My first love will never come back. I m so unwilling. How do you ask yourself to give up?

Friends should put down or let go, let it be! It's so easy to say that it's so easy to give up, after all, if you really want to forget her, you just find something else to do, it's best to be busy and idle, and leave the rest to time to help you!

Give up and find another girl to cherish.

Dude: Can you get acquainted?

In a way, I'm about the same as you.

I've also always been in love with my first love, because I'm idealistic and believe in Plato. (Despise the Chinese education system here, and I accept the Communists.) Give birth. The party's materialist education for more than 10 years is still idealistic, which shows how failed China's education is).

But just yesterday I decided to give up chasing her (which was a lot of deliberation) and the journal was written to show her the day when she was in a good mood (I her off, a little bit serious).

Although it is contrary to my view of love, but in the face of reality, I bow my head, and I also advise you to see a little clearly, and let it go.

Are you in early love, there are a lot of them now. Because he is young and frivolous, he says that he will last forever, and when it is good, it will be fatal, and when it is bad, he will never ignore it. Time will dilute everything, that's absolutely.

First love may be beautiful, but at the beginning of a love, perhaps, love is really not the first choice, I think the state should focus on learning. There may be love from a student to the marriage hall, but you never know if that person is you, winning the bet is a double gain in love and career, and losing the bet you have nothing. Maybe you both like each other very much, so why don't you agree together, and then be together in the future, at this time everyone has the ability to love each other, and they will not hide it, but everyone envy everyone's blessings.

I am a prospective senior high school student, I heard our teacher say a sentence, you think you have met the best now, but when you have a gap, he may be on 211 or 985 and you are just a two, maybe he will say it's okay, I still like you, but a good school and a good environment will have better people, and you will only have more and more gaps. If you really like it, you should make a mutual agreement and promote each other to be together after you are admitted to university in the future. To put it simply, it's not about giving up, it's about working together.

So you have to admit that the reality is that men are inherently animals with a desire to conquer and challenge, and years of steady selling comfort are tantamount to plundering their nature. When they find that they are living a life with their first love that can be seen at a glance, they will choose to challenge the new people and things they have never encountered. The time and energy spent with their first love is nothing more than for them.

It's just the accumulation of a woman's experience. But having said that, I still feel that this question needs to be seen dialectically: this can't help but remind me of a pair of men and women, the girl is the first love and the boy is the first person to kiss her, so she asks the boy not to break up and love her for a lifetime

First love, you kissed me, you will be responsible for me to the end.

You should forget your first love as soon as possible and face your new life with a positive attitude, so that you won't be so entangled.

Adjust your mentality, don't let yourself think of your ex anymore, the hall Hengshen found his true feelings for pretending to be a loser, and usually put more pressure on himself at work, so that he has no time to think of the other party.

You can look forward, don't think about the past, and then you can focus on your career and make yourself better.

Maybe when encountering this situation, everyone's heart is sad, and even a little persistent, always thinking about why they love him so much, but in the end they can't get him.

It is precisely because of such an idea that it is likely to entangle, will force, and in the end only end up with one injury, and the other party is completely indifferent.

If you love someone, you must be together, this varies from person to person, some people will feel that if you love someone, you must find a way to be together, and some people will put this love silently in their hearts, and he will look at him from afar, for her, this is also a kind of happiness.

Forced love will not last long, forced people will not be happy, everyone has some obsessions in love, when the person you like doesn't like you, or two people who love each other are separated for some reason, in this case, there will often be a lot of reluctance in the heart.

Many people will not be able to let go after a breakup, nothing more than nostalgia for his kindness to you, reluctant to give up the good memories of the past, every time I think back to these, I will feel like returning to him.

But the more reluctant you are, the more you will not be able to let go, the more reluctant you are, the more you will make yourself miserable, and when you can't love, the best thing to do is to take a step back and open the sky, rather than continue to entangle, which is not good for anyone.

No matter how beautiful the past is, it is also a thing of the past, no matter how good he is to you, he will never come back, don't cling to it, don't be nostalgic for the past, tell yourself to look forward.

If you can't love, then let go of the nostalgia for the past, only in this way can you get out of this relationship faster and move forward bravely.

Leave the wrong feelings.

The more you can't get something, the more you want to get it, this is the common nature of human beings, but can you get it by forcing it? It might just make you more uncomfortable.

If you know that the other party doesn't love you, then stop the loss in time, don't continue in a wrong relationship, that is the biggest harm to yourself.

For love, we can only go with the flow, obey the arrangement of fate, and force it not to come.

Some people are lucky to meet the person who has been with them all their lives at the beginning, while some people have to search for the right person to meet them.

In this waiting process, maybe you will experience some love but can't, at this time, you must learn not to force, only in this way, it is possible to reap the happiness in the future.

I don't know what you mean by this inconclusive? Is it impossible to achieve the union of the two parties, or is it due to the influence of objective factors that lead to the inability to unite? If it is the latter, all difficulties can be overcome, because there is the support of love, and there is the first love.

Junior high school. Get to know each other better. And love for each other.

If all of these are available. You can do it all over again. Of course.

Counterpart. Having already chosen to leave, that's another matter. The other party should be respected.

Choosing is also respecting yourself.

In fact, you already have the answer in your heart, but you just want to get a positive reply from others, now that you already know the result. Don't repeat it.

If there is no result, you can go, what do you want, and you can't get results back and forth.

When he doesn't love you, don't lose your self-confidence. Because loving someone is not his excellence, but just a feeling, he makes you feel like this, even if you love him, the same, he doesn't love you, it's not that you are not excellent, excellent is not a reason for love, look at so many people who love themselves, smile faintly, it is also strangely sweet!

