when the career is successful, no one can wait for it.

I want to accompany you, but there is no need to resign

First ask your ex-girlfriend what the reason for her sudden appearance is, whether it is because the current relationship is not smooth, you can enlighten her as a friend, after all, you have had a relationship. If she doesn't want to say more, it's probably because of the above.

If you're single and don't have a girlfriend, you can take her around.

If you already have a girlfriend, you have to make it clear to her that you are not single now, you can't play with her for more than ten days, and if she has something to talk to, you can talk to you. You will do what you can to help her.

This matter is obvious, she still has you in her heart, and she wants to find the feeling of being with you, I think you shouldn't refuse this matter, if you have a new girlfriend now, then you should tell your girlfriend, make it clear in front of you, just accompany her for a few days, if you don't have a girlfriend now, then you should accompany her, after all, you have been in love 、、、

I feel like you already have the answer.

Basically, you just don't want to be together anymore, you just feel like you're weak. I can't get past myself.

Then tell all about her, how ugly it is, and some friends encourage you. Support you. I can understand that.

I want to tell you. Have you ever thought about the rest of your life? Now that it's like this, how will it be in the future? Is your life still interesting?

I give you courage. You were going to leave 2 years ago. Please don't say that I will ask someone to beat him, and don't teach someone to divide his wife.

But this is really too much. Change your phone, change your place and work hard to make money! You are a human being, and after earning your first pot of gold, you will find a man who is not greedy for your money.

Because you're taking too much care of your girlfriend and loving your girlfriend too much.

The bottom line is that you can't use the family's money to treat her illness, if you can't get through your conscience, you can earn money to help her, if you can't earn it, leave, the long pain is better than the short pain!

Are you really sick? Still playing CF every day? It can't be a partnership to deceive you, right?

If you are really sick, even if you are doing charity, you have to do your best, and if you can't borrow it, there is no way;

You are not married, and it is not your duty to take care of her;

If you don't have the ability, it's better to explain it as soon as possible and leave as soon as possible; Maybe she and her father would come up with something else.

I don't even know why you're with her anymore, just do what you can, it's unbearable, there's no need to endure it, illness is not a reason, the relationship is to be maintained by both parties.

If you do this again, what else do I have to be nostalgic for I don't want it to be a memory You just say that If she doesn't understand you Say goodbye If you don't say it, I look down on people like you.

The gap between the ideal and the reality, everyone has their own lives, friends, do what you can, and rest when you are tired.

Let's stay with us. After all, it's his former woman.

If you don't have feelings, you don't have to go, so as not to be slimy in the future.

From an emotional point of view, it is possible to go.

If from a dirty point of view, then must go.

Feelings should be cared for, and friends should also be cared for.

Don't go, the lotus root is broken, and the trouble continues.

Women can be very selfish sometimes

Since I don't have feelings for her anymore, I think it's better not to go. If you go, she will think that you still care about her, and she asks to get back together, so what should you do, refuse her? That broke her heart again. Accept her, you have no feelings for her, and it is not good for yourself.

Tell you to go.,Then go down.,,Anyway, I don't have a girlfriend now.。。。

No, it's an ethical issue, and if you feel that you can care about the so-called ethics, then I support you.

Then don't go, don't give her hope, think you still have a chance, and then cruelly tell her that you can't do it, it hurts so badly.

Ask her what happened, if something serious really happened, let's go, after all, we must have loved each other and can be friends.