Should I tell my husband?

Updated on society 2024-04-23
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It is true that you will encounter such problems in marriage and work, but since your lover does not like some of your friends, ...He has his reasons and thoughts, in your feelings he is a friend, and in his feelings, such a friend will bring you badly, so he doesn't want you to associate with them too much, this is his most sensitive area.

    And for the situation you said, if it is possible not to say it as much as possible, put such a thing in your heart and forget it, and take it as a lesson to learn to pay attention and measure, because, if you say it, your lover's personality is already sensitive, especially for such things It is even more sensitive, once he knows, whether there is something or not, the feelings between you will be hurt, and the trust will break, and if such trust is gone, it will be very difficult to establish it again, It can even trigger a divorce.

    And no matter what kind of work you are for, there are still some details and personality habits in your life that are out of place with your lover, you should take him into account first, and be able to build real trust between you, otherwise even if you get away with this time, you will make the same mistakes in the future, and your marriage will break up in the same way.

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  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you drink all the wine, you shouldn't be a good person.

    Cut off contact with them, and don't tell your husband first, because the consequences are so serious.

    After all, it's not your fault, and you didn't do anything.

    This is also a white lie.

    If you love him, you should give up some of the things you like for him.

    After all, men have self-esteem and love face.

    How can it be easy for your wife to be like other men?

    If I were a man, I would have divorced, even though it is a modern society.

    But it's better for women to be conservative.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your husband is worried about you, and I think no matter how important the customer is, you should be able to find an excuse to excuse yourself. Because in addition to working hours, your private life should be separated from work, and it is better not to tell your husband about this matter, but there is not only one way to deal with things, if you want to say no, don't you think that family is more important to you?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's better not to tell, although there will be some feelings for him, but it's better than divorce, and divorce will make both people miserable. But you still don't want to do anything that makes your husband angry in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's not a matter of whether to say it to your husband or not, you have to learn to protect yourself.

    Let's see if there is another way to solve it, and if it goes on like this, if something happens, you will regret it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't say it, otherwise he will definitely be angry and suspicious.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Here are some possible reasons:1. Protect your privacy: Your husband may think that this incident will not have any negative impact on the marriage of the people who are watching you, so he wants to protect his privacy.

    2. Protect your feelings: Your husband may be worried that telling you about it will hurt or disappoint you.

    3. Simple and innocuous itch: Peimu may think that this is just some trivial matter, and there is no need for you to know.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This depends on the personality traits of the other half, and cannot be generalized.

    If the other half is a cautious and blind, don't tell him (her), tell him (her), it will only increase his (her's) psychological burden and mental pressure, you will be more uneasy, and will guard against you everywhere, if you are together in the future, if there is a conflict, he will turn this matter out and say things, which is not conducive to the smooth development of the emotional life between you, and you can deal with it in private.

    If the other half is confident, generous, and cheerful, and cares about you. You can boldly tell him that if you face it correctly and handle it correctly, it will be easier to deal with this matter well. It is easy to explain what happened in the future and grinding.

    So as not to cause unnecessary trouble in the future.

    So decide based on what you know about your significant other, and don't act rashly.

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  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Own deposits. Women should save money, don't always reach out to men to ask for money, that kind of taste is believed to be the vast majority of women have tasted.

    Two: own salary. Don't tell your husband stupidly how much your monthly salary is, or a man will always have money to spend.

    Three: Don't tell your husband about your past unbearable experience, and don't let you shake it out when you quarrel one day, which will make you miserable. Let these rot in the stomach.

    Four: Don't tell your husband about the bad things that happened to your mother's family, men don't care too much about your so-called mother's family. It's just because of you that I feel that there is a little bit of a relationship.

    Five: I should often say that I am dissatisfied with my husband's parents and complain, and I must fight my wit!

    Six: Don't talk about the awkwardness with your parents! Everyone has privacy and makes mistakes, as long as it is not conducive to the relationship between husband and wife, try not to mention it to your husband.

    Men are strongly possessive, and the deeper they are for you, the more they care about you, especially your emotional experiences. Try to keep a good image of your purity and simplicity in his mind, even the slightest flaw will cause him rich associations and jeopardize your marriage. Premarital love history and emotional issues are your minefield and must not be touched.

    After marriage, the two live together, but they have their own social circles, their own privacy, their own preferences, their own friends, and a series of problems in their mother's family.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's already like this, and you're still very good to him, just aiding and abusing. It is very unfavorable for the child to grow up in this environment, although it is said that persuasion and not persuasion, but your appeasement has made him fearless. If you don't get divorced, do you think that a man eats too much fishy and eats too much, and he will change his mind if you say a few words?

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