When he doesn't love you, you must bless him, with love, there will be no hate, love is beautiful, but hate is ugly, why make the best things in life ugly? Don't feel unfair, Guan Gan separated, he lost a person who loved him, and you lost a person who didn't love yourself, but you got a chance to live again, to love again!

When he doesn't love you, please don't think about forever, love is not forever, you love deeply at the moment, but you are destined to stop loving him one day in the future, he just arrived at this day one step earlier than you. When he doesn't love you, please gently embrace the warmth in the memories and gently gaze at the withering tenderness!

When he doesn't love you, my dear, please take a deep breath, the road of life is paved with flowers of love, there is always one that belongs to you, this is not to comfort you, but, this is destined for all generations!

Some people will always be engraved in their memory, even if they forget their voice, forget their smile, forget their face, but whenever they think of them, the feeling will never change...

A person always has to take a strange road, see a strange scenery, listen to a strange song, and then in a casual moment, you will find that the things that you originally tried so hard to forget are really forgotten...

Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, let everything tend to be dull, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget, and forgetting is not just a lip service, but also to see what type of person you belong to, if you are emotional, It's best to find something or activity that attracts your attention to distract your feelings. Or go crazy and play with your best friends. It's best not to listen to any love songs, otherwise you will backfire. I don't know about the other types.,You have to face everything yourself.,No one can help you.,You have to walk your own way.。。。

If you really want to forget someone, learn to let go of something and let your mind go, instead of thinking about it constantly, time will make you slowly forget.

.If you don't want to forget, hide your love deep in your heart.

It's said so, but love is love, and you want to forget? It's hard to forget, and if anyone says yes, it's just self-deception. There are many things that cannot be forgotten.

There are many things, and when you turn around, it will be a lifetime, so if you should cherish it, don't give up easily; When you can hold hands, don't just stand shoulder to shoulder. If you love, you love well, and if you miss it, you will lose it forever.

Look at how much you like the other person, if you really like the other person, even if you ignore you, you may not give up. It also depends on how much change there is between you, there are some feelings, the past is the past, and there is no way to get it back.

The separation between you and your first love is not only because you are young, but you meet the right person but are doing the wrong thing, or it may be just that the hormones are in your brain at that time, and you don't know whether you are suitable for each other, whether your three views, mentality, and interests are the same, and you are together.

But even if you don't think about these issues, when you get along, these issues will still be exposed, showing the disharmony between you.

Therefore, the first love, not only because the timing is not right, but maybe, it is really the wrong person.

That's why she didn't want to pay attention to you after you separated. She probably also clearly realized that you are not the kind of soul-interesting person she wants to pursue, you only think about yourself, you are not even willing to pay, and it is three minutes of heat to pursue a person.

If you want to recover your first love, if it's really that easy, there will be no beauty like a broken mirror reunion, which is commendable, and it is precisely because it is difficult to get that you will know how to cherish it more. What I didn't want was that you had already started to think about giving up and not continuing to pursue!?

If you really like the other person and really want to chase them back, and you encounter difficulties, your attitude should be to go up to the difficulty. And not to back down.

It can be seen that your feelings for her, to a large extent, are not deep enough and not true enough. Perhaps, you just don't want to be separated. People who really like her should continue to pursue and know her mind, not that she ignores me, I don't want it, forget it, so be it.

What do you think? So, before you decide whether you want to continue or not, what you need to do is to figure out why she ignored you. What exactly did she think?

After the breakup, she figured out that the gap between you is too big to be together at all, and when you are together, there will only be constant quarrels, rather than this, it is better to separate and not repeat the mistakes of the past?

When you broke up, you said not to contact again, but now you are disturbing her life, her original love for you has disappeared, and now you are pursuing it like this, for her, it is like a stranger courting, and there will naturally be a sense of resistance?

Or, you don't want to be chased home easily, reduce your worth, let you get easily, you won't cherish it, want to see, will you continue to pursue, or the same as before?

A woman's heart, a needle under the sea. But since you want to get this needle, you naturally need to put in a lot of hard work. Now, it depends on whether you love her or not, and whether she is willing to accept you......If you love her, you will act and put in the effort, so that you will not regret it again, right?

I think it's better not to continue, although the first love is beautiful, but after all, she was once, it's better to let go.

First love is probably people's best love. Most of the first love happens in high school or college, because at that time we are not sensible, we are very simple, we think about few things, we think about very few things, we only have our other half in our minds, and we don't think too complicated, so we will feel that the first love is very beautiful. First love teaches us what love is, what it is to let go, and what it is to let go for love, we will meet all kinds of love and all kinds of people in the future, but she does not have the feeling that first love brings us.

In this way, it feels like the first love can't be together, but in fact, many first loves are also lifelong love.

If you have an unfortunate breakup with your first love and the relationship has come to an end, you must remember this beauty, because this beauty is very simple. You can choose to recover your love, but if you can't recover it, you must not force it, which means that you have become a thing of the past, you have grown up, and the other party has discovered or has your new love. Therefore, what is past should be allowed to pass, and should not be immersed in it and unable to extricate himself.

It's not necessarily a good thing for you to pursue it so stubbornly. Whether it is for you or for her, everyone needs to start their own new life, not immersed in the past, since she rejects you means that he has seen it, then her greatest hope is to see you can also see and find her beloved other half.

You need to find someone who is right for you now, someone who can spend your life with you, she doesn't have to be your first love, but it will definitely be beautiful.

First love is love, but the love after that is still love, don't lose one or the other, lose true love